Posts

Showing posts from April 16, 2019

May your day be filled with warmth, love, laughter and happy moments

Image

Silent Tears Hold The Loudest Pain

Image

No matter how much I say I love you, I always love you more than that.

Image

Never ignore a person who loves you

Image

I Miss You

Image

If you truly love someone, being faithful is easy

Image

Love is not about possession, it's all about appreciation

Image

When it hurts to move on

Image

I never want to stop making memories with you

Image

Do you still talk/hang out with your ex's?

I had lunch with my ex today. We talk every once in a while online, but we haven't seen each other in 2 years. It was a little odd seeing her. She looked so good. I'm suddenly remembering all the good times we've had, and honestly they were all mostly good times. We never fought or argued. I don't know if I really feel this way or seeing her sparked a lot of memories, I feel like I would definitely agree to dating her again if she asked me out. Have any of you ever got back with an ex? How did it go? Submitted April 16, 2019 at 01:39AM I had lunch with my ex today.We talk every once in a while online, but we haven't seen each other in 2 years.It was a little odd seeing her. She looked so good.I'm suddenly remembering all the good times we've had, and honestly they were all mostly good times. We never fought or argued.I don't know if I really feel this way or seeing her sparked a lot of memories, I feel like I would definitely agree to dating

Does this have potential?

So I met this guy on a dating app about a month and a half ago and we occasionally texted and finally met about 2 weeks ago. We’ve been on a total of 3 dates so far and kissed at the end of our 3rd. I’ve had a really nice time so far and I think we both have a shared, genuine interest in seeing each other and getting to know each other. We have another date planned for this weekend and I’m looking forward to it. The only issue here is the age gap. I’m currently in my first year of college while he is in his early 30’s. He’s never been married and doesn’t have kids. I don’t want to rush into anything and think we’re both taking it slow and just taking the time to get to know each other and have fun together as of right now, but when we first started talking on the app we did both share that we’re looking for a long-term relationship. I really like him so far and look forward to getting to know him and seeing him as a potential partner. Do you guys think this age gap is a serious issu

Met a nice girl in person after a year of trying.

My (37) attempts of meeting a girl (35) included: regular meetups, joining a coworking space; taking language classes; and the most unfulfilling: old. It took about a year and a half. We met in our daily language class about 1.5 months ago and started dating a week ago. She brightens the room upon her arrival. I think we want the same things. And she has her own hobbies and exercises. :) yay Submitted April 16, 2019 at 02:55AM My (37) attempts of meeting a girl (35) included: regular meetups, joining a coworking space; taking language classes; and the most unfulfilling: old. It took about a year and a half. We met in our daily language class about 1.5 months ago and started dating a week ago. She brightens the room upon her arrival. I think we want the same things. And she has her own hobbies and exercises. :) yay

It's odd that I don't match with less attractive women on dating apps.

Whom are they swiping on? As an average faced, educated, tall dude with a full head of hair, I'd expect more matches with the lower 80% of the bell curve, but I don't even get matches if my life depended on it. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:33AM Whom are they swiping on?As an average faced, educated, tall dude with a full head of hair, I'd expect more matches with the lower 80% of the bell curve, but I don't even get matches if my life depended on it.

That moment when the anxiety hits juuuust right...

Last time I (31M) ventured into OLD was about 2 or 3 years ago. Matched with this nice single mom in Washington about a half hour from where I lived. We were both busy, so it took us a long while to finally meet for a proper date, during which time she told me that she thought she loved me. Again, this was before she had even met me in person. Needless to say, it didn't last long soon after. Then I took a break while I tried my best to improve my standing in life: find a better job, start going to a gym and shedding some pounds/getting into better shape, socializing more with my friends... Fast forward to this year: moved to Texas, found a better-ish job (or at least something I'm low-key not ashamed to tell people about), gained some weight but looking to find a gym to get back on track to my weight goal, zero friends who live down here. So naturally I decided to dip my foot back into the dating pool. And so far the experience has been... about what I expected. Conversations

He's 15.

http://bit.ly/2KDEZvt Submitted April 16, 2019 at 03:44AM http://bit.ly/2KDEZvt

Nice guy wants to kill because women wont talk to him

http://bit.ly/2v4C3NR Submitted April 16, 2019 at 03:48AM http://bit.ly/2v4C3NR

Nice guy loses his dog

http://bit.ly/2V61DRe Submitted April 16, 2019 at 04:02AM http://bit.ly/2V61DRe

Threw a child off a third story mall balcony because he was rejected.

