Fair point. February 21, 2022 at 11:42PM

yes that’s basically what I feel I will check this out, thanks 🙏 February 21, 2022 at 11:40PM

You could be graysexual (or gray-asexual). This label means you identify in between asexual and allosexual. People may use this label if they experience sexual attraction very rarely, only under certain circumstances, or fluctuate between having and not having sexual attraction (source: https://acesandaros.org/learn/the-asexual-umbrella ) Good news is, your bf sounds super accepting and supportive. I don’t think you need to worry about him so much. He seems okay either way in regards to sex. So, try to experiment a little and see how it goes. Take as much time as you need and don’t progress further than you’re comfortable. As for your bf thinking your body is gross, that’s not very likely. He obviously cares for you and most guys are just happy they’re seeing a naked person at all. And you won’t be an expert at kissing or anything else until you practice. Everyone starts off not quite knowing what they’re doing, but you’ll learn. Or you’ll decide it’s not for you. Either way, you’ll...

I will do thanks! February 21, 2022 at 11:35PM

Basically title. I have been approached quite a bit and some stories are quite funny, so I bring it up sometimes if the context is right. Or sometimes I like to joke about how despite a lot of guys approaching me no girls ever hit on me or seem to be interested (I’m bi, it’s a struggle). I mentioned it to someone I was seeing, and he seemed a bit offed by it. The focus is definitely not like “omg so many ppl are after me” but more like “oh lord u won’t believe what this guy did once, and this other guy, do they have no social skills?” Submitted February 22, 2022 at 12:11AM Basically title. I have been approached quite a bit and some stories are quite funny, so I bring it up sometimes if the context is right. Or sometimes I like to joke about how despite a lot of guys approaching me no girls ever hit on me or seem to be interested (I’m bi, it’s a struggle).I mentioned it to someone I was seeing, and he seemed a bit offed by it. The focus is definitely not like “omg so many ppl a...

The worse bit is that it isn't just the other students so of the TAs have made arophodic and aphobic comments too. February 21, 2022 at 11:35PM

Oh, of course. People should be making sure their preferences align February 21, 2022 at 11:34PM