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I (21m) find possessive phrases like “I’m yours” or “That pussy is all mine” a real turn-off!

So I guess I wouldn’t be any good in a Master/Slave relationship! Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:43PM So I guess I wouldn’t be any good in a Master/Slave relationship!

No sex life due to boyfriends schedule

Hi all. So my boyfriend works in the news and about a month or so ago he started working the morning show. He goes to bed at 6 and wakes up at 2. Our sex became infrequent, and eventually nonexistent. He is tired and says his body just can’t keep up this new schedule, and in result he is just never horny. If he can get it up he can’t keep it up. I feel really bad for him. I can’t imagine having his shitty schedule and having to go to bed at an ungodly time, as well. We’ve talked it through and he is amazing- he tries so hard to show me that I am still desired. He cooks for me every night, he bought me a big ass cookie and a rose the other night lol. He spends extra time with me because my love language is touch and quality time. He’s doing everything right. More than right- he’s going above and beyond. I’m still really really struggling though. I get angry and emotional. Last week I cried every night to him about it. I’m only 22 and I’m horny as hell lol. After a week I really start ...

Idk if this is allowed or not but I need advice

My boyfriend (18M) and I (17F) had been having secks for a week straight and he would go in without a condom sometimes. Now it feels like I always need to pee and it feels weird when I finish peeing. Even if I don't have to pee or I'm just sitting down, it feels like I need to pee. Idk if this is some type of sti or if there's something wrong with my bladder??? We took a break for 4 days and I still feel weird. I'm pretty sure it's been like this for 5 days now. I'm 16, 160cm, I don't take any medication other than the contraceptive pill. I don't have diabetes, which I heard was something that affects your peeing? I tried posting this in r/askdocs , I think it was, but it would instantly get deleted because I didn't have enough information. Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:47PM My boyfriend (18M) and I (17F) had been having secks for a week straight and he would go in without a condom sometimes. Now it feels like I always need to pee and it f...

Too much precum?

Hi, single dad here. I've not been with a partner for a few years, and I'm looking to put myself out there again. One thing I'm nervous of is that when I'm horny or aroused I precum a lot. To the point where its noticeable on my boxers and especially to a touch. Would this put off or disgust any women, if I got to that stage with them? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:48PM Hi, single dad here. I've not been with a partner for a few years, and I'm looking to put myself out there again. One thing I'm nervous of is that when I'm horny or aroused I precum a lot. To the point where its noticeable on my boxers and especially to a touch. Would this put off or disgust any women, if I got to that stage with them?

I want to be in a relationship with someone who just wants to hook up initially

I'm a 27 year old guy. I get really turned on by people who like hooking up for some reason. Even though I'd much rather be in a relationship. Like someone who waits to have sex kinda turns me off. I'd really like a situation where I hook up with someone and realize we both like each other. Then we end up dating. And I'm really attracted to women who have been with a lot of men. I've only been with like 5 women in total, but I'd honestly really want to date someone who's been with like over 50 guys. I'm not sure why, but it really turns me on. And I really would want a monogamous relationship too. I just want to date someone who used to like hooking up a lot. Is that weird? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:51PM I'm a 27 year old guy. I get really turned on by people who like hooking up for some reason. Even though I'd much rather be in a relationship. Like someone who waits to have sex kinda turns me off.I'd really like a situation ...

What is your first sex experience and what did you know know before it.

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I love him

I love this man, who is far away from me, but I know he feels the same way. Should I tell him? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:59PM I love this man, who is far away from me, but I know he feels the same way. Should I tell him?

Guy at my college approached me and asked if we could be friends, so I gave him my number

https://ift.tt/2tgRPrI Submitted February 02, 2020 at 12:14AM https://ift.tt/2tgRPrI

Does he want me to come bringin someone or by myself?

Dude posts his pals concert on his story and I swipe up knowing the venue and he says "you should come" but we arent driving together or anything so idk if he means me just show up or what Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:27PM Dude posts his pals concert on his story and I swipe up knowing the venue and he says "you should come" but we arent driving together or anything so idk if he means me just show up or what

How do you know a man has friendzoned you?

Just asking for a friend lol. Jk but pls men give me advice Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:30PM Just asking for a friend lol. Jk but pls men give me advice

Better to pick one dating app?

