Hello, So I (28F) met this French guy (25M) at the strip club I work. He comes often to my country due to business and he was with a big group of friends. He was not a big spender took like 2 dances and then left. We exchanged contacts and then he came a second time and asked me to go out the night after. I almost always avoid going out with people I meet at work but this time I felt some connection and so I went out with him. We went on 2 dates and he was always super polite and really interesting as a personality, he had so many things to talk about and would open up a lot sharing many personal things about himself, family, work and past relationships. We seem to have a really good chemistry and a good intellectual connection which is sometimes rare for me to find. At times I meet men I like but the conversation doesn't flow well or gets boring. He was very exciting as a personality. I do like him quite a lot , he asked me both times if I wanna come to his place afterwards but...

She probably expects at my age that I've had sex before. Should I tell her or fake it till I make it? Submitted July 07, 2022 at 12:06AM She probably expects at my age that I've had sex before. Should I tell her or fake it till I make it?

Been trying to find ways of asking women out, usually when I try they are already taken. Next I’m trying dating apps like Okcupid and when matched I get no responses or just straight up get unmatched. It seems like a hard trial almost, all Im looking for is a nice and caring person but it seems like no one is willing to try. What should I do? Submitted July 07, 2022 at 12:07AM Been trying to find ways of asking women out, usually when I try they are already taken. Next I’m trying dating apps like Okcupid and when matched I get no responses or just straight up get unmatched. It seems like a hard trial almost, all Im looking for is a nice and caring person but it seems like no one is willing to try. What should I do?

So I met this girl at an event out of town, and we had a good time. During the day we exchanged Instas, and then hang out with some friends. On the bus ride back to the city, we sat together and chatted for the whole hour. A couple days later I slid in her DM s asking her how she's doing, but she didn't answer. I usually go by the motto, if she doesn't reply, she's just not into you, so double texting will only make her feel uncomfortable, so I just try to move on and call it quits. Now, a couple hours later I thought about my username, and that it is my middle name, which she doesn't know, coz I wrote my insta on her phone. So there's a chance she didn't recognize who just texted her. Could also be she did recognize me and just didn't vibe with me. Either way, I'm not sure if I should double down with a : " Hey, it's OP, by the way", but if she always knew it was me, it'd be pretty embarrassing. Should I risk it? Worst case scen...

OK so my fiancé just got a settlement for a large sum of money over 20 grand and that is all fine and dandy she use the money to purchase things for the house her kids even the cats and dogs I have not received not one penny not that I’m entitled to but hey we are engage. She asked me if she could use my food stamp card to get food for the household someone please tell me what do I take away from this? Submitted July 07, 2022 at 12:10AM OK so my fiancé just got a settlement for a large sum of money over 20 grand and that is all fine and dandy she use the money to purchase things for the house her kids even the cats and dogs I have not received not one penny not that I’m entitled to but hey we are engage. She asked me if she could use my food stamp card to get food for the household someone please tell me what do I take away from this?

Background info: Break up was not messy, we ended it in a respectful manner and there was minimal drama after the breakup. We broke up 10 months ago. A few days ago, one of our (me and my ex's) mutuals called me and told me that they were having a nice chat when my name some how entered the convo. She said that since a couple days ago was Canada Day (a day very special to me and her), it got her reminiscing about 'last summer' and that she "missed me, kinda". My friend then asked her if she ever thought about reaching out to me in which she said she did, but chose not to because I seemed happy now and didn't want to disturb me. She then apparently went on a tangent to say how the breakup wasn't easy for her either and bla bla bla. The two of them ended up deciding to make group plans where me, my ex, and the mutual (possible more people idk) would have a nice hangout again, just like last summer. She was my first love and although I am mostly over it ...

To give some background, a few months ago I asked her to hangout after work, and she kinda soft rejected me by saying she had some errands to do. I took the hint and remained friendly these past few months, and honestly thought we were just friends. We sometimes talk after work for 5-10 minutes and even bought groceries together one time about a month ago when we got off at the same time (we work at a retail store). I never got extremely flirty vibes from her but there was definitely some things that seem suspicious (feeling my hands when I said they were cold). Anyways, our other coworkers created a work chat with all a few other people with plans to hangout together. This is how I found out that she has a boyfriend she’s never mentioned which is kinda odd, as it has literally never came up in a conversation in the 6 months I’ve been working there. I tried to follow her (along with everyone else) and she rejected it but accepted the others. I’m just confused because I followed everyo...

Instead of joining dating servers/subs you could Join a friendship server/sub and start from there. The chance of finding a toxic person would be lower (however it's more likely to find people already in a relationship) July 06, 2022 at 11:12PM