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/u/MadTom65 on How young is too young to know that you're ace?

My oldest son knew when he was in 6th grade. His younger brother and sister were a little older, but still before age 20 February 26, 2020 at 12:16AM

/u/the_meagasaurus on I dont care about politics!! (RANT)

Actually modern right-wing libertarians support the state in enforcing laws so the rights of others are not encroached upon. What your referring to is actually anarchism which is in favor of removal of the state. I would just like to say that I will no longer be responding to you seeing as how I don't think we're getting anywhere. Let's just agree to disagree and leave it at that. I enjoyed the conversation though. February 26, 2020 at 12:07AM

/u/the_meagasaurus on I dont care about politics!! (RANT)

Actually, Mises was an advocate of 19th- 20th century libertarianism which is different from modern right-wing libertarianism, and also seeing as how Mises supported fascism and slavery back in the 40s and 50s and how the leaders of many political parties change their tune as society progresses, I think it's safe to say that those ideals are not seen in the majority of the modern day party. I would also like to say that I am not going to continue to responding to you seeing as how I don't think we'll get anywhere, but thanks for the riveting discussion, I truly and honestly enjoyed it. :) (I am legitimately being 100% serious) February 26, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/napstablks on No horoscope, I don't think that's right.

am a sagittarius, and i hate when my horoscope says things like these (it happens quite often) February 26, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/ambrosialeah on What are some of your biggest “ace moments” in hindsight?

Honestly, growing up, my sexual attraction in relationships would go from a 8 to about a 1 in a relatively short amount of time. All of my sexual partners were UPSET . February 26, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/ambrosialeah on What are some of your biggest “ace moments” in hindsight?

Honestly, growing up, my sexual attraction in relationships would go from a 8 to about a 1 in a relatively short amount of time. All of my sexual partners were UPSET . February 26, 2020 at 12:00AM

Been with my bf for two years and still can’t have good sex

I don’t usually do these things but I want to see other people’s point of view. Me and my bf have been together for probably ab 2 and half years now and I lost my virginity to him last year. We have had sex several times after that but it would still hurt and I thought that was normal at first but it still hurts. It hurts now that I don’t even wanna do it half the time and I just get so turned off by it. He doesn’t foreplay good at all and tries to go right into it sometimes. What should I do to either make it stop hurting or any tips I can give him to where I actually enjoy having sex? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:30PM I don’t usually do these things but I want to see other people’s point of view. Me and my bf have been together for probably ab 2 and half years now and I lost my virginity to him last year. We have had sex several times after that but it would still hurt and I thought that was normal at first but it still hurts. It hurts now that I don’t even wanna do it ha...

Sometimes I can't stand when my gf touches me and it's making her a little annoyed

If she's touching my arms or my stomach it feels very uncomfortable likes there's too much feeling. And she can't go anywhere near my neck, I've never let anyone touch my neck it feels really dangerous. I can only stand arms and stomach being touched a little during sex. She feels annoyed cause she basically likes to get touched anywhere at any time. She doesn't get my explaination and I'm not sure I get it either. What's up with my body? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:34PM If she's touching my arms or my stomach it feels very uncomfortable likes there's too much feeling. And she can't go anywhere near my neck, I've never let anyone touch my neck it feels really dangerous. I can only stand arms and stomach being touched a little during sex.She feels annoyed cause she basically likes to get touched anywhere at any time. She doesn't get my explaination and I'm not sure I get it either.What's up with my body?

Videos to Watch together

So, first time ever posting anything like this anywhere, but wife and I are expanding and wanting to do some different things together to excite things a bit. That being said, what are some different porn videos or subjects that you have watched with your partner to help spice things up? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:35PM So, first time ever posting anything like this anywhere, but wife and I are expanding and wanting to do some different things together to excite things a bit.That being said, what are some different porn videos or subjects that you have watched with your partner to help spice things up?

What was your best sexual experience?

My partner and I were just talking about this on the way to coffee. We had very different stories, and agreed we eventually want our best sex to be each other 🥰 (we’re pretty newly monogamous) What was your best sex reddit? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:36PM My partner and I were just talking about this on the way to coffee. We had very different stories, and agreed we eventually want our best sex to be each other 🥰 (we’re pretty newly monogamous)What was your best sex reddit?

