Yeah he doesn’t own you and it’s wrong of him to “demand sex” he contradictsd himself by saying it felt like he was raping you bc you had no reaction just to go on and make you “promise” him sex. This sounds really toxic and unhealthy. He doesn’t seem to respect your boundaries at all October 05, 2022 at 01:10AM

Currently struggling with the idea of opening myself up to dating men again, due to the fact that sex is considered an important part of a relationship. I have no desire to partake in any sex with people who don't have vaginas (used to identify as a lesbian but that changed.) My guess is that there really isn't any point in pursuing dating men when sex isn't on the table. And I do understand that there are many men who identify as asexual, etc. Have any other afab had experiences with attraction to men but no sexual desire? Submitted October 05, 2022 at 01:03AM Currently struggling with the idea of opening myself up to dating men again, due to the fact that sex is considered an important part of a relationship. I have no desire to partake in any sex with people who don't have vaginas (used to identify as a lesbian but that changed.) My guess is that there really isn't any point in pursuing dating men when sex isn't on the table. And I do understand that t...

I just reacted to this girl’s ig story with the 😍 emoji and she liked it shortly after. I want to text her but idk what to say without feeling awkward. Submitted October 05, 2022 at 01:10AM I just reacted to this girl’s ig story with the 😍 emoji and she liked it shortly after. I want to text her but idk what to say without feeling awkward.

Got stood up Hey I got stood up for the first time I met this girl at the gym got her snap Asked if she wanted to hang at my place She told me she don’t do hooks ups And I said that was fine, I gotta lay understand. Even though that wasn’t my intentions. So We arranged a coffe date She said she like to get to know me It seems like she was a very shy girl Well she didn’t end up coming to the coffee date I texted her I’m here, and didn’t get a response for 3 hours I honestly wanted to text her again I feel the reason she flaked is she is nervous she’s a small girl and Im a power lifter a lot bigger than her I wanted to text her and tell her it’s ok if ur a shy/nervous person and would like to get to know me over the phone first Because u never know she could have ptsd from past dudes. I totally get it I’ve been with woman before that told me they were intimidated by me at first and that’s why it took a while for them to meet with me. Im not sure if I should text her that though, bec...

OK so there's this girl at my school who I really like. We've known each other for like 3 years now. I asked her out 2 years ago, she respectfully declined, we stayed close friends, but I still like her. I've never been in any relationships before and I have quite a bit of a hard time making friends, I'm not that much of a social person. I feel like the vibe between us is getting better and better between us recently since we're in the same class and have been saying each other everyday but she's always been kind of a flirty person so I don't really know. I tried to do more stuff with her, we're partners for the science labs, we are doing a extra-curriculum project together and with some friends, etc. My question is, would it be weird or would it sound pushy to try asking her out again. I always have this feeling in my stomach when I'm with her and she makes me really happy but I also don't want to lose this friendship by making things weird b...

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