Had a good connection with a girl at a club but I never heard back from her and I want to understand what I did wrong.

Helloo there. 1st of all this is a long post but I'm spending the night at the airport and I a lot of free time, also I wanted to write as many details as I remember. I know what I'm asking is not dating advice, but I just want an opinion over the way I acted.

So I have been on an Erasmus project for the past month. On the penultimate day we organized a farewell party in a club. Everything was going great and i was pretty drunk, I turned my head for a moment and I saw this really cute girl. At first she didn't notice me but then she saw me and smiled. I knew I had to talk to her and I've never done something like this in my life but I was drunk so i gathered up courage and went to talk to her. She was hanging with another guy but when I went there she stopped talking to him so i took a chance and said hi to her. I don't remember exactly much of the conversation but we hit it off and were talking about random stuff. I don't remember very well how it went but at one point I think I asked her if I'm bothering her or something like that and she said no but she couldn't do this. I asked if she has a boyfriend and she said no (but i think she had something with someone as far as I understood in that moment). So I said I get it and left. Still whenever i turned and saw her she kept smiling at me. I told a friend who's from the same country as her and she went talked to her and told me she finds me cute but she'll be leaving tomorrow (at this moment i got the impression she didn't want to keep talking to me because she was leaving) Anyway a few minutes later she left the place, and something like 10 min after her I went out just to get some air and there she was again. At this point I wasn't as drunk as before but still had a bit of confidence in me to talk to her but still I felt awkward. I went close to her and she saw me smiled and said jokingly are you stalking me? So we hit it off again we had a really nice conversation and it looked like she was enjoying the moment. She said she's been in the city for 1 month and she would leave the next day (1 month there and I only got to meet her the last day). She said her friend would leave tomorrow and she wanted to spend time with her. I apologized for keeping her from her friend but she was always smiling and said it was ok. Honestly I didn't want to sleep with her I just wanted a chance to see her again. I was also really sad because it was my last with my friends as well and I felt like doing something randomly stupid so I said if you want I'll just book a flight and come to see you. She started laughing and said you're only saying it because I was drunk but I really felt like doing something without thinking much about it for the 1st time in my life. So I said to her I'll give you my Instagram and if you feel like talking to me tomorrow just message me. She said she had a lot of things to do but she followed me on insta and said to text her if I will remember her tomorrow. And I was pretty happy with it and also the signals I was getting from her body language seemed really positive. So I asked her if I could kiss her on the cheeck and she said yes and hugged me. We said goodbye and went on our way.

The next day I was pretty sad because my Erasmus was ending and I had to say goodbye to a lot of friends. The only thing that kept me positive was the idea that I could see her again. So i wrote to her, 2 days passed and nothing. She is still following me on Insta but hasn't interacted with anything I've posted and she still hasn't accepted my request. Honestly I don't know what went wrong I'm not sure if she's ghosting me or if I were a creep or if something happened to her. I know I'm overthinking it now but I just don't understand.

Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:04AM

Helloo there. 1st of all this is a long post but I'm spending the night at the airport and I a lot of free time, also I wanted to write as many details as I remember. I know what I'm asking is not dating advice, but I just want an opinion over the way I acted.So I have been on an Erasmus project for the past month. On the penultimate day we organized a farewell party in a club. Everything was going great and i was pretty drunk, I turned my head for a moment and I saw this really cute girl. At first she didn't notice me but then she saw me and smiled. I knew I had to talk to her and I've never done something like this in my life but I was drunk so i gathered up courage and went to talk to her. She was hanging with another guy but when I went there she stopped talking to him so i took a chance and said hi to her. I don't remember exactly much of the conversation but we hit it off and were talking about random stuff. I don't remember very well how it went but at one point I think I asked her if I'm bothering her or something like that and she said no but she couldn't do this. I asked if she has a boyfriend and she said no (but i think she had something with someone as far as I understood in that moment). So I said I get it and left. Still whenever i turned and saw her she kept smiling at me. I told a friend who's from the same country as her and she went talked to her and told me she finds me cute but she'll be leaving tomorrow (at this moment i got the impression she didn't want to keep talking to me because she was leaving) Anyway a few minutes later she left the place, and something like 10 min after her I went out just to get some air and there she was again. At this point I wasn't as drunk as before but still had a bit of confidence in me to talk to her but still I felt awkward. I went close to her and she saw me smiled and said jokingly are you stalking me? So we hit it off again we had a really nice conversation and it looked like she was enjoying the moment. She said she's been in the city for 1 month and she would leave the next day (1 month there and I only got to meet her the last day). She said her friend would leave tomorrow and she wanted to spend time with her. I apologized for keeping her from her friend but she was always smiling and said it was ok. Honestly I didn't want to sleep with her I just wanted a chance to see her again. I was also really sad because it was my last with my friends as well and I felt like doing something randomly stupid so I said if you want I'll just book a flight and come to see you. She started laughing and said you're only saying it because I was drunk but I really felt like doing something without thinking much about it for the 1st time in my life. So I said to her I'll give you my Instagram and if you feel like talking to me tomorrow just message me. She said she had a lot of things to do but she followed me on insta and said to text her if I will remember her tomorrow. And I was pretty happy with it and also the signals I was getting from her body language seemed really positive. So I asked her if I could kiss her on the cheeck and she said yes and hugged me. We said goodbye and went on our way.The next day I was pretty sad because my Erasmus was ending and I had to say goodbye to a lot of friends. The only thing that kept me positive was the idea that I could see her again. So i wrote to her, 2 days passed and nothing. She is still following me on Insta but hasn't interacted with anything I've posted and she still hasn't accepted my request. Honestly I don't know what went wrong I'm not sure if she's ghosting me or if I were a creep or if something happened to her. I know I'm overthinking it now but I just don't understand.