Masterbate in the woods

Sometimes I go into the estuary, find a very secluded area where no one will come near and spend an hour or so masterbating. I love getting off in nature. Sometimes I hope with a partner but often just alone. Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:37PM Sometimes I go into the estuary, find a very secluded area where no one will come near and spend an hour or so masterbating. I love getting off in nature. Sometimes I hope with a partner but often just alone.

Complicated sex life with my boyfriend. Any advice?

I’m a lowkey freak, I am almost always horny and when I’m home all day I’m touching myself all day long and if my boyfriend wanted to have sex 6 times a day I will be more than happy to. But the thing is my boyfriend and I aren’t very sexually compatible well that’s what I think, he’s more of a romantic type of guy which there’s nothing wrong with that. But he never teases me or texts me dirty things or we never try new things and I wish we did do those things. Since he’s always been like this since our first time having sex, now I’m kind of shy to bring out my kinky horny side out to him. I don’t wanna expose my freaky side i don’t wanna whisper dirty things in his ear I don’t wanna tease him because I’m shy now. I don’t know what to do I wanna spice up our sex life and I just don’t know what to do, now I’m just maturbating 5 times a day at home and having sex once a week with him because now it feels more of a chore. Any advice? Edit: there’s only time he mentioned something he wan...

Why are so many people convinced that squirting is not peeing ?

Studies have been done to show that squirting still holds urea and the same compounds as in pee with added PSA . In 2014 a study of women was conducted and they did an ultrasound to make sure women had empty bladders , then once the women got sexually excited they were given another ultrasound and their bladders refilled significantly , then a 3rd scam after the women squirted during an orgasm was done and the ultrasound had an empty bladder again. The liquid that was released was pee with added PSA ( it’s located on the front wall of the vagina and drains via ducts into the urethra ) . During an orgasm you involuntarily release urine. When did that get a fancy name “ squirting “ . Source : https://www.researchgate.net/publication/270052805_Nature_and_Origin_of_Squirting_in_Female_Sexuality Same study different link : https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/25545022/ Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:43PM Studies have been done to show that squirting still holds urea and the s...

Advice on taking nudes for men?

I really feel like there’s no good way to do this for most guys. Any thoughts? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:47PM I really feel like there’s no good way to do this for most guys. Any thoughts?

embarrassing blowjob story

this is kind of embarrassing, but i need advice. i gave my boyfriend a blowjob last night for the first time and i’ve given head before, but after we were finished i went to the bathroom and i had blood on my face and hand. during head he didn’t complain of any pain or anything my teeth never scraped him. i asked him “are you bleeding?” and he just jumped up went to the bathroom and said uhhh fuck.. (almost like it’s a reoccurring issue) he said it was because when i used my hand i tore his foreskin but i don’t think that’s true because he never complained of any pain or discomfort, he was enjoying it. does anyone have any idea what could’ve happened? he’s bled before on the bed sheets once, early on in our relationship i just didn’t say anything because i didn’t want to embarrass him, but we weren’t having oral sex. could this be something medical or did i really do something wrong? i am worried. Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:51PM this is kind of embarrassing, but i need ad...

Someone help me out please.

I am 20F and I have never dated someone before so please forgive me if I sound naive. So I met a guy online. After a few days of talking we hung out and stuff. He was really comfortable around me and started telling me stuff about his family and stuff which I find to be a little comforting that he is comfortable around me you know and he was just rambling about random stuff which I found kinda cute I am not gonna lie. But, he is constantly telling me I am cute and he is attracted to me and stuff which was whatever so I don’t know if thats like a red flag or something that I should look out for. A part of me just wants to go along with it since I don’t really have experience and just see what happens you know. But, at the same time like I was wondering if someone could like shine some light on my situation. Thank you in advance :) Submitted February 25, 2020 at 10:52PM I am 20F and I have never dated someone before so please forgive me if I sound naive. So I met a guy online. Af...

Dating in your league?

How can you go about dating in your league & also how do you know your limits on who you can date Like oh you'll have no chance with that person sorta nonsense? And can you still find good matches in your league? Or should I ignore leagues all together? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 10:55PM How can you go about dating in your league & also how do you know your limits on who you can date Like oh you'll have no chance with that person sorta nonsense? And can you still find good matches in your league? Or should I ignore leagues all together?

