I’m a 29 year old male I find hook ups meaningless I always feel empty after Does anyone else feel the same? Or am I just weird Submitted November 01, 2022 at 01:11AM I’m a 29 year old male I find hook ups meaningless I always feel empty afterDoes anyone else feel the same? Or am I just weird

I hear some people need to have sex right away to see what they're working with which I understand and you should do whatever you're comfortable with but I can't do that. Plus being penetrated already feels good to me so I don't see what more I would need to feel satisfied? Lol. I feel like I have to gain some sort of relationship and actually really get to like them which might take awhile but from every person I went on dates with that's what they want right away after like 2-3 dates. I wouldn't force myself to do something I don't want to do and believe me I did and I felt disgusted. I don't think sex is disgusting I just feel like "who are you?" I have no affection for this person that I just had sex with and it doesn't feel good to me. I also fear if I do have sex with someone I actually really REALLY like they hit me with the "let's just make this a sexual relationship" then my feelings get hurt. I am only 22 and broke ...

I would like my partner to become aware of my values and needs in a relationship. I want to have this conversation before we get too far ahead He works full time so I don't want to stress him out or bother him How can I go about this? How should I begin the conversation Tl.dr how to have a conversation to talk about my needs and core values Submitted November 01, 2022 at 12:12AM I would like my partner to become aware of my values and needs in a relationship. I want to have this conversation before we get too far ahead He works full time so I don't want to stress him out or bother him How can I go about this? How should I begin the conversationTl.dr how to have a conversation to talk about my needs and core values

Anyone here goes out clubbing alone in order to meet girls? Any tips/ ideas for approaches? Submitted November 01, 2022 at 12:12AM Anyone here goes out clubbing alone in order to meet girls? Any tips/ ideas for approaches?

u/Patient_Yam4747 Pinging you so you read the comment I am replying to. Also my own two cents: Everybody is different, even in this subreddit for aces there's 180k people and every single person may have a unique experience of how asexuality is for them. It sounds like your wife is sex-repulsed, so I think pregnancy without sex might be the sort of thing you're looking for. Also, you are a very kind person, and I thank you for considering how it is for them and doing your best to not pressure them or anything. Good wishes for you and your wife. October 31, 2022 at 10:52PM

I'm so sorry, but I got this wrong. I am not Asexual. I am Demisexual. It makes much more sense. I don't like hooking up. I would prefer to get to know someone and great a bond with them before we have sex. October 31, 2022 at 10:44PM