http://bit.ly/2KJhOju Submitted April 16, 2019 at 04:12AM http://bit.ly/2KJhOju

A gamestop review by a real nice guy

http://bit.ly/2V3032H Submitted April 16, 2019 at 04:37AM http://bit.ly/2V3032H

Hope you guys can read this well. (Order is from top left to bottom right) Long story short, the guy is mad cause my friend doesnt want a relationship with him and he thinks they are something. She talks to other guys and he gets mad.

http://bit.ly/2KIAZtP Submitted April 16, 2019 at 04:44AM http://bit.ly/2KIAZtP

Not even a super nice guy, just a respectful one

http://bit.ly/2UXRw11 Submitted April 16, 2019 at 04:46AM http://bit.ly/2UXRw11

"I don't agree with rape unless its committed as a war crime"

http://bit.ly/2KEo641 Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:02AM http://bit.ly/2KEo641

F in the chat for my boi

http://bit.ly/2V06MdI Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:22AM http://bit.ly/2V06MdI

a Craigslist gentleman

http://bit.ly/2KCMeE2 Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:28AM http://bit.ly/2KCMeE2

My friend got some dude who would just send her dick pics and items with her name on it. He started to get creepy so she blocked him on snap and then he sent her this.

http://bit.ly/2V8NeEd Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:29AM http://bit.ly/2V8NeEd

Nice guy spotted in the YouTube comments

http://bit.ly/2KJkMon Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:29AM http://bit.ly/2KJkMon

this dude took it a little to far in the group chat 😬

http://bit.ly/2V1xvGH Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:33AM http://bit.ly/2V1xvGH

I listed a painting on letgo and this "nice guy" started hitting on me. Did i mention he was being nice and wanted to be my friend?

http://bit.ly/2KHNje1 Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:38AM http://bit.ly/2KHNje1

Money = girls

http://bit.ly/2V61Bc4 Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:40AM http://bit.ly/2V61Bc4

RIP good guys

http://bit.ly/2KEnNGp Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:47AM http://bit.ly/2KEnNGp

They are learning

http://bit.ly/2UXRy99 Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:54AM http://bit.ly/2UXRy99

Guy would pretend to be dying for sympathy and favors. Idk if it counts as a “nice guy” but oh well🤷‍♂️ this is a repost because i forgot to blurr out some shit

http://bit.ly/2KHwbFc Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:33AM http://bit.ly/2KHwbFc

Dog what the fuck?

http://bit.ly/2UWh9ze Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:40AM http://bit.ly/2UWh9ze

I think we got one lads!!! Video is of a girl cheating on her bf w a guy, but this nice guy doesn’t approve.

http://bit.ly/2KJhNfq Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:41AM http://bit.ly/2KJhNfq

Forever and Always

In 2013 I met you for the first time. You came in through the doorway of my buddies room to stop by and tell him happy birthday. You came with a friend but I couldn’t stop looking at you, no make up, t-shirt with Nike shorts and a North face jacked. Right away I knew I wanted to see more of you, I immediately started trying to make you laugh with the hopes of seeing you again. So I invited you and your friend to a party I was having, that was the first time we kissed. Wasn’t it love soon as we knew each other properly? After months of spending countless hours together you reciprocated you’re feelings to me as I did to you and I’ve never felt about any woman the way I’ve felt for you then. I still feel that way...I always will. Submitted April 15, 2019 at 09:14AM In 2013 I met you for the first time. You came in through the doorway of my buddies room to stop by and tell him happy birthday. You came with a friend but I couldn’t stop looking at you, no make up, t-shirt with Nike sh

An unlikely coincident with a really great guy

I've been dating this guy for a while and recently he came over and noticed all the post-it notes stuck to my desk. He asked what they were and I awkwardly explained to him that when I was younger I used to be really insecure so as a way to help myself through it, when people complimented me I'd write it down on a post-it note and stick it to my desk. It was just my way of reminding myself that I didn't need to feel as insecure as I did. It worked well but I feel kind of dumb about it sometimes, more so that I sometimes still do need to look at them and remind myself that I'm not the worst. I told him this too and instead of answering me he got out his wallet and pulled out a piece of paper. I unfolded it and it was a list of all these nice things all his friends had said about him. He told me he hadn't needed to look at it in a while but he still likes to keep it on him just in case he needs it. It probably sounds dumb but it made me feel so love-struck with him,