In your experience, do you think it is best to focus on one dating app (tinder, match.com, bumble, okcupid, etc.)? Or is it better to make profiles on all the apps and entertain all the potential matches? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:32PM In your experience, do you think it is best to focus on one dating app (tinder, match.com, bumble, okcupid, etc.)? Or is it better to make profiles on all the apps and entertain all the potential matches?

He’s just not that into me, or his cell phone?

I’m assuming he’s just not that into me, which is fine, but I’m really annoyed because I am getting mixed signals here and I’m not really sure what to do about it. Boy and I have had a few phone conversations and they’re always fun and long. Boy seems busy with life and work which I understand and I am also busy with my day to day but I’m more often on my phone to write replies, typically I reply daily or the next day if I’m busy and forget. I know that there are many people who do not check their phone every hour or even look at texts or feel the need to reply ever, so I understand and respect if that’s who he is, the problem is in my experience a lack of reply or very delayed responses plus rarely making the first contact usually indicates a lack of passion or interest. That’s all find but I just wish it weren’t so confusing to understand someone’s intentions.... When we talk he seems to really enjoy our conversations, he will subtly make comments about our first or second date, i...

Is there a good way for me (23M) to ask a friend (25F) to a second “platonic date?”

I took a girl I met in college to an event I needed a date too. It was really fun. I’m now going to a different event, and like last time, don’t even have a girl I could ask. Part of me really wants to reach out to this friend I invited the last time I needed a plus one. Part of me thinks it’s weird that we would technically have been on two dates without going out or either of them being real. That being said, I’m mostly concerned she will think it’s weird. Especially because we haven’t talked much since college. (Since May) *If the answer is I shouldn’t ask her I’d gladly take advice on how to find a date for this event as I hate going to “plus one” type events alone. (Everyone else primarily (and understandably) just pays attention to their date Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:43PM I took a girl I met in college to an event I needed a date too.It was really fun.I’m now going to a different event, and like last time, don’t even have a girl I could ask.Part of me reall...

Number two on a date

So recently I went on a date. We met up and during the date I had to take the Browns to the Super Bowl. I told her I had to use the bathroom and I went about my business (I’m a slow pooper so I took about 7-8 mins, which is rushing for me). She didn’t mention anything but she obviously knew and was a bit quiet for a bit. This didn’t affect the date but I’m wondering in the future if I should just straight up say something and make it humorous or just ignore it completely like I did? Anyone have any funny #2 stories on dates? Tldr: I pooped on a first date and it took 7-8 mins. Ladies in the future, what should I say or not say to my date? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:52PM So recently I went on a date. We met up and during the date I had to take the Browns to the Super Bowl. I told her I had to use the bathroom and I went about my business (I’m a slow pooper so I took about 7-8 mins, which is rushing for me). She didn’t mention anything but she obviously knew and was a bit ...

Does he really mean it when he friend zoned me?

This guy friend zoned me and closed the door I’m not sure why he did it. I know he wants me in his life for a long time..... Do you think he friend zoned because he doesn’t want to lose me ? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:55PM This guy friend zoned me and closed the door I’m not sure why he did it. I know he wants me in his life for a long time..... Do you think he friend zoned because he doesn’t want to lose me ?

When should I come clean to this girl I'm seeing?

I met this amazing girl (21 F) 2 weeks ago on bumble and we have gone on 3 dates so far. I really like her but I feel like its not right to go any further until I come clean. I'm not that tall, I listed 5'9.5 but I have these pads in my shoes that give me 2.5 inches of height. I really only 5'7" which turned a lot of awesome girls away from me because its not really attractive. I want to be honest with her about it but I'm not sure when or how to bring it up. Advice? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:58PM I met this amazing girl (21 F) 2 weeks ago on bumble and we have gone on 3 dates so far. I really like her but I feel like its not right to go any further until I come clean.I'm not that tall, I listed 5'9.5 but I have these pads in my shoes that give me 2.5 inches of height. I really only 5'7" which turned a lot of awesome girls away from me because its not really attractive.I want to be honest with her about it but I'm not sure when...

Should I go for this girl?

