Bole so nihaal! I was beginning to wonder if I would find another Sikh in this thread. There doesn't seem to be much overlap in either circle. October 11, 2021 at 12:05AM

I dont think the 'its a slur' is the correct aprroach. It doesn't matter what random people say about you, but you do care about your friends opinions. So its not really about it being offensive, its about hurting you, knowing it brothers you and keep doing it regardless. I think your friends are the kind of people who are more focused on being politically correct, than good friends. Making them, not bad people, but shitty friends. October 11, 2021 at 12:05AM

https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Oriented_AroAce October 11, 2021 at 12:03AM

Pan recipromantic October 10, 2021 at 11:55PM

I don’t feel romantic attraction (never get crushes, “fall in love” the way others do) but I would consider entering a romantic relationship if the opportunity came up. Lesbian oriented just means that the attraction I do experience (aesthetic and platonic primarily) draws me more to women than anyone else, making me think a relationship with a woman would be more likely. (The most likely thing to happen though is nothing; being aroace and trying to enter the dating scene is even more of a nightmare than just being ace). October 10, 2021 at 11:54PM

I’ve (29F) been with my boyfriend (26M) for a few months but we’ve been friends for a while. When I first met him he somewhat mentioned a Daddy kink, I’m not talking full on DDLG but he likes being called Daddy in bed. I was a complete idiot at the time and made fun of the whole idea of calling someone who isn’t your dad “Daddy” Obviously since then we’ve grown really close. I’m really falling in love with him and I want to be with him forever. I circled back to the idea and decided I was a complete baffoon to ever make fun of something so intimate. I tried to talk to him about it and he insisted I don’t have to do something that makes me uncomfortable or indulge all his kinks. But I’ve spent time reflecting on it and honestly a word is nothing to me in context of the possibility of being with him forever. I want him to feel adored, sexy and hot as hell and if it turns him on I want to do it Is there anyway I can turn this around? I’m kinda thinking to just make him a dirty video...

I was fat and morbidly obese until recently when I began working out and losing weight. Didn’t have much sex other than one time. Sex Ed was also don’t do it, abstinence or wear a condom if you are. Was getting a blowjob the other day and I got curious. Submitted October 11, 2021 at 12:41AM I was fat and morbidly obese until recently when I began working out and losing weight. Didn’t have much sex other than one time. Sex Ed was also don’t do it, abstinence or wear a condom if you are.Was getting a blowjob the other day and I got curious.

So, I’ve went on a couple dates with this guy and we actually haven’t had sex yet. Although we’ve kissed and talked about it a lot, the kind of stuff we’re into, masturbation etc. We’ve actually just both been busy this week but I invited him over next week, which I know we both know what will most likely go down then lol. But my question is, is it weird to try and amp up the anticipation by sending him a dirty text like this? And if not any recommendations on what to write? I’m bad at texting dirty lol. Submitted October 11, 2021 at 12:45AM So, I’ve went on a couple dates with this guy and we actually haven’t had sex yet. Although we’ve kissed and talked about it a lot, the kind of stuff we’re into, masturbation etc. We’ve actually just both been busy this week but I invited him over next week, which I know we both know what will most likely go down then lol. But my question is, is it weird to try and amp up the anticipation by sending him a dirty text like this? And if not any...

Using a throwaway account. So I’m 19 and I have never retracted my foreskin before. I was just simply never taught to. Well I recently have and I discovered I had smegma (which freaked me out at first). I got rid of it and now I know that I do in fact need to clean underneath my foreskin which I have started doing. Here is the problem though: when I do retract my foreskin, it is pretty difficult because it feels sticky and it sticks to my gland. In addition to this my gland hurts when touched. What can I do to cure this as fast as possible. I am urinating fine and overall healthy. Submitted October 11, 2021 at 12:50AM Using a throwaway account.So I’m 19 and I have never retracted my foreskin before. I was just simply never taught to. Well I recently have and I discovered I had smegma (which freaked me out at first).I got rid of it and now I know that I do in fact need to clean underneath my foreskin which I have started doing.Here is the problem though: when I do retract my ...

One of my friends has been single for nearly ten years. She was in a bad relationship before that, and generally tries to avoid any serious connections with men. However, she hooks up with guys every few weeks, and then cries about it because she feels like a slut for sleeping with someone she isn't dating. I was wondering whether, if she had a vibrator and could reliably get off without a guy being involved, would she be less likely to get into these hookups that she later regrets? And if so, is there any way for a guy to recommend a vibrator for a platonic friend without it being weird? Submitted October 11, 2021 at 12:58AM One of my friends has been single for nearly ten years. She was in a bad relationship before that, and generally tries to avoid any serious connections with men.However, she hooks up with guys every few weeks, and then cries about it because she feels like a slut for sleeping with someone she isn't dating.I was wondering whether, if she had a vib...

