When I'm looking for a dating apps and profiles of women around my area I see a lot of them that love to travel, and I'm talkin good four out of five of them are World travelers. Like, specifically put in their profile that they want a significant other with a passport and loves to travel. It got my noggin joggin and thought that this was something odd to me, someone who likes to stay in my own county and rarely crosses the county line. I would take a chance on someone that loves to travel, but it's just not for me because of the expenses and the fact that I have a fear of flying. I wouldn't mind hitting the road for a road trip or something like that, but I just don't like to leave my county most of the time and I feel like I'm in the minority because of this. Like I'm the alien or something. Am I weird or is it normal? Please tell me I'm not alone on this. Submitted August 15, 2019 at 11:05PM When I'm looking for a dating apps and profiles...

I've been talking to this girl for about a week now. Everything seems fine, she started conversations as well a few times. Anyways, I asked her 2 days ago if she'd like to go on a date and her reply was that she's going to have to check her schedule to see what it is like for this week / next week and then she'd let me know. So I said sounds good! We've talked more since then, but I'm not sure what to do right now. Should I wait a few more days hoping that she tells me which day shes free or should I bring it up again? if so, how should I ask? And yes I know there's a chance that that's her way of saying no in a polite way but she still seemed interested afterwards so I don't think that's the case. In short.. Should I wait? if so, how much longer? Bring up the date again? if so, when? and if yes, how should I format it? Thanks :) Submitted August 15, 2019 at 11:35PM I've been talking to this girl for about a week now. Everything ...

Long story short. I met this girl on tinder about a week ½ ago. We exchanged numbers 1st day, talked on phone and texted over 2 days, finally met up on third day at her best friends house. I got along well with every one of her friends and always was trying to help her and her friends. We got along great first few days then she started telling me her past experiences with assholes, how she was raped, home schooled, parental issues, drugs in past, how she has mental issues and is on antidepressants, etc. With that said, I just wanted to be different than the assholes in her previous life. I was always being nice and trying to be myself, but afterawhile she started to be a little distant and getting mad over accidental shit and me trying to help. Eventually, on both of our bad days I had enough of her treating me like shit and asked for her to drive me home. We texted each other that night about how we both have issues and I basically apologized. The next day I realize I forgot my wall...

I went on hold with a dating app as it had the option to since I'm currently committed to dating someone. After a few weeks on hold, I received an e-mail from them saying I had people interested in me on there and that I should check it out. Somebody there needs to fix the software algorithm to prevent this kind of distraction that can potentially end relationships! Submitted August 15, 2019 at 11:57PM I went on hold with a dating app as it had the option to since I'm currently committed to dating someone. After a few weeks on hold, I received an e-mail from them saying I had people interested in me on there and that I should check it out. Somebody there needs to fix the software algorithm to prevent this kind of distraction that can potentially end relationships!

Lately I legitimately wonder if this is the case for me. I've always been super photogenic, which honestly isn't a good thing because it makes me feel like I am probably lesser than in real life. I worry about it now that I am using dating apps. I just feel like maybe I'm off-putting for some reason. I model and a lot of my professional photos look great, hell, even my snapchats do. But when I look in the mirror I just don't think I look that good in person. I get worried that I'm false advertising almost. I know that sounds silly, but does anyone else feel that way? Submitted August 15, 2019 at 11:59PM Lately I legitimately wonder if this is the case for me. I've always been super photogenic, which honestly isn't a good thing because it makes me feel like I am probably lesser than in real life. I worry about it now that I am using dating apps. I just feel like maybe I'm off-putting for some reason.I model and a lot of my professional photos look...

Seriously San Antonio, where are all the awesome lesbians hiding at?!! Dating is a game. It is hard and can be complicated and it shouldn’t be, I think. But here I am- single and ready to fucking mingle lol. If you know a good lesbian who lives here in SA, let me know. I can’t give up so easily. Not this time. Submitted August 16, 2019 at 12:05AM Seriously San Antonio, where are all the awesome lesbians hiding at?!!Dating is a game. It is hard and can be complicated and it shouldn’t be, I think. But here I am- single and ready to fucking mingle lol.If you know a good lesbian who lives here in SA, let me know. I can’t give up so easily. Not this time.

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My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over six months now and everything has been nothing but great between us. I truly feel like she could be someone I could end up spending the rest of my life with. We met when she went to visit her parents who live in the town where I go to college. She studies abroad, so she usually isn’t around to meet my friends and hang out with them. She spends her time here with me, her parents or her high school friends. My best friend works as a bartender at our local college bar and we went to get a drink there so he could serve us and meet for the first time, as they both heard so much about each other. He lives across the street from me and we basically hang out every day. She mentioned she’d love to meet him and perhaps the three of us could get a drink. We went to have a drink at the bar when he had his shift and she loved him, thought he was very funny and asked him if he wanted to join us another day. A couple of days later our frat ...

