Posts

Showing posts from June 9, 2022

Screwed over by a love bomber

I am 25F, he’s 25M. I was going through a really rough point in my life mental healthwise and this guy comes into my life via a mutual friend trying to relate to me and comfort me. And he did. He brought me so much comfort during this low point of my life because he had also been through a depressive episode that was probably worse than mine. We saw each other every day for almost a month. The first few days were already intense. He introduced me to his brother, his closest friends, and stayed over within a span of 4 days. He would spoil me endlessly and call me his girl and his wife. I thought it was just playful banter until it just became the norm. He would display me on social media and take me along everywhere he would go. I would also go out with him and his friends. He never went out with mine though. And then… it all just stopped after he did drugs at a music festival with a girl he barely knew and now he’s in a relationship with her after like 3 days of knowing her. Anyways, ...

/u/EsciobobTheOtter on Am I ace or have I just given up

If you look at someone and think "I want to duck them" then you are not asexual. If you don't then you might be asexual and sex-positive meaning you like or enjoy sex. Hopes this helps a little ☺️ June 10, 2022 at 01:29AM

In a weird situation. Do I just give up? Is she playing games? Is she still interested?

Long story short this girl came up to me at a bar about a month ago. I got her phone number and Snapchat and we went out to dinner a few days later. We both had fun and met up again on the last night of school at the bars where I walked her home and she told me she wanted to hang during the summer and even next school semester. A day after we got home from school I asked her out on a date. She said she was down and was excited to see me. Well the date never happened due to her claiming to be busy with getting ready for her internship and visits to see her friends at their colleges cuz she was gonna be gone during the first 2 weekends of summer. She told me we had all summer to make something work. Things continually got strange after this. She stopped our streak on snap and started texting less so I checked in with her to make sure I wasn’t wasting my time with her. She said she was still interested and wanted to hang out but explained why she was busy and how she stopped snapping a...

/u/S1L1C0NSCR0LLS on Anyone interested in a book club?

Most likely not. But if it was possible to lurk and maybe occasionally join for a book or two, then I might. June 10, 2022 at 12:29AM

Girlfriend upset at how often i get tired

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months now, known each other for 6 months. She goes to university an hour away and I’m the one who’s able to drive and see her. We tend to see each other once a week, with me driving one hour there and back home. So recently me and my girlfriend have been separated for about 3 weeks due to scheduling and covid , and I only have 5 days to see here left because her semester ends this. From Friday to Sunday I was able to stay at her dorm. However despite how much a commute it is, I still decided to see her the last Tues and Wed, not sleeping over but going to her dorm and back home to work. However recently this passed Wed, things kind of erupted for us. On Wed I told her I was gonna come at 4:45 after work, however when I got home I was too tired and took a nap since Tues night I just saw her and left her late to go home for work. I will admit, I should’ve communicated that I took a nap and will be coming late on our last day. I’ve also...