I've noticed that the woman my current boyfriend chased after and gave attention (before we were together) to had fake boobs. I expressed that I was thinking of getting them since I think it will be fun for both of us and I honestly just like boobs. I'm a B now and would only go up to about a full C trying to stay as soft and natural as possible. To my complete surprise he was not for it. He full on stated that he didn't even like fake boobs. He said that in his experience with them, they don't feel as good or move like natural breasts do. He said it made an easy route to the woman because he knew that's what they wanted to be complimented on and to get attention with. He said that even the girls who swore they felt natural that they didn't feel natural to them. He just told them they did and basically told them what they wanted to hear. I asked him if he was saying that because he didn't want me to get attention or to be more attractive to other men and h...

I (17m) have to see my ex (16f) everyday at school and it seriously sucks. I have a lot of classes with her too and she's very pretty and a nice person to be around so a lot of guys talk to her and try and flirt with her. I can mentally cope with it for a while but it still gets to me little by little and by the end of the day I keep having a mental breakdown.Im trying really hard to self improve especially cause the whole reason we broke up was cause I was a asshole and there is still a opportunity to get back together some day. She's coping with things very well cause she has friends to fall back on but I have very few people who are all also her friends and people I don't enjoy that much . With my already on going depression this is becoming to much for me to handle and it's affecting my grades cause I can't concentrate and I wanna get home as soon as possible . Any ideas on what I should do? td;lr have to see my ex at school everyday and seeing her leaves me e...

So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months (I know it’s not long but it feels longer). And I love him well and truly but I’m really not sure what to do anymore. Like as I type this I’m having a panic attack because everything is just so stressful. For example today was a really hard day for me and I went to him for support (over text), his advice was pretty much practical support which while appreciated I tried to explain that I’d rather he just support me emotionally. Because of this he got pissed and just ignored me which made everything much worse. I’m always there for him when he needs me, literally for hours on end when he needs help or cheering up but, he just up and left when I needed him. I’m probably just overreacting but I’d like some advice from an unbiased party, so please anything is welcome. TL:DR boyfriend abandoned me when I really needed him (not the first time, it’s causing me a lot of stress and anxiety. Should I break up with him? Submitte...

To paint the picture, I was always a chubby kid, but I weighed the most when I was a freshman in college. It got to the point where I realized that I needed to make some changes or else they may cause some health problems. So as a sophomore in the fall, I decided to get in shape and started walking everyday and cut out soda completely. I fell in love with running and how great it made me feel about myself. By the next summer, I dropped about 45 pounds. Since then, I have continued running when I am able to & I continue to eat/drink healthy. I now weigh 145 pounds and have kept it off pretty well over the years. However, I still have a chubby stomach and view myself as being fat still. Everyone that knew me as a child does not recognize me anymore. People that I went to graduate school with cannot believe how much I weighed in the past and were shocked when I showed them pictures of myself from years ago. I would go out with friends to bars and clubs and try to meet a girl. I have...

I'm 30 male and have been alone all my life. Never been anywhere near a woman. No first kiss, holding hands etc. I don't know what it feels like to have someone care you exist, or wanting to spend time with you or thinking you're valuable or special in any way. I have realized that at this point I'm so used to this feeling of being alone and lonely that I can't even imagine being with someone anymore. I've wanted to be with someone all my life. And I still do. I want nothing more than that. But I can't possibly imagine having someone in my home, I've literally never had a single person at my home. I can't imagine what it's like to share a bed, to wake up in the morning and there's another person, to come home and there's another person, to make plans together, to get touched by another living thing, etc. Life for me just means being alone. I see people here going from one relationship to the next. It's completely normal for them....

