I know the first comment will be “don’t eat where you shit”, that’s not helpful. We’re both in our mid 20s and our current job is not a career, just something to pay the bills. We work in different departments, so while we have to coordinate on occasion we don’t work side by side. I’m also considering moving to a different city so even in the worst case scenario this is not going to ruin either of our lives. Anyway, I am interested in this coworker and I think she’s interested as well based on body language and how we talk. We get along well and have a lot of shared interests, we both frequently make excuses to talk to each other and we just keep talking until someone interrupts us or we feel like we need to get back to work. I would like to talk to her more, ideally outside of work. My question is, would it be better to approach her as a friend first and ask her to “hang out” or should I be more direct and ask her to “go out” with me? I was thinking I would say something like, “hey...

Before you call me an asshole, let me explain. Is it really that bad to try and get a girl to like you if she is taken and has been in a relationship for 3 years? The whole purpose of dating is to get married. Otherwise why date? It shouldn't take 3 years to propose. There is no reason to date longer than 1 year without proposing. Exceptions are if you are waiting to finish college. Am I wrong? Submitted March 02, 2022 at 01:07AM Before you call me an asshole, let me explain. Is it really that bad to try and get a girl to like you if she is taken and has been in a relationship for 3 years? The whole purpose of dating is to get married. Otherwise why date? It shouldn't take 3 years to propose. There is no reason to date longer than 1 year without proposing. Exceptions are if you are waiting to finish college. Am I wrong?

Im a 25yr old female, I've been single for 5 years now minus some flings. Feeling really low on the dating front, with rejection, feeling like I'm not going to find someone who loves me. Asking myself "what's wrong with me" when I know fully that I am great and I have so much confidence and self assurance but feel so low when it comes to dating. Using dating apps has just brought disappointment which I feel lowers my feeling of self worth. Ghosting Chatting for months with nothing coming to fruition. I met a guy that I felt super super compatible with, we have all the same interests and got on amazingly and said that he cared for me but he said he wasn't ready for anything romantic, to him telling me 1.5 months later he's seeing someone now. Just makes a girl feel shitty and makes me feel like I'm not "good enough" I have spent that past 5 years getting to know me and I enjoy being single and questioned if i was ready for any commitment. ...

I am currently seeing a guy who I would like to end up in a relationship with in a near future but before we make things official I would like to have a conversation with him about his view points on the relationships, life goals etc. however I am not sure what are some of the important questions a person need to ask before getting into a relationship with someone. So here I am wondering if you guys can help me out. Plz 🙏🏻 Submitted March 02, 2022 at 01:10AM I am currently seeing a guy who I would like to end up in a relationship with in a near future but before we make things official I would like to have a conversation with him about his view points on the relationships, life goals etc. however I am not sure what are some of the important questions a person need to ask before getting into a relationship with someone.So here I am wondering if you guys can help me out. Plz 🙏🏻

Pardon because this is a little long. I have been seeing this friend of mine for the last 3 months. Earlier this month, she told me that we should take a step back and take things slower and bring things back to more of a “friend level”. She stated that she doesn’t want to stop hanging out because of how much fun she has with me. I just assumed she was letting me down gently after she said we should just be friends/take things at a slower pace. So I didn’t contact her for a week and a half to try heal over the hurt feelings and move on. Monday last week, I had posted on a social media story that I was playing a show that coming Friday which she saw. Then she texted me Thursday asking why I didn’t check with her to see if she wanted to go, being facetious. We talked for a bit and she asked to hangout again that weekend which I agreed to for Saturday. Then the next day she wished me a good show. Saturday came and she ended up bailing because she was spending time with her family, whi...

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I’ve been seeing this guy since November of 2021. He’s been nothing but friendly, funny, and super supportive . He took me out on nice dates and brought me work shoes when I didn’t have the money, and made me lunches that tasted amazing. Pretty much, he’s been a terrific guy. Recently I decided I trusted him to go over his apartment and have sex. At this point, we’ve been dating for four months, and I trusted him enough to move forward with a sexual relationship I got dressed in a very nice black dress, put up my best, most excellent smelling lotion, shaved everything except my damn eyebrows and head, and put on a matching set of my black lingerie. I’m serious, ladies. I was as smooth as a baby ass I was planning on doing a lot that night. We get his place. Everything is going good, and he’s kissing just the way like. I’m enjoying myself the whole time up until he turns on all the lights….Now I’m not trying to be super judgmental, and I know we all have our bad days and don’t want t...