Short vent

She had been right in front of me for over a year, the only problem being she belonged to someone else. That someone being my roommate at the time. From the first time I saw her I knew this one was special, there was just something about her. A kind of glow if you will, that i had never seen in anyone before. And so incredibly beautiful, breathtakingly so. We quickly became good friends and often spent hours just talkning in the livingroom, shareing experiences, talking about everything between heaven and earth and joking around . Gave each other advice and attention during mentaly though times for both of us. She was my rock already then although our relation was strickly platonic and I was satified like that. Until I no longer were. A couple of months passed I noticed myself becoming progressively more jealous about all the little things and intreactions between her and her boyfriend. Which had never even faced me before, especially since I have always enjoyed being alone, but some

My boyfriend keeps on following sexy girls on Instagram..

This has happened a lot of times. My boyfriend keeps on following sexy girls on Instagram no matter how much I express that it offends me. He offered to unfollow them but as I got home and checked it, he turned his account to private from public. FYI, we dont follow each other on IG. He obviously did it so I wont be able to check who he follows. I know my boyfriend is a good guy but.. he seems like he’s not paying attention to my feelings. Boys, do you have any valid reason to say regarding this behaviour? I know he’s entitled to his privacy but ugh.. I dont know. This feels really sad. Submitted April 15, 2019 at 02:29PM This has happened a lot of times. My boyfriend keeps on following sexy girls on Instagram no matter how much I express that it offends me. He offered to unfollow them but as I got home and checked it, he turned his account to private from public. FYI, we dont follow each other on IG. He obviously did it so I wont be able to check who he follows. I know my boyfr

its excruciating

I think about you all the time, wondering what you're up to, if you had eaten yet or even if you're is having fun with your friends. I know you is not entitled to think about me and like me, or even be slightly interested in me... but I wish you would even have the slightest thought about me during your day. I haven't contacted you for over a week, and you haven't reached out to me. I guess that says it all. Submitted April 15, 2019 at 02:47PM I think about you all the time, wondering what you're up to, if you had eaten yet or even if you're is having fun with your friends.I know you is not entitled to think about me and like me, or even be slightly interested in me... but I wish you would even have the slightest thought about me during your day.I haven't contacted you for over a week, and you haven't reached out to me. I guess that says it all.

rebound

i once had a friend, and i like him. he likes some other girl. they're both talking; he's always there for her. they make each other happy. until this girl had a boyfriend; she cut off their communication because of this. then he got broken-hearted. i started teasing him "rebound!" and i found it hilarious. but still, i'm always here to listen to his rants, and i also tried to give him advices, but he just won't listen to me (i suck at giving advices). he really got hurt. then idk i just suddenly fell in love with his words. i fell in love more when i saw him in his downs. we're both talking and because of that i knew him well and we got closer. he became my happy pill; when i'm sad i don't want anything but to talk to him. i'll never explain the happiness he gave me. until one time, the girl & his bf broke up. the girl ran to him and he started to comfort her. they started talking again. yup, he's still there for him. even tho i feel

Just spend a whole weekend loving somebody you met and then they just tell you they never loved you. Couldn’t be more hearthbroken💔

No text found Submitted April 15, 2019 at 05:32PM No text found

My dearest lily

My lily, my angel, my queen, my love, my blessing, my miracle, my light, my all... I love you. Each moment with you is a taste of heaven... Paradise... And each moment without you makes me wait to see you desperately... From the beginning of our special little friendship to asking you out for prom, to us being so open, to us expressing our feelings, till now where we hug and cuddle so lovingly, and kiss so passionately... I'm grateful. You give me the motivation I need to keep going. You give me reason to be happy. Your smile makes me smile. Your happiness makes me happy. Your pain breaks my heart.... And your existence... Your existence I cannot get enough of. I truly love you. I just don't have any words. You leave me speechless... I love you. Submitted April 15, 2019 at 05:41PM My lily, my angel, my queen, my love, my blessing, my miracle, my light, my all... I love you. Each moment with you is a taste of heaven... Paradise... And each moment without you makes me wai

