Zeke's euthanization plan would be useful just about now May 26, 2021 at 12:04AM

Wait you're a cat (I'm being sarcastic but it kind of does look like its the cats ring) May 26, 2021 at 12:04AM

I know of a place that has a lot of pride stuff, all crocheted all inconspicuous. I could pm you the site if you'd like? May 26, 2021 at 12:03AM

I’m in the same position as you, except I don’t date. So if it makes you feel any better I’m older than you and have even less chance lol May 26, 2021 at 12:01AM

Yeah, sounds like you're ace. Welcome to the club! We've got your complimentary garlic bread right here. May 25, 2021 at 11:59PM

After I posted that, it occurred to me that you might be on your phone, and I don't know where they put that column on a phone app. Maybe someone else does. May 25, 2021 at 11:57PM

Not sure what they're actually looking at tbh. I did scare the daylights out of two GPs once at my local clinic... my white blood cell count was double than normal and my haemoglobin levels dropped quite a bit; somehow also affected my thyroid... That might have something to do with it. May 25, 2021 at 11:55PM

Sounds very aegosexual (which is in the ace spectrum)! May 25, 2021 at 11:51PM

If it weren’t for the fact I’m also aromatic I’d be jealous of her for having you as a partner. Instead I’m just jealous of her being your friend. May 25, 2021 at 11:48PM

Some asexuals enjoy having sex, but still don't have any attraction to the person they're having sex with. Sort of like how a person can masturbate, but that doesn't mean they're attracted to hands. May 25, 2021 at 11:48PM

Ah ok thanks May 25, 2021 at 11:45PM

I like the idea of using labels for attraction also since it has not been easy for me to understand what I experience. They can be helpful for self discovery. May 25, 2021 at 11:45PM

if i wasnt in the closet id tell my mum to take me to buy some May 25, 2021 at 11:45PM

It's in the column on the right side of this page ------> May 25, 2021 at 11:44PM

Yeah I had always planned to experiment more with someone I trust, so should probably give that a go and see if it is more enjoyable than my past experiences. I do remember enjoying them but they also caused a bit of anxiety. May 25, 2021 at 11:43PM

be poggers be ace May 25, 2021 at 11:43PM

Better hurry up and grab it before your cat knocks it off the table. :) May 25, 2021 at 11:39PM

Sorry but how do I get to that May 25, 2021 at 11:39PM

I'm gonna to take a slightly different stance from everyone and say that people can identify as asexual due to trauma (specific term is caedrosexual). Also that there are some identify that way, because of having little/no libido, regardless of attraction. Asexuality is a spectrum, though those people would probably fall more under graysexual umbrella. However, there is already a dominant narrative about aces being broken. I really would not feel comfortable having someone who isn't ace or isn't caedsexual create such a character, nor would I really trust them to handle such an issue with the nuance and understanding it deserves. If you have tumblr, you could find other people who identify that way, and maybe talk to them. May 25, 2021 at 11:38PM

Check the "Resources" section of this sub. A lot of people have found it really helpful. May 25, 2021 at 11:37PM

i know of a series pilot with a charactor called alastor on a show on youtube called hazbin hotel it is 18+ tho May 25, 2021 at 11:35PM

Fat Thor? Things just got interesting... Never thought that would happen. (Coming from someone who isn't into superheros but sees them everywhere) May 25, 2021 at 11:34PM

I had this realization in the 2nd year of university 😶 May 25, 2021 at 11:31PM