Hi everyone, I'm currently alone in the emergency with my mom (nothing too crazy) and have had 6 hours to mull things over and I still am not able to think of a solution. So I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 6 months now, and we've been hooking up for about 10 months. The sex has been consistently pretty solid, she is very vocal about how much she enjoys being prioritized and how easy and pleasurable and safe it feels. I also enjoy it quite a lot.. I've never been more physically, emotionally and mentally attracted to someone. Everything about her is so intoxicating and irresistible, I really can't get enough. The actual sex is good as well. I do end up doing a lot of the legwork and sometimes I would like more effort on her part and to feel prioritized in the same way she does but overall it's great and I really enjoy being with her. In any case, the quality of sex isn't really an issue and is something that can easily be remedied through comm...

My girlfriend is in a mood yet again because she “misses me” and its getting old. I dont drive, but I have no problem paying for bus trips and traveling 6+ hours to go see her, but not once can she come see me. Her parents wont let her come to LA and she gets mad when I ask her to come see me just once because “I already know she cant come” but she expects me to fight my parents to go see her every week. tl:dr Girlfriend is in a mood because I cant go see her, even though I see her as often as I can since I have school and work. Submitted October 11, 2019 at 11:51PM My girlfriend is in a mood yet again because she “misses me” and its getting old. I dont drive, but I have no problem paying for bus trips and traveling 6+ hours to go see her, but not once can she come see me. Her parents wont let her come to LA and she gets mad when I ask her to come see me just once because “I already know she cant come” but she expects me to fight my parents to go see her every week.tl:dr Girlf...

I am bringing this to Reddit because I am absolutely desperate for guidance and I don’t want to annoy my only friend! So about two weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 11 years. We started dating when I was 16 and I’ll be 28 this month. He was my first boyfriend and we have two children together. Like always, it started out great but then a few months in the cheating started. I, being so blinded by love and not being experienced with relationships, believed his terrible excuses. I hate to be long winded so to TRY to wrap it up: •He cheated too many times to count. About 85% of the relationship. I was beyond hurt but was in love with the vision of what “we could be” if he’d just change...someday •During my senior year he got a felony charge so he’s been in and out of work. Mostly out! •When I was in college he had his first child with the girl he had always cheated on me with (I found out by her not him). Dealt with her threatening/stalking me all throughout the relationship ...

I [26M] lost my virginity to a prositute when i was 24. Now, I am not ashamed of this in the slightest, in fact the story is pretty hilarious in my opinion haha. However I am wondering about future dating prospects. I know for many, this isn't something someone would appreciate or neccessaryily judge well. Understandable. The first girl i was with after the prositute how i lost my virginity, albeit 6 months later and after telling her that I lost it to "some girl at a party", which she could tell wasn't the truth. Though she didn't push me about it until later. I trusted her with the knowledge and knew she wouldn't judge me and quite frankly i was ready to tell her too. However, at the start, I felt it wasn't really her business and felt it might be judged poorly by her. ​ SO, my question is, in the future, is it worth being honest about how I lost my virginity? I feel it's important to be 100% transparent with your partner, but I also feel that tha...

I [23f] dated this guy [28m] I REALLY liked for about four months... personality-wise we were two peas in a pod and basked in each other’s company. He worked insane hours (close to 100 some weeks) and was using significant amounts of cocaine to cope. My brothers both work in similar roles, so I know how hard his career is on his mental health. Not to mention we have a bit of an age difference, not a huge deal but we are at different places in our careers. Breaking things off was a logical decision, not an emotional one. After breaking things off, he tried to ask me out two more times. Once a couple of weeks after, and again three months later. The last time he reacted very badly and acted like he didn’t really like me/care anyway and went and immediately blocked me on everything. To be clear, I didn’t bother him at all after the first time. I understand that most men don’t like to be strung along after rejection, even though I missed him. He continued to follow me on social media (mil...

My parents are trying to sell their house but my mom is a hoarder. The house is full to the brim of stuff and it has been that way from the beginning. Whenever it is mentioned that it is her responsibiliity to clean it, she ends up crying. It's mostly knick nacks and random stuff that has a bit of sentimental value to her so it's not like we can just throw it away. She works about 80 hours a week (by her choice, we tell her it's not healthy to push so hard). She doesn't take care of herself so she's often sick for not sleeping or eating right. My dad and I don't want to push her even more but we need the house clean to sell it. What should we do? TL;DR My mom is a hoarder who needs to clean so we can sell the house Submitted October 12, 2019 at 12:04AM My parents are trying to sell their house but my mom is a hoarder. The house is full to the brim of stuff and it has been that way from the beginning. Whenever it is mentioned that it is her responsibilii...