Too intense too quick?

I [F19] met a a guy [M20] for the first time Saturday but we had been texting on and off for a while, since Saturday we’ve spent every single day together till Tuesday and even had breakfast together and then met up later that same day. We both just can’t seem to get enough of each other, is this good or should we slow down and let days pass without seeing each other? It feels amazing but I don’t wanna make it too intense now so that it will fizzle out quicker? Any thoughts on this? Yes no? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 10:56PM I [F19] met a a guy [M20] for the first time Saturday but we had been texting on and off for a while, since Saturday we’ve spent every single day together till Tuesday and even had breakfast together and then met up later that same day. We both just can’t seem to get enough of each other, is this good or should we slow down and let days pass without seeing each other? It feels amazing but I don’t wanna make it too intense now so that it will fizzle out q...

Initiating contact

I met this girl two years ago and she was amazing, sweet, caring, truly a great person. But i was gutless so i honestly thought she could never be interested. We had some good conversation that night, but that’s it. But now a month back i followed her on insta (i don’t post anything) and she followed back. A couple days later i got a notification saying she followed me again. She lives several hundred miles away now, but i got a quick meet with her at a festival where i asked how she was and then she had to go to her friends. I have no clue how i should write to her or if it’s even worth it (because of distance) don’t know what she is studying, what her interests are or if she is seeing someone. Have any tips or advice? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:01PM I met this girl two years ago and she was amazing, sweet, caring, truly a great person. But i was gutless so i honestly thought she could never be interested. We had some good conversation that night, but that’s it.But no...

Would it be wrong to reach out to an old crush who I stopped communicating with?

I connected with this guy during a semester of college, who shared some pretty deep stuff with me. We once talked for 3 hrs straight in the school parking lot. That whole semester we hung out. Things started going downhill when I started developing feelings for him. At first, I tried denying it failed , so when the semester came to a close end, he mentioned he was kinda dating someone. Since we never really communicated that well through text, and he basically had a girlfriend, I took him off my Snapchat. I waited to long to express my feelings and felt it would be awkward otherwise if I hadn't taken him off. I know it was probably a shitty thing to do but at the time it made sense to me. Unfortunately, after all this time, I haven't gotten over him probably should . Would I be wrong to reach out now Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:03PM I connected with this guy during a semester of college, who shared some pretty deep stuff with me. We once talked for 3 hrs straight i...

Staying over at a guy’s place for the first time? What’s the etiquette?

I’m really ocd about showering every single morning and washing my hair, because I get really stinky really quickly. Especially if we have sex, I’ll feel sticky. Is it rude to ask to use a guy’s shower and towels? I’ve never done this before. He suggested that I stay at his place after our date because it’s nearby and it’d be quite late for me to head home alone. Makes sense. However, also... I don’t want to be rude, but I don’t want to sit on public transport all stinky. Yknow? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:04PM I’m really ocd about showering every single morning and washing my hair, because I get really stinky really quickly. Especially if we have sex, I’ll feel sticky.Is it rude to ask to use a guy’s shower and towels?I’ve never done this before. He suggested that I stay at his place after our date because it’s nearby and it’d be quite late for me to head home alone. Makes sense.However, also... I don’t want to be rude, but I don’t want to sit on public transport all s...

Looking for feedback about Bumble

So hey, I'm 19 y/o and I don't have much dating experience (close to 0 actually). I'm not planning to jump straight away to Bumble or anything but I'm curious to hear some feedback about it, some advice about using it since I might try it out in a few months. Or maybe not, I still don't know if it's worth it at this point but I wanna hear voices of experience to at least know about it. Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:05PM So hey, I'm 19 y/o and I don't have much dating experience (close to 0 actually). I'm not planning to jump straight away to Bumble or anything but I'm curious to hear some feedback about it, some advice about using it since I might try it out in a few months. Or maybe not, I still don't know if it's worth it at this point but I wanna hear voices of experience to at least know about it.

What does it mean to fall in love with someone's potential and how do we avoid it?

I've read this on several occasions, to not fall for someone's potential. I don't really understand the saying? Submitted February 25, 2020 at 11:06PM I've read this on several occasions, to not fall for someone's potential. I don't really understand the saying?