That little feeling of emptiness

Getting hurt sucks, obviously. Everything seems empty and every new person feels like a shadow. Until one day that quirky, hyper person suddenly appears that some how makes me smile. Long nights of hangouts with friends, personal conversations, exchanging gifts or pulling little pranks on each other. Feelings form that havent been felt in a long time, only...they're only my feelings. She's an amazing person and I only hope the best for her. The things she's done for me and time we spent, even if only out of friendship bring me so much happiness...but the way she feels about me has brought me back to emptiness. Submitted April 15, 2019 at 07:27PM Getting hurt sucks, obviously. Everything seems empty and every new person feels like a shadow. Until one day that quirky, hyper person suddenly appears that some how makes me smile. Long nights of hangouts with friends, personal conversations, exchanging gifts or pulling little pranks on each other. Feelings form that havent

Always looking at me

When am In class this girl always looking at me. I don't know why Submitted April 15, 2019 at 10:06PM When am In class this girl always looking at me. I don't know why

He said he loves me but is it really love if it's okay for him to loose me?

His ex wants him back or she'll kill herself. He got back with her and left me but insists that I am the one he loves. They've known each other for 2 yrs, compared to us who've just been acquainted for just about 5 months. He was his first love but he kept on telling me that everything with me was more geniune and spontaneous. He said if things were not this complicated he will never have second thoughts about leaving me, never. Do you guys buy this? Is this an acceptable reason? Submitted April 15, 2019 at 10:48PM His ex wants him back or she'll kill herself. He got back with her and left me but insists that I am the one he loves. They've known each other for 2 yrs, compared to us who've just been acquainted for just about 5 months. He was his first love but he kept on telling me that everything with me was more geniune and spontaneous. He said if things were not this complicated he will never have second thoughts about leaving me, never.Do you guys buy

Another poem: To Love, To Please

To love is to please That's all I've heard about it If so you only gave me a peek, a tease Now you have me crying on my knees Did you love me at all, even a little bit? Submitted April 15, 2019 at 11:10PM To love is to pleaseThat's all I've heard about itIf so you only gave me a peek, a teaseNow you have me crying on my kneesDid you love me at all, even a little bit?

my girlfriend doesn’t love me

Me and my girlfriend have been distant and it is sad. Submitted April 15, 2019 at 11:50PM Me and my girlfriend have been distant and it is sad.

Do i have a chance.

(M)y girl (f)riend of nearly 3 years left me a month ago. For me it came out of nowhere. Naturally I still love her with everything I have. She says she still loves me too, can't imagine a better partner, can't imagine a better relationship. The reason she left was because she felt like she needs to become a whole individual person. And to find out if she wants a relationship at all, not just with me. 2nd reason is she wants to find out if we are truly in love or because our relationship was built on survival at first we were co-dependent. We are reconvening in about a month. Everyday is long and hard for me, everyday hurts.I'm focusing on making myself a better person not just for the possibility of our future but for every future. We've always said we were soulmates that she is my glass slipper, twin fire, my queen. And I her King. I think we both hope to rebuild, Make something better and new. I miss her and I love her The wait however long for me is worth it. If I

It’s crazy

It’s so crazy how you can spend ages being platonic with someone and good friends with them then one day you start to realise they make you feel all tingly Submitted April 16, 2019 at 01:12AM It’s so crazy how you can spend ages being platonic with someone and good friends with them then one day you start to realise they make you feel all tingly

Yet another poem: Love Is A Joke

Is love a joke I can only hope I'm a lucky bloke Can someone take my heart and not punch and poke I'm love to heal not get broke Is it joke or truth can it be mine? Got rejected, guess that's the punchline Submitted April 16, 2019 at 01:59AM Is love a jokeI can only hope I'm a lucky blokeCan someone take my heart and not punch and pokeI'm love to heal not get brokeIs it joke or truth can it be mine?Got rejected, guess that's the punchline

addressing issues

it feels as if my life here is a fantasy land. love does that to you. any dwelling you share with someone who makes you feel mythical feels like a fortress that’s totally separate from your real life. my perception totally changes walking into this fortress. my clear, level head is suddenly fogged with fond feelings of infatuation. i was on a roll. i knew exactly what i was going to say and how i was going to say it. i imagined how the scenario was going to turn out. i have high hopes of a positive outcome. but on a deeper level i feel a disappointing outcome dripping into my reality. how long can this charade go on? relationships aren’t supposed to be THIS difficult. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 02:15AM it feels as if my life here is a fantasy land. love does that to you. any dwelling you share with someone who makes you feel mythical feels like a fortress that’s totally separate from your real life. my perception totally changes walking into this fortress. my clear, level head

Love is...

The most beautifully painful thing you can do to yourself. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 03:52AM The most beautifully painful thing you can do to yourself.

