I’ve been questioning my self so much. For me I find people cute/attractive however actually wanting physical intimacy does not happen (or rarely). It’s a good idea in my head but never in practice if that makes sense. Not sure if that just makes me sex repulsed? October 01, 2021 at 12:34AM

It took me 5 years to accept I was asexual since I figured out thats what I was. I just didn't want to accept it. I still trying to figure out romantics. I'm suspicious that I'm aro, but it's so hard to tell. October 01, 2021 at 12:33AM

Bipolar NOS, social anxiety disorder, and general anxiety disorder babyyyyy October 01, 2021 at 12:32AM

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I’ve read about dominant sex, submissive sex, but is there such a thing as assertive sex? I don’t want to dominate someone and it scares me to be submissive. But assertive sounds good. I can express my needs and wants, say no when I want and yes when I want. Am I onto something here? Does this already exist elsewhere? Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:29AM I’ve read about dominant sex, submissive sex, but is there such a thing as assertive sex?I don’t want to dominate someone and it scares me to be submissive. But assertive sounds good. I can express my needs and wants, say no when I want and yes when I want.Am I onto something here? Does this already exist elsewhere?

My GF told me she really enjoys phone sex and really loves to touch her self while we talk on the phone.. I need ideas on how to initiate it and what type of funny dirty talk and lines can I use to do the deed,, She's very shy and the fact that she opened up about one her kinks to me indicates that she trusts me and is comfortable with me,, how do I act on it? Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:31AM My GF told me she really enjoys phone sex and really loves to touch her self while we talk on the phone.. I need ideas on how to initiate it and what type of funny dirty talk and lines can I use to do the deed,, She's very shy and the fact that she opened up about one her kinks to me indicates that she trusts me and is comfortable with me,, how do I act on it?

I still think of him at night I don’t get aroused thinking of him or anything he did check all my boxes as far as what I am into physically. Anyway I offered him sex when I was drunk the second night we met. He took me back to his place in the morning when I was sober we had sex. It was consensual. I texted him for more. He said he wanted to but he was seeing someone new and if I still wanted to? I said no. So we didn’t talk for a month. He comes back around we have sex two more times when he’s available and then I stopped talking to him for a few months. I went to see him one last time months later but I got upset because I had feelings a bit and I know he wouldn’t and it was a devastating ending. Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:37AM I still think of him at night I don’t get aroused thinking of him or anything he did check all my boxes as far as what I am into physically. Anyway I offered him sex when I was drunk the second night we met. He took me back to his place in the mor...

Another post about being woken up with sex reminded me of a thing I used to do when I was young and too timid to initiate and thought it may help someone else. We agreed on me wearing an “indicator” that I was DTF. When I was wearing a certain scrunchie in my hair that was his green light. It was actually a lot of fun because I’d wear it when we’d go shopping, to family events, etc and it drove him crazy! Sometimes I’d put it on after he went to sleep and he would wake up to seeing it, granting consent for the “alarm cock” as we call it. I hadn’t thought of this in a long time and I may just start it up again for fun! 😉 Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:39AM Another post about being woken up with sex reminded me of a thing I used to do when I was young and too timid to initiate and thought it may help someone else. We agreed on me wearing an “indicator” that I was DTF. When I was wearing a certain scrunchie in my hair that was his green light. It was actually a lot of fun becau...

I’m (22F) fine with PIV sex. But for some reason I have this extreme fear that I A) will be too nervous to orgasm and also B) he’ll somehow be disgusted with my pubic hair and body and C) it’ll be an overall awkward experience How am I even supposed to rely if he’s touching me?? Am I supposed to kiss him? We’ve been dating 7 months so it’s getting ridiculous that I’m still afraid of this Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:47AM I’m (22F) fine with PIV sex. But for some reason I have this extreme fear that I A) will be too nervous to orgasm and also B) he’ll somehow be disgusted with my pubic hair and body and C) it’ll be an overall awkward experienceHow am I even supposed to rely if he’s touching me?? Am I supposed to kiss him? We’ve been dating 7 months so it’s getting ridiculous that I’m still afraid of this

