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/u/Iamakitty30 on What's the stupidest thing you've heard about asexuality?

Someone asked me if I have reproductive parts. Like seriously?? September 23, 2023 at 12:12AM

Is it weird for me, 17F, to ask out a guy, 17M I haven’t talked to since middle school

I knew a boy all throughout middle school and we weren’t really friends and we went our separate ways after graduation, especially cause my eight grade year was online mostly. He was always really cute and nice in middle school and I always had a little thing for him. I hadn’t thought out of him really since middle school until a few months back I had a dream about him and considering dming him bht decided not to to not weird him out. I went to homecoming with a friend who goes to same school as my middle school crush and saw him. I couldn’t stop thinking about him after that and dmed him saying “hey, I saw you at your schools homecoming when I went with a friend and just wanted to say hi!” I didn’t really expect a response but he responded that it was great to hear from me and asked how I was. I said I was good and hearted the message he sent. Since then I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him and have been considering asking him to hang out and catch up, but I’m worried that ...

Girl isn’t ready to meet me but sent a nude, which I didn’t ask for.

A girl and I have been talking for the past month. She’s only just got out of a relationship. She has openly said she’s a very sexual person, to point she even tells me she’s horny. So, you’d think I’m a booty call or FWB right? Well she doesn’t want to meet me as she’s “not ready” which is fair enough. She has only just got out of a relationship maybe a month and a half ago. So tonight we were talking about stuff, and then she hits me with a random nude. I didn’t mind, but still. She’s never sent this before. I naturally responded with surprise and she was also asking for pictures and videos. She’s never asked this before either. It’s not out of character for her though, as she has said before she kinda does it when she’s horny and likes getting stuff back. I never asked her for this picture, but she has sent soft teases before, also without me asking. However im also only guy she’s “talking” to (I know she’s not lying about this, she’s stated multiple times she keeps ghosting guy...

I (23F) have never had a relationship and I don’t know why?

I can’t seem to figure out why no one asks me out or even hits on me in public. I’m 23 and realistically I’m not ugly. I know my body could use work, I’m a size 14, but it’s not horrendous and I have hair that reaches my butt. My eyes are pretty and skin is clear. I’m relatively friendly but I do talk a lot and can be annoying but to strangers I can be charming. I’m able to talk to strangers, I have friends, a job, a car. Hobbies like going to concerts, spending time in coffee and book and music stores. I’m a little socially awkward but it’s not life altering. Everyone around me says I’m pretty and doesn’t give me any advice on how I can actually get men to hit my line. I’ve had four or five dates lined up in the past month where the guys block me right after we make plans even though we have stated we want to go and that we both mutually agree we are attracted to each other. I suffer from low self esteem due to childhood bullying and getting rejected is just getting harder and harder...

She said she guesses

Long story short Im in college and just asked this shy girl for her number so we could possibly hangout and she said "i guess, yeah" and put her number in my phone. I just ask because she didnt seem to enthusiastic about it lol and I rarely put myself out there so dont have much experience. Should I pursue later this week or try with someone else? Thanks Submitted September 23, 2023 at 12:08AM Long story short Im in college and just asked this shy girl for her number so we could possibly hangout and she said "i guess, yeah" and put her number in my phone. I just ask because she didnt seem to enthusiastic about it lol and I rarely put myself out there so dont have much experience. Should I pursue later this week or try with someone else? Thanks

Coworker 1st encounter today

Im pretty clueless when it comes to women and their hints never been good at understanding em personally. Today at the towards the end of my shift i was asked to help this girl who ive seen around work but never had any reason to talk to, we tend to make eye contact with one another from a distance but nothing serious. While helping her today one of her first questions was “do you have any kids?” My response was “no not yet, hopefully one day though i’m still a bit young” so i asked if she had any and her response was something like “yeah i have a son” (her cat lol) would this be considered anything more than friendly coworker banter or am i making up things? Submitted September 23, 2023 at 12:17AM Im pretty clueless when it comes to women and their hints never been good at understanding em personally.Today at the towards the end of my shift i was asked to help this girl who ive seen around work but never had any reason to talk to, we tend to make eye contact with one another f...