Don't mean to turn this sub into a diary, but earlier this week I asked my lab partner "lunch?" and she said "wait what" and then I didn't bother responding. Well anyways, we have date night tonight for my social frat and I asked her if she wanted to come with me as friends as a long shot, and she surprisingly said yes. But, I gave her the wrong time initially saying it was tomorrow, when it's actually today, and she said that she can't make it today but that "if you ever need a date for anything else tho lmk!!" Should I just ask her to the next date party or use this as a springboard to grab lunch this week? May she like me or is it just being nice? Submitted February 01, 2020 at 11:59PM Don't mean to turn this sub into a diary, but earlier this week I asked my lab partner "lunch?" and she said "wait what" and then I didn't bother responding. Well anyways, we have date night tonight for my social frat an...

I (23 F) feel so bad seeing couples everywhere

I hate wasting time on my house in the weekends and don’t wanna depend on other people to go with me places to have a good time. So I’ve been trying to practice going places by myself more often (like parks, beaches, etc) since I just moved to this new area and want to explore and don’t know many people . But then when I do go out I’m instantly reminded of how lonely I am because there are so many couples around making me feel like I’ll never have that. I want to be more comfortable alone and grow my self confidence to do things by myself but everytime I do it’s like a slap in the face of how I have no one. Just ingrains the fact that I never have and probably never will. Submitted February 02, 2020 at 12:02AM I hate wasting time on my house in the weekends and don’t wanna depend on other people to go with me places to have a good time. So I’ve been trying to practice going places by myself more often (like parks, beaches, etc) since I just moved to this new area and want to ex...

Approachable

How do I make myself more approachable? I don’t think I’m ugly because people tend to call me pretty, beautiful, even from strangers. So I know it’s not my looks, but I just wish a guy would approach me and we can hit it off Submitted February 02, 2020 at 12:03AM How do I make myself more approachable? I don’t think I’m ugly because people tend to call me pretty, beautiful, even from strangers. So I know it’s not my looks, but I just wish a guy would approach me and we can hit it off

What to do next

Last year (september) i dated a girl and after 2 days we pretty much broke up and never spoke again (she blocked me), but i installed badoo again and woala, she messaged me and now we have a argument about me being mad that she left me (+she is not mad but agressive towards me). What move should i do next, try to explain or what? tldr "it isnt the same, u no you are a diffrent person irl" and thats why she left me and now im trying to fix it. Submitted February 02, 2020 at 12:05AM Last year (september) i dated a girl and after 2 days we pretty much broke up and never spoke again (she blocked me), but i installed badoo again and woala, she messaged me and now we have a argument about me being mad that she left me (+she is not mad but agressive towards me). What move should i do next, try to explain or what?tldr "it isnt the same, u no you are a diffrent person irl" and thats why she left me and now im trying to fix it.

BF likes doing a lot of drugs and keeps breaking promises to get clean

my bf is really into drugs, and not just weed (im okay with that) , he wants to do coke and adderall and acid, he keeps promising me that he will stop but always finds an excuse to do that stuff again and I'm getting really tired of it, and he also keeps trying to push me to do it with him, knowing my family history with that shit and how i feel about it. What makes it worse is that he lives with his friends who encourage him to do that stuff and I really don't know what to do, I keep telling him not to and he says i shouldn't fight it and i understand why he does it...I'm at a loss... Submitted February 02, 2020 at 12:10AM my bf is really into drugs, and not just weed (im okay with that) , he wants to do coke and adderall and acid, he keeps promising me that he will stop but always finds an excuse to do that stuff again and I'm getting really tired of it, and he also keeps trying to push me to do it with him, knowing my family history with that shit and how ...

Don’t know what to do

Okay, I need some help because I really don’t what to do. So i went to this competition for high school fencing and I was finished with my bouts. I was sitting on the bleachers and then someone tells me that his friend thinks I’m cute. I was confused and shocked because that’s the first tine anyone has told me that and then he asked me if I wanted his Snapchat. I was kinda confused and didn’t know what to say because if I said no it would be super awkward so me being me I said sure. So I added him on snap and I was really embarrassed and nervous because it was the first time someone did something like that. He added me back but the thing is that I had no idea who this person was or what they looked like. When the competition was over, he texted me on snap and said hi and asked me about my grade and how long I’ve been fencing for. However, I don’t plan on dating anyone so soon and he went to another school district (and he was a year older than me). So now I’m very conflicted on what t...

I'm feeling unworthy

Is it normal my long term relationship boyfriend for almost 5 years to feel around him I'm not worth of his time? Submitted February 02, 2020 at 12:18AM Is it normal my long term relationship boyfriend for almost 5 years to feel around him I'm not worth of his time?