she lost 20 kg, she’s obsessed with the gym now, she is starting to put make up whenever she goes outside (she never done that before), i asked her why is she doing all that all of a sudden and she said she got bored with her life style..but i don’t buy it, i feel there’s something else, could she be possibly seeing someone else? since she also started rejecting going out with me and gives me dumb excuses such as work and family..but she’s never busy for the gym ? idk if i’m overthinking it but it’s getting to me Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:02AM she lost 20 kg, she’s obsessed with the gym now, she is starting to put make up whenever she goes outside (she never done that before), i asked her why is she doing all that all of a sudden and she said she got bored with her life style..but i don’t buy it, i feel there’s something else, could she be possibly seeing someone else? since she also started rejecting going out with me and gives me dumb excuses such as work and family..bu...

Hey, 18 yr old straight guy here. I have been at college now for 2 months and I have met over 200 girls. Yet I have never been attracted to any of them. Sure they look nice, but their immature personalities just make me loose interest. Personality is way better than looks IMO. I’m very dedicated to academics, and I find a smart woman to be so attractive! However everyone I have met so far just wants to party and drink... where should I be going to find girls with similar values to me? The Library? I have been attending the honors program events with no luck, and Im getting quite discouraged. Maybe I should be lowering my standards? Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:04AM Hey, 18 yr old straight guy here. I have been at college now for 2 months and I have met over 200 girls. Yet I have never been attracted to any of them. Sure they look nice, but their immature personalities just make me loose interest. Personality is way better than looks IMO. I’m very dedicated to academics, and ...

28F. Not posting this on my main, because, well, embarrassing. I’ve never actually dated anyone, and I’ve never been physical, all by my own choice. It started out because I was super religious, then once I wasn’t religious anymore I just, idk, was too shy and scared to date, or do anything with anyone. There’s nothing “wrong” with me, I get asked out often enough, but I’ve always avoided it and been too nervous. Well, I think it’s finally time to grow up and stop acting like a little girl. I’m an adult who has her own career and house, so I should take the next step in that part of my life and try dating. But I don’t even know how . When I date, how upfront do I be about being a virgin? Assuming the men I date will be 30+. I’m not sure that’s appealing at all. Do I let them get to know me first, and then let them know how inexperienced I am? Will they be uninterested and then I would have wasted all my time, though? And when I do actually become intimate…. what advice do you have fo...

I started college beginning of this month, and this girl asked me to be in her group. She got my number, and followed me on my socials afterwards. We only have class together once a week, but we talk over snap. Today we were just talking about random things, and she did small things like patting my shoulder, pulling my chain, etc. Is she just being friendly or does she like me? I want to ask her to go out sometime, but I don’t want it to be awkward if she says no. Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:11AM I started college beginning of this month, and this girl asked me to be in her group. She got my number, and followed me on my socials afterwards. We only have class together once a week, but we talk over snap. Today we were just talking about random things, and she did small things like patting my shoulder, pulling my chain, etc. Is she just being friendly or does she like me? I want to ask her to go out sometime, but I don’t want it to be awkward if she says no.

Guy I’ve been in the talking stage with for 3 months will text or Snapchat me first, then I’ll text him and he’ll leave it on seen. Most of the time he will reply right away but sometimes we’ll go on a few days where it’s just a Snapchat and then we get back into this cycle of leaving me on read Submitted October 01, 2021 at 12:13AM Guy I’ve been in the talking stage with for 3 months will text or Snapchat me first, then I’ll text him and he’ll leave it on seen. Most of the time he will reply right away but sometimes we’ll go on a few days where it’s just a Snapchat and then we get back into this cycle of leaving me on read

Aromantic spectrum (Aroflux) September 30, 2021 at 11:43PM

I’m aromantic September 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

I don’t really know what to call it but I’m non-binary & romantically attracted to women & some other non-binary peeps; just pretty much anyone who doesn’t identify as a man. Trixic I guess but idk if I like that label much September 30, 2021 at 11:40PM

Asexuality is not the symptom of a mental disorder if that's what you're getting at. It just do happens that some asexuals, like everyone else, have a mental disorder. September 30, 2021 at 11:39PM

Np! September 30, 2021 at 11:36PM