Everything was fine at first. We meshed so well and had so much fun together, and still do when he’s not crazy. It was like I found the puzzle piece that finally fit. He’s the only person I can be goofy around and we crack each other up every time we are around each other. He has become my best friend. He’s passionate and honestly the best sexual partner I’ve ever had. I really thought he was perfect. The issue is, he’s a former addict and has some deep seated mental issues. I kicked him out because he would get drunk, be verbally abusive and wouldn’t let me leave if I needed to. it got to the point where he physically hurt me (this was right before I found out I was pregnant) all because I was trying to leave the situation. I found out I was pregnant after we broke up, so I took him back in hopes that we could make it work. He continued to drink and take drugs and be toxic. he wouldn’t get a job while I was pregnant, with absolutely no energy, and still getting up and working ever...

i’m going to try to keep this relatively concise so as not to go on any tangents. quite frankly i may have to write a completely separate post for more universal differences between us, but that’s just depending on whether or not i feel like writing more. this is my alt account for more deeply personal things, because, reasons we’ve been together since October 2017—nearly 2 years—and sometimes my boyfriend just does these little things that annoy me to no end (like i’m sure many other’s boyfriends do). i guess though i like to think of myself as forward-thinking in the sense that i’m always actively trying to imagine our future together since, of course, we are in a long-term relationship. and sometimes when he does little things like this, things that are completely harmless and inconsequential within themselves, i get a glimpse of myself going absolutely insane over them if things never changed 10 or so years down the line. i’ll get to the point: the thing in question is that my b...

So she’ll get absolutely wasted at a club at around 10-11pm, then drive home at around 3am. She has to still be a little drunk at that point. It makes me feel extremely uncomfortable that she drives home at all after getting hammered. Yes I understand that you can sober up before driving home but it still makes me uncomfortable. In my opinion if you get anything more then tipsy (drunk) you shouldn’t drive until the next day. I talked to her about this and she said she is always sober when she goes home, and that it wears off by 2-3am. She usually goes clubbing with her friends, and I prefer to stay home. What should I do? I have very strict morals when it comes to drinking and driving, because one of my high school friends got severely injured from a drunk driver. TL;DR girlfriend gets wasted at clubs at 10pm, drives home by 2-3 am. Wondering if she’s okay to drive. Submitted August 15, 2019 at 11:55PM So she’ll get absolutely wasted at a club at around 10-11pm, then drive...

So my girlfriend and I got very serious quick. We ended up falling in love very quick. Only issue was we talked/had sex for 2 1/2 weeks before dating. In that time she told me how she would have sex 2/3 times a day with her ex (They dated 3 1/2 years). She constantly talks about how much she “loves sex.” Now we are dating and our jobs worked out to where we live in the same big city. It’s great, however, our sex life is nothing like what her and her ex’s was. She even mentioned how a few times they did it 11 times in a night. I’m naming just a few examples. And a few months later the thoughts started to manifest. I confronted her about saying those things and she said, “I wish I never dated him because it’s messing up a relationship with a guy I truly love.” She truly apologized for all those things she said. She said she never thought we would get this close. But some of that stuff was just too graphic for me. The closer we became the worse those descriptions in my head became. Th...

I didn't know how to phrase the title so please read this before answering! Me and this guy started talking 6 months ago, he randomly ghosted me and stopped talking to me 2 months in. He then messages me a month ago saying he was sorry and how he should have treated me better. He was probably talking to someone and it didn't work out BUT I know for a fact he was laid off and was struggling with life so that could have also been the main reason to ghost me. Before him ending it with me we used to talk daily but not really hang out all too often, when he ghosted me, the two weeks before he would randomly respond but definitely wasn't consistent. Anyways, I forgave him and we started talking again and now he's doing the same shit. He's texting is inconsistent and he doesn't really make plans with me. How can I tell him in an undemanding way that he's doing the same shit as before and if he doesn't step up, I'm leaving. ​ TL;DR-man ghosted me, came...

Hi guys. I would have never thought to come here for help or opinions but I’m not sure what else to do. My (24F) fiancée (23F) has told me when we first started dating that she has waves of depression and I understood, i get them too. I was always able to calm her down and let her know i was there for her when she was having a panic attack or was in a depressed state before up until now. We have a fun, passionate amazing relationship but in the past 6 months when we have a disagreement it has turned into a full on breakdown from her, saying that no one cares about her and that she feels everything is pointless. I know this may sound like she’s just upset about the fight but it eventually leads into her saying she doesn’t want to be here and that she feels like nothing makes her happy anymore. She recently graduated with a degree and cannot find a good paying job and that is weighing on her heavily as well, she says she has no purpose. I try to tell her she isn’t the only one, thousand...

I'm struggling. There are a lot of times I feel like he is so quick to be defensive. From little things to big things, he just gets really defensive, at least I feel anyway. But also starting to question myself? Am I being too sensitive? Today I am still wrapping up a really bad flu, had a fever and took a nap. It's tmi but I wasn't feeling well and didn't brush my teeth today. I woke up, he came to give me a kiss, and gagged at my breath and said it stunk. He was laughing and said he was kidding when I told him it bothered me that he felt the need to say that when I haven't felt well and I knew my breath wasn't the best. He got aggravated with me because he felt like I was falsely accusing him of doing anything wrong because he was just kidding. But he wasn't just kidding - my breath really did stink, I knew that, I just didn't think he needed to tell me that. So then we're arguing because he doesn't think it was wrong to say it and I feel lik...

My girlfriend has depression, and i’ve been supportive throughout 6 months, up until now. I have gotten her a therapist but it doesn’t seem to be helping. However, she has told me that if i break up with her, she will kill herself. She has become possessive and jealous. I’m becoming increasingly conflicted about what to do. I love her and i want to support her but I don’t think that it’s healthy that we’re together anymore. Am i being manipulated? Is this abusive? My mind is making me think that if i break up with her knowing that she is at risk and she kills herself, that is on me. I have already alerted her parents. I have already tried to break up with her, only to come back to her out of concern. Today i finally broke up with her and she cut herself. I’m afraid i could lose her forever. TLDR: My girlfriend is depressed and I broke up with her knowing that she threatened to kill herself if i stayed with her. Submitted August 16, 2019 at 12:05AM My girlfriend has depression, ...

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