This is kind of an unusual and difficult situation. I am a descendant of Hitler, confirmed vis genealogy and genetic testing. Let me say upfront that I despise my family history and don’t have a bigoted bone in my body. I decided long ago that I wouldn’t perpetuate this bloodline and decided I did not want to have any children. Unfortunately, I have been unsuccessful at maintaining my vow when tempted by attractive women, which I’ll admit happens frequently. I prefer to end intercourse “the old fashioned way”, if you understand. This has led to a situation in which I have 4 different children with 3 different mothers. However I feel that I can still maintain the spirit of my vow. You see my children are also descendants of Hitler, and I refuse to pay child support to anyone with such a evil bloodline. The mothers are making my life difficult and saying horrible things about me. Some side with me and some them, what can I do to resolve the situation? TL:DR I choose not to support thos...

I can only find it in the Lexico (Oxford) dictionary online. You didn't check Merriam-Webster ??? October 12, 2019 at 12:11AM

Because it's part of who we are and being able to share that can help our loved ones understand us better and maybe even connect with us more. And in some cases it actually can play a role in our relationships. October 12, 2019 at 12:11AM

Heck, I’d take the friends at this point October 12, 2019 at 12:08AM

For reference, blackened silver with a pearl and amethyst. The back end is just silver. He wanted to note the recognition and transition of my asexuality. October 12, 2019 at 12:06AM

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It hasn't been that bad so far! Only a few people haven't understood but most of my friends are super supportive! October 11, 2019 at 11:57PM

Sorry if this is a little scattered! I'm not the best at writing about my "feelings." I'm not going to put our ages because he uses reddit and I'm nervous he'll see this post and it'll get awkward. He's around three years older than me (I'm a female) and we're both in our mid-twenties. I'm in the US for an internship and the place I am interning for provides housing for the interns. There are four of us in the house, two males and two females. Because of this, I am around this guy all of the time. We work together, live together, and we usually spend a couple of hours in the presence of one another every weekend when we volunteer at an animal sanctuary. He's self-proclaimed a little shy and awkward (which is evident), but in my opinion he's definitely warmed up to me over the last few months. Our conversations have become a lot easier now and his smiles seem more genuine. He's also started to understand my humour (it's a...

(19M) In college so most conversation starts on the topic of school. However most of the times I can't seem to move the conversation from small talk and safe topics to a more interesting conversation. Even whem I'm interested I can't seem to make the conversation interesting. How do you move away from small talk? Any advice on how to ask the right questions? Submitted October 11, 2019 at 11:46PM (19M) In college so most conversation starts on the topic of school. However most of the times I can't seem to move the conversation from small talk and safe topics to a more interesting conversation. Even whem I'm interested I can't seem to make the conversation interesting. How do you move away from small talk? Any advice on how to ask the right questions?

I need some girl advice. I've been texting this girl the last couple of weeks and thus far it hasn't been too bad. She's actually texted me what my age was, what I want to do, and all those important questions straight up (hopefully) signalling that she is somewhat interested (my guess, might be completely wrong). However, I must admit that lately she hasn't been texting me often and I seem to be the one initiating the conversation more. She seems like she's really busy which is fine, but anyways I asked her to lunch and she said "sure, if I am not busy". Nonetheless, when I was trying to set things up she said she got sick the day before, but she also said "maybe we can hangout next weekend?". Now I don't know if I should take that as a flaky response or do you guys' still think she's interested in me? Submitted October 11, 2019 at 11:49PM I need some girl advice.I've been texting this girl the last couple of weeks and t...

My mom said you should always check. Should I? Is she right? Submitted October 11, 2019 at 11:51PM My mom said you should always check. Should I? Is she right?