I care!! I hope you feel better soon! Eat lots of yummy treats in the meantime !! (If you’re able to of course) 🥰 February 15, 2021 at 12:06AM

Inosuke is literally my favorite and this makes me so very happy bless this stupid dork February 15, 2021 at 12:05AM

Any surgery you wake up from went well February 15, 2021 at 12:04AM

When I say I hate everyone and someone asks “what do you mean?” This. This is what I mean 😂 February 15, 2021 at 12:04AM

Well that I don't really know because my mom is always taking about how when I dress for formal occasions I look like ellen degeneres ( who is gay) and she doesn't like me dressing up like her. My dad doesn't really say anything about it actually. February 15, 2021 at 12:03AM

Inspiration for the cake: https://www.reddit.com/r/aaaaaaacccccccce/comments/iawxoc/ace_culture/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share February 15, 2021 at 12:03AM

imagine telling other people to get therapy when you create an account to post unhinged screeds about some asexual boogeyman you've created in your head. Like, damn, are u ok?? February 15, 2021 at 12:01AM

10/11/12 irks me a lot. Which is which?! For years <=2012, or days<=12 it sucks, there’s absolutely no certainty of the date to which you are referring. It’s even worse than 10/11/2012: while visually less balanced, at the very least the year is sorted out. But still, love me some ISO8601. That’s properly clear, and sortable. Wish more people embraced it. February 15, 2021 at 12:01AM

Finally, one I can relate to lmao February 15, 2021 at 12:00AM

Pog February 14, 2021 at 11:59PM

I've known about asexuality for a long time, but an untreated mental health condition meant that I didn't realise my true sexuality for about 10 yrs. I identified as pansexual through my teens and 20s but it's probably only in the last Yr or so I've truly thought about it and realised I'm ace panromantic, and a pretty sex averse one at that. It's causing no end of issues with my allo partner of 11yrs. February 14, 2021 at 11:56PM

Hm - it's really hard to medicate addiction of any form, let alone sexual addiction. Addiction is often tied to trauma (obviously not always), so it's something that needs to be treated with therapy. I hope he's in therapy and if not, I would say that that should be something conditional on making the relationship work. A sex drive is not a problem, but an addiction is usually a lot deeper of a problem that an open relationship won't solve, and may just worsen. I'm glad your relationship seems generally strong, because to make an open relationship work, you need a super strong foundation of communication. Make sure that you set rules, expectations, and boundaries. Also, polyamoury and openness are 2 different things, and that might need to be discussed. Being poly is having a genuine loving relationship with multiple folks. Poly people have different ways of loving people and aren't prone to 'replacing' people (at least in healthy situations). Open re...

OMG I LOVE THAT SO MUCH February 14, 2021 at 11:52PM

Aww, that sounds so great! Hope you and your partner had a wonderfully ace VDay. You've got what a lot of us in the ace club would kill to have. February 14, 2021 at 11:51PM

When you watch Blue's Clues as a toddler and had like a bunch of casettes tape, the feelings are really there But for everyone else, seeing a kid show representing lgbtq+ and having the ace flag included is nice as well _^ February 14, 2021 at 11:47PM

I know, I just remember a meme or something where Wikipedia said “Dik dik, pronounced ‘xylophone’...” February 14, 2021 at 11:45PM

It’s whatever you want! Generally, it’s a plain black band. Some people have the typical thick ones, some people have lovely silicone ones, some people have really thin rings, some people have intricate designs... it’s what you want. Totally chill. Just as long as it’s right hand middle finger February 14, 2021 at 11:44PM

A few drops of black food colouring! February 14, 2021 at 11:43PM

the acestang thanks you. for it has a small amount of the life energy from every ace around the world. February 14, 2021 at 11:40PM

yeah i've been building/modding/repairing guitars since i was 12 and i wanted to make myself something fun. February 14, 2021 at 11:39PM

The more I know about Finland, the more I'm convinced it must be the best country in the world. February 14, 2021 at 11:38PM

Awesome, thank you! February 14, 2021 at 11:38PM

Style doesn't matter. Do what makes you happy. February 14, 2021 at 11:37PM