I went on a date with a guy who I have know for a few years last night, we’ve never been really close but there has always sexual tension and he has before asked me to come over after nights out but I have always declined cause I don’t really like one night stands but I always really into him regardless but we have never really gotten to know each other . He asked me on a date and i went. I find him to be one of the most attractive people in regards to looks but also personality and we talked for a few hours but he was really reserved and didn’t touch except to hug hello goodbye - kinda seemed like two friends catching up? I can’t figure if this is good or bad? I was pretty nervous but couldn’t tell if he was, has anyone experienced anything similar on a first date? Submitted October 10, 2021 at 11:52PM I went on a date with a guy who I have know for a few years last night, we’ve never been really close but there has always sexual tension and he has before asked me to come over ...

I'm [M24] from a rather small town, and I recently found out that the girl [22] I'm currently dating has dated one of my friends. The girl is very interested in me and isn't afraid of showing it. I think I like her too. Now, here's the interesting part. Today she wondered why I never asked about her previous relationships and sex life, to which I said that such questions are usually answered dishonestly. She said that she won't answer exactly everything, but she wouldn't lie. Fair enough. In short, I'm now 98% sure that she have dated one of my friends 4 years ago, for 10 months. I've always known about this guy as an acquaintance, but actually got to know him a little less than 2 years ago through my best friend. We've met a few times, we don't really hang out, but I know that he respects me a lot and I do the same. After knowing this, for some reason it just feels over. It actually made me sad, and I can't say that I don't care....

Hi, sorry if this is the incorrect subreddit to post this in. I am a 22M in Vancouver, and I have been feeling insecure in regards to me not owning a car. I do not own a car because transportation here is very convenient and cheap, as well, I might be traveling abroad for school in the next 2ish years. However, I’ve been wanting to get into the dating scene and wanted to know if women prefer their date to own vehicles? I understand that answers may vary but the reason why I’m insecure and curious about this is that a handful of my female Friends would complain to me about their date not owning cars or this and that and was wondering if most felt this way and would it affect my chances of getting a date? I am sorry if this question may seem ignorant. I am relatively new to the dating scene. Thank you. Submitted October 10, 2021 at 11:55PM Hi, sorry if this is the incorrect subreddit to post this in.I am a 22M in Vancouver, and I have been feeling insecure in regards to me not o...

I’ve been seeing this guy for a three weeks . We met about 4-5 times. But I don’t feel he’s making enough effort. He’s not planning proper dates or anything. Last time we met on Tuesday this week and we said will do something on a Saturday night. His friends went out and he was supposed to join and he asked if I’d want to go , I said with pleasure . He said he doesn’t feel like dressing up and drinking or going out in general , BUT , he’s said will do something else together if not to go out , he said he’ll let me know later on what are we doing but I haven’t heard from him untill 9 pm.. So I texted , hey , what’s the plan for tonight it’s almost 9 but I haven’t heard rom you. So he called me right away . He said he had no idea what to do and that he’s on his way home. He said he doesn’t know what to do and he doesn’t feel like going to a restaurant or bar. He got home , faced timed me , we spoke etc. I also told him I’m free the next day and tomorrow so we could do something but he...

Got girls insta we've been talking for a month she's really nice to me, but she left me on seen after I sent a boring message because I always move the convo forward and wanted to just see if she would but she didn't, she's really shy. What do I say to reinvigorate interest I can tell you guys what she is into? She loves lizards, pokemon anime and goth stuff pretty much. Any good opening lines to reinvigorate a convo? Submitted October 11, 2021 at 12:01AM Got girls insta we've been talking for a month she's really nice to me, but she left me on seen after I sent a boring message because I always move the convo forward and wanted to just see if she would but she didn't, she's really shy. What do I say to reinvigorate interest I can tell you guys what she is into? She loves lizards, pokemon anime and goth stuff pretty much. Any good opening lines to reinvigorate a convo?

What does this mean?? I’ve never heard of it October 10, 2021 at 11:21PM

Could you explain the difference? What does it mean for you? October 10, 2021 at 11:18PM

it can be kinda stressful but try your best so you can know what to do for your health i hope ya figure this out but you aren't broken or anything:) October 10, 2021 at 11:16PM

You can be both October 10, 2021 at 11:11PM

Personally im sexually romantically attracted to bisexual women polyamouras kind or the demi kind October 10, 2021 at 11:07PM