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/u/TateTheCheerful on Ace frog witch because it's Halloween

Can I please save this image? November 01, 2021 at 12:49AM

/u/Nerdcuddles on What is the difference between Sex Adverse and Sex Repulsed?

Fair enough, I personally see the appeal of it i just dont get the obsession with it Id say I swap between indifferent and favorable But im not open to the idea of "topping", just seems to difficult and dysphoric for me November 01, 2021 at 12:49AM

/u/ace_probably on i’m ace (and probably aro) and i don’t want to be :(

I feel this so badly. I've never been able to confess to any of my crushes because of this, I mean I don't wanna deceive them or feel like I wasted their time, but I don't wanna come out either (kinda difficult where I am). I feel happy and accepted here, but I still wish I was just straight so I just wouldn't have to experience all this, and not to mention the period where I didn't know asexuality was a thing and just spent so much time thinking I was weird and broken somehow :( But hey, can't change who I am, so I might as well work with what I have November 01, 2021 at 12:48AM

/u/Floor-tank on Just explained to my dad what asexuality is he gave me the “Idont know what that is but I’m a conservative Christian so I’m against it response” then after explaining it he said well that’s not right because god created woman-last I checked that’s unrelated to asexuality

Funny how YOU'RE the conservative Christian but I'M the one immune to the temptations of the flesh. Get on my level, scrub. November 01, 2021 at 12:48AM

I overheard her mother telling her to take a vacation and have vacation sex...

Which doesn't involve me. We have have been married for 11 years and although our sex life was good for a long time... things kinda slow down a bit and our therapists told us, that tends to happen sometimes to long marriage. In the past we have tried lot of things to spice it up and it works... Just that we got kinda lazy now. That's the backstory... Anyway. She is close to the mom and often don't mind me hearing them chatting on the phone but this time she thought I was asleep. She told her mom where we are at sexually right now and the mom told her to go take a vacation from each other and have vacation sex. Mom admitted she did it when she went to Vietnam on vacation with her girlfriends years ago and her hubby doesn't know. I overheard my wife said... "hmmm interesting." I looked it up and 😳 Apparently many married women would travel to far away places with friends and many times would cheat with the fit good-looking, hung local boy. They call it ...

First hotpast situation last night and I’m still turned on. She wants a dildo now. Advice?

Wife and I were having sex and I started asking her about all the dicks she has had in her and what she did. She got pretty detailed but I think there’s more to some of these stories. I’m super turned on by this info and want to explore more. Basically, while we were having sex she said she wanted a dildo to suck or fuck while doing PIV. She likes a plug and we already have them so her ass is covered. 2 questions How do you recommend continuing this? Only during sex? Or should we discuss at other times? Any realistic dildo recommendations? I know this has been asked before but there is so much info on what to buy I’m overwhelmed. Thinking about splurging on the real doll penises? Any one else like others that are more realistic? Between 7-8” Thanks for all the help here Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:39AM Wife and I were having sex and I started asking her about all the dicks she has had in her and what she did. She got pretty detailed but I think there’s more to s...

Dirty talk ideas

This morning my husband and I woke up for morning sex. He looks right at me and says "are you ready to sit on your throne?" I literally gushed over him 🤣 Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:50AM This morning my husband and I woke up for morning sex.He looks right at me and says "are you ready to sit on your throne?"I literally gushed over him 🤣

sore breasts, i need advice

earlier today my boyfriend was sucking by breasts, specifically nipples. it felt good in the moment, but now, later on, my breasts are extremely tender. slightly touching them is painful. my boyfriend left hickeys on my aerola, so i could tell he had been sucking pretty hard. is there anything i can do to ease the pain? i don’t even know how i’m going to put a shirt on Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:50AM earlier today my boyfriend was sucking by breasts, specifically nipples. it felt good in the moment, but now, later on, my breasts are extremely tender. slightly touching them is painful. my boyfriend left hickeys on my aerola, so i could tell he had been sucking pretty hard. is there anything i can do to ease the pain? i don’t even know how i’m going to put a shirt on

Current gf (18f) says it hurts when I (17m) touch her clit.

So, she didn’t tell me directly but it clearly hurts her. Anyways, to start, she asked me to finger her for the first time the other day. And she could barely even take 1 of my fingers. This doesn’t worry me I know this is mostly normal for someone with no experience. But the worry came when I touched her clit. She screeched and grabbed me in pain. And I barely touched it. I know someone is gonna say “oh you were being too rough” but no, I wasn’t. I barely touched it and she screeched. Im just wondering, is this at all normal? Or has anyone experienced this before? Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:51AM So, she didn’t tell me directly but it clearly hurts her. Anyways, to start, she asked me to finger her for the first time the other day. And she could barely even take 1 of my fingers. This doesn’t worry me I know this is mostly normal for someone with no experience. But the worry came when I touched her clit. She screeched and grabbed me in pain. And I barely touched it. I kno...

Had sex for the first time in a year and a half, couldn't stop the whole night

So long story short, I haven't had sex in a year and a half, partialy due to being heartbroken from the previous relationship and partialy due to me being very picky when it comes to picking partners. I've met this amazing girl who is now my girlfriend and I like her more than I've ever liked anyone else before her. That being said, this weekend we shared the same bed for the first time since being together and well.. We basicaly had sex for 9 hours straight, during which I finished 14 times with a few breaks here and there. My gf said those were the best 9hours of her life. So my question is, 1)do all men last that long and 2)can everyone finish that many times without losing the sex drive? Disclaimer I'm not 'jerking myself off' by asking these questions, I'm geniuly intrested in hearing other peoples experiences and thoughts Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:53AM So long story short, I haven't had sex in a year and a half, partialy due to bei...

