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I told her I liked her months ago, got rejected, but she convinced me to stay friends.

We hung out 3-4 times, and then I told her I liked her, and she said I am like a brother to her, and that she thinks there is no chemistry. The I told her I do not want to stay in touch, because we do not have enough in common to be just friends. Like a common interest, or any reason to hang out without being intimate. And I do not just mean sex, I mean having intimate conversations, sharing feelings, dreams, being partners in life. I am looking for different qualities in a friendship. I told her all of this, and she convinced me to stay in touch. Mainly because I do not have any friends, and I have to start somewhere... This has been months ago. We hung out once, met a few times talking a little, but mostly, we are writing text messages or talking on the phone. The rejection still hurts a little to be honest, I still like her in some ways, I still value our phone conversations in some ways. To be clear, I am not interested in dating her anymore, I did not try to stay friends hopi