Same. One of my close friends was actually wondering what I'm like with a partner. I'm okay with it. Or more like it takes getting used to. I'm also fine if it's my mom. With friends and other people, I sometimes flinch and i know how that makes people feel but can't help it. April 14, 2022 at 12:31AM

I just need to vent. I (26F) met a guy(26M) on hinge a few weeks ago, we talked for about two weeks then decided to meet. The date was nice, he said that he wanted to get drinks the following week for our second outing. We parted ways and he asked if I had a good time… told him I did then didn’t hear from him for 5 days. I decided to reach out and extend an olive branch to see if he wanted to meet again. He said yeah and proceeded to have small talk. Long story short, conversation got shorter and the time in between texts increased significantly. He would post online and ignore my texts. He knows what he’s doing but just doesn’t care. We used to talk on different platforms throughout the day prior to us meeting. After we met, things took a 180 and I’m not sure why. We didn’t sleep together. If he wasn’t interested, I wish he would’ve just said so instead of keeping me guessing and being dishonest. I really liked him but I just deleted him off all my social media accounts. I’m just s

Their was a survey on romantic attraction today on this subreddit that put roughly a third of the users in the aroace category. So at least with this subreddit's population the destruction between aroace and alloace is useful April 14, 2022 at 12:30AM

Lost virginity and feel horrible, It was just awful. I was crying after and idk what's wrong with me. I’m sick right now my neck and full body hurts. He came down to our house so we could wal dog outside and watch the sunset. We went back to his house to grab his friend for their soccer game. before that though he basically pushed me down on his dick when he knew i wasnt feeling well. He was so rough and choking and spanking me. and like 2 min later like threw us off the bed to go to his game. it's my fault bc i never verbalized no and i also allowed it. It takes two to tango but I guess I expected him to treat me more respectfully or make sure it was a loving and caring experience. it was the opposite. he left me to cry. it felt like crap bc he was so rough when im that sick and then like we had to leave right away. Just a horrible and not a caring way to experience sex for the first time. “I needed it,” he said but it’s my body not his and his forced it and his knows it. I

So something I noticed that's a little weird...My GF has this banter back and forth with a male friend who she's known for a long time. And by "banter" I mean they sarcastically talk, and shit talk. I was fucking born for that. I LOVE TALKING LIKE THIS TO PEOPLE. Especially my fucking girlfriend but NO!!!! As soon as I DO IT, I get hit with this "you're so mean to me" or she'll just straight up get offended. WTF! Am I TRIPPIN? Submitted April 14, 2022 at 12:16AM So something I noticed that's a little weird...My GF has this banter back and forth with a male friend who she's known for a long time. And by "banter" I mean they sarcastically talk, and shit talk. I was fucking born for that. I LOVE TALKING LIKE THIS TO PEOPLE. Especially my fucking girlfriend but NO!!!! As soon as I DO IT, I get hit with this "you're so mean to me" or she'll just straight up get offended. WTF! Am I TRIPPIN?