Does she know it’s a date?

Hey all just looking for some friendly advice here. So basically I (21M) asked this girl (21F) I know out over text and we made plans to go bouldering together this week. After it was all planned and confirmed I realised that I might have just come across asking as a friend, which is also obviously cool but I am pretty attracted to her so wanted to see if there was any mutual interest. Are there things I should say/do while I’m with her to gauge if she sees it as a date or not? Extra info that might help: We met cos we’re at the same sports club, and then bumped into each other at a couple ceilidhs and danced together at them. The message I initially sent was this: “Do you have any plans this weekend? Was just wondering if you’d want to have lunch with me in town 😊” After we spoke for a bit and settled on bouldering instead, the conversation ended like this: Her: “Perfect, I look forward to it!” Me: “Yeah me too, I’ll see you then” Sorry for the length of the post and if there’s ...

Had a good connection with a girl at a club but I never heard back from her and I want to understand what I did wrong.

Helloo there. 1st of all this is a long post but I'm spending the night at the airport and I a lot of free time, also I wanted to write as many details as I remember. I know what I'm asking is not dating advice, but I just want an opinion over the way I acted. So I have been on an Erasmus project for the past month. On the penultimate day we organized a farewell party in a club. Everything was going great and i was pretty drunk, I turned my head for a moment and I saw this really cute girl. At first she didn't notice me but then she saw me and smiled. I knew I had to talk to her and I've never done something like this in my life but I was drunk so i gathered up courage and went to talk to her. She was hanging with another guy but when I went there she stopped talking to him so i took a chance and said hi to her. I don't remember exactly much of the conversation but we hit it off and were talking about random stuff. I don't remember very well how it went but at...

I wish I could tell someone I like them

The person I (22F) like is someone (22F) I see a lot. I would get so excited to see them but feel a little sad when I do because I know I will not work up the courage to tell them how I feel. But I am also sad when I don't see them. I wish I could tell them I like them everyday and shower them with affection. An issue is that I think dating is a strange thing. Am I crazy? How do I work up courage? How would I stop liking them? Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:04AM The person I (22F) like is someone (22F) I see a lot. I would get so excited to see them but feel a little sad when I do because I know I will not work up the courage to tell them how I feel. But I am also sad when I don't see them. I wish I could tell them I like them everyday and shower them with affection. An issue is that I think dating is a strange thing. Am I crazy? How do I work up courage? How would I stop liking them?

A question for women - Are you able to sense if a guy likes you more than a friend before officially telling you and how?

As a man sometimes I find it hard to tell a woman I like them 'more than just a friend' I've only ever remember asking once or twice but there are men who find it hard to break out of a friendzone or even admit their true feelings towards a woman so this question hopefully intends to make it easier for myself and other guys going forward. Perhaps provide any stories or tips... Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:06AM As a man sometimes I find it hard to tell a woman I like them 'more than just a friend' I've only ever remember asking once or twice but there are men who find it hard to break out of a friendzone or even admit their true feelings towards a woman so this question hopefully intends to make it easier for myself and other guys going forward.Perhaps provide any stories or tips...

Anyone that doesn't think appearance is important is fooling themselves.

Appearance is important. I have been told that I am smart, funny, and handsome. I also am a paraplegic and use a wheelchair. I joined Zoosk, Match and Tinder. In 2 months, including all 3 sites, I got a total of two likes. The profiles had pictures of me in a wheelchair and stated that I am a paraplegic. I took any references to disability out and took out pictures that had the wheelchair in them. All of a sudden, inbox filled with messages and likes. Girls that had ignored messages before were now sending me messages. Don't tell me that looks don't matter. Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:07AM Appearance is important. I have been told that I am smart, funny, and handsome. I also am a paraplegic and use a wheelchair. I joined Zoosk, Match and Tinder. In 2 months, including all 3 sites, I got a total of two likes. The profiles had pictures of me in a wheelchair and stated that I am a paraplegic. I took any references to disability out and took out pictures that had the ...

/u/Antimelmanclub on Why do people feel the need to speak on topics they can’t comprehend

I decided to leave them(A stands for ace/aro not allie) in to balance the negativity, yk what I mean? But yea, It does make me sad about how many people agree with those other tweets. It’s actually sickening. October 31, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/All54321_Gaming on Why do people feel the need to speak on topics they can’t comprehend

God, these people frustrate me to no end. Especially when that one person is saying who discriminates Aces proceeds to do so. I would like to appreciate the person who said the A stands for Asexual and the reference tweet in the first image. October 31, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/TheGreatAchiever on Just explained to my dad what asexuality is he gave me the “Idont know what that is but I’m a conservative Christian so I’m against it response” then after explaining it he said well that’s not right because god created woman-last I checked that’s unrelated to asexuality

Yes and hypocrisy rains supreme October 31, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/GandalftheFright on Why do people feel the need to speak on topics they can’t comprehend

“…esp. if they can be used to groom kids.” Groom them into what? Not wanting sex? Making bad jokes about garlic bread and dragons? October 31, 2021 at 11:39PM

/u/Angelcakes101 on Why do people feel the need to speak on topics they can’t comprehend

Wtf does asexuality have to do with grooming?? October 31, 2021 at 11:39PM