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/u/justobsolete on Can I think someone is beautiful / handsome and still be Asexual?

Yeah, you still have eyes. Sexual attraction is wanting to have sex with a specific person. Thinking someone looks nice isn't wanting to have sex with them - hence why we're perfectly fine complimenting our family when they look nice. June 14, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/ryukohime on I Came Out & My Partner Had An Epiphany

Hell yeah, self discovery and healthy communication! *\o/* June 14, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/Zeritil on No way no funking way, yesssssss

no it isnt. there isnt orange on the flag in the image, and the bottom stripes are reddish June 14, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/MoonBeamerGirl on In honor of this years pride month I drew something in the ace colours. Hope you like it :)

Beautiful! I want this on a shirt 😆 June 14, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/Turbulent-Mongoose41 on After struggling a lot with my asexuality and a not exactly perfect outing, I finally feel comfortable with my identity and got myself my first ace ring. I didn't expect that a piece of jewelry would make me so happy^^

Nice June 13, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/enbysloth on „consider it an investment in ongoing entertainment for myself! i want to watch the scum of the world struggle to climb up the hill of betterment! only to repeatedly trip, and tumble down to the fiery pit of failure“

The fact I read that in Alastor's voice amazes me. I thought I forgot what his voice sounds like. Gotta love our ace deer June 13, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/Im-a-Creepy-Cookie on No way no funking way, yesssssss

What game is this? June 13, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/justobsolete on Idek anymore

Find good things to fill your life. Get out and do things . What hobbies do you have? Any hobby you've been interested in trying? How often do you work out/do a sport/move your body? How often do you get outside (hike, picnic, walk, cloudgaze, just sit outside browsing on your phone/computer)? How about learning a new skill (thanks to podcasts and apps, you can learn a lot of new skills for free or relatively cheap)? What sort of local events are meeting (including remote meetings) in your area? What sort of things are you interested in, and can you find a semi-regular meeting they hold to go to? How about doing some volunteer work? How often do you cook good meals for yourself? Can you work on your sleep hygiene? When was the last time you deep cleaned your home? June 13, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/Mielikki2002 on Did anyone else fake having a crush on someone to appease others

Sort of. I've experienced people not believing that I didn't have a crush, and it was annoying when they persisted and kept asking like, "Awww, come on, you can trust me. I promise I won't tell anyone." but I always just ignored them and was like "Believe whatever you want.". So I never faked a crush for that reason. But I did fake a crush when I was like 12 years old because my best friend really wanted to talk with me about her crush, but she felt kinda weird being the only one talking about it so she asked me who I liked the most. So I was like, "Well, if I were to have a crush on someone, it'd probably be [random guy in our class who I didn't speak to but was moderately attractive, seemed nice, and smelled good]." and at that point if someone asked me if I had a crush I would just say his name because it was easier. So uh yeah lmao June 13, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/KirinG on Did anyone else fake having a crush on someone to appease others

Yes, but they were always fictional characters. June 13, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/Dvwu on What are your pros and cons about being an ACE?

Im in plenty of safe subs where I get to share as much as I like June 13, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/DarthInvictus on Thank you all for the support. This sub has been a safe space.

I'm glad this could be a safe place for you to figure yourself out. We appreciate the solidarity, and however your knowledge of yourself evolves, you are valid AF too. Now go forth and lesbian! June 13, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/KuronoAlien37 on What are your pros and cons about being an ACE?

You can’t change my mood by talking to me. I do hope that you are able to open up to someone so that you don’t hold the weight of depression on your shoulders. June 13, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/justobsolete on Can I still be asexual and not like garlic bread?

Absolutely true. I don't know why we haven't claimed raw cookie dough already, tbh??? June 13, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/David_The_Redditor on Can I think someone is beautiful / handsome and still be Asexual?

Yes. That would be aesthetic attraction. It’s basically when you think someone is cute or looks good and there isn’t any sexual or romantic attraction going on there. June 13, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/TildaUK on Do you think it's offensive when someone mentions "when you get married and have kids" and assume that it'll definitely happen someday?

It's shit to assume that for anyone June 13, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/Positive-It-Hurts on Is there a Tinder for asexuals?

All about that ace? June 13, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/Emma-Ho on Can't have your temptations used against if you don't have any.

They try and target desire not necessarily sexual desire example desire for garlic bread June 13, 2021 at 11:39PM

/u/-Finity- on Update on magical girl and her weapon. I have made a sketch of what I want the outfit to be and now I'm deliberating between a mace, a morning Star or a chainsaw as the weapon. I put pictures of what the weapons with most likely look like. I welcome any and all critique

The chainsaw is awesome, though I think the mace is really cool! June 13, 2021 at 11:39PM

/u/Dvwu on What are your pros and cons about being an ACE?

Thanks, but I’ll pass, I value others emotions and don’t feel like making you sad and ruining your day. June 13, 2021 at 11:38PM

/u/ifeelkindafree07 on I said I was ace and this was their response. I cant even...this is my first time encountering homophobia towards me and yeah, it sucks...

LMAO June 13, 2021 at 11:37PM

/u/Nerofirocouse on No way no funking way, yesssssss

I can't find it at all! Can you help me find the bundle? June 13, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/KuronoAlien37 on What are your pros and cons about being an ACE?

Ok, Dm me if ya want to talk about it. I’m a great listener with the occasional health advice. June 13, 2021 at 11:36PM