Was the girl testing me or giving me a hint to ask her out?

Hey reddit, W.R.T. my previous post, I got back with my crush once again on the texting terms after I apologized. We have smooth day to day communication with one another. The communication includes flirting most of the time. Also, I'm helping her to get over her ex as well by being a support for her and provide pep talk now and then which she actually appreciates. Lately, she's behaving differently. After the previous incident, I stopped approaching her and just maintained casual relationship. But she now and then tells me that she misses me and wants to know my type. And yesterday all of a sudden, she requests me to get something for her from this particular store - which she'll later collect during the weekend. (So unlike her) This has never happened before. Before our fight, she didn't even want to picture the idea of going out with me. I denied to help her first but she insisted as the shop where I could get her that thing was near me. So, I agreed to do her th

I dont know what to do

So I have this crush, i like her for a year and a half now. So I kinda got rejected but we remained friends and after some time, showing signs that I kinda have a chance on her (and kinda not). I mean it’s so pretty messed up! I wanna get over her but I just cant. Like anything wont make me not like her UGH Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:39AM So I have this crush, i like her for a year and a half now. So I kinda got rejected but we remained friends and after some time, showing signs that I kinda have a chance on her (and kinda not). I mean it’s so pretty messed up! I wanna get over her but I just cant. Like anything wont make me not like her UGH

Exploring new experiences with my S/O...shes kink and trying to get me introduced.

My S/o (29F) and I (30M) have been together for a little over a year and she has some kinks that I have never had experience with, BDSM, cuckolding, etc. Now at first I was very hesitant to try any of these kinks with her bc I felt...off(?) About doing them. Not uncomfortable just different I guess and after the first light Dom/sub session (i was the sub in this case) we have been talking about introducing me more into the world she has experience with. She has brought up swinging and MMF threesomes. She has expressed interest in me and another guy having sex as she watched then eventually she would join in. We have explored pegging a little and I'm not opposed to it but I feel like watching another man have sex with her and potentially getting her to a state of euphoria I haven't would hurt my esteem. I'm a very confident guy and we both love each other very much but I would like your guys opinion on the matter. For background, I have never had sex with another guy but I

I (F) had anal with SO (M) and it got a little messy. I was embarrassed but we laughed it off and moved on. Now months later, he still hasn’t initiated anything with my ass despite my asking him to. Did I put him off it?

I’ve been seeing SO for over a year and we have an incredible sexual connection. We are both fairly kinky and our desires line up surprisingly well. We’re both very open about our sexuality and haven’t had any trouble (as far as I know) asking for what we want. He’s been really open about how much he loves asses and from the beginning of our relationship he expressed wanting to explore anal. We started out using butt plugs which worked well for training. Our first handful of experiences went super well with no hiccups, other than the occasional painful moment but that was expected. Overall it felt great and I have been excited about pursuing it further! The last time we attempted anything we were a little tipsy after getting dinner and I suggested we start it up. Everything was going well until a few minutes in he paused and said he would need to go to the restroom to clean up. It was by no means everywhere but we nevertheless needed to stop what we were doing in that moment. I was

First Buttplug (M18)

Hey yall! So, I've been wanting to get a butt plug for a while but I'm ready to commit to it now, so I was looking for suggestions! I want a simple design, just the basic bulb shape, and preferably not made of silicone or anything soft or porous (glass or metal preferably). Any suggestions on your favorites, post a link and maybe a pic of the product in the comments! Thanks a bunch! Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:31AM Hey yall! So, I've been wanting to get a butt plug for a while but I'm ready to commit to it now, so I was looking for suggestions! I want a simple design, just the basic bulb shape, and preferably not made of silicone or anything soft or porous (glass or metal preferably). Any suggestions on your favorites, post a link and maybe a pic of the product in the comments! Thanks a bunch!

my boyfriend and i have been dating for a while now. but we just started recently having sex. i love the man but his penis just doesnt satisfy me sexually and he doesnt perform oral. is there anything i can do to help the situation out? i’d hate to lose a perfectly good guy over something like this.

No text found Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:43AM No text found

How do I [M] make my girlfriend not feel bad about me not finishing?

My girlfriend has an incredibly high sex drive and is very sensitive so I can make her orgasm very easily and up to 6-8 times but i am very much not Like that, and I love getting her to orgasm and I don’t want her to feel as if I’m unhappy Bc it’s not a 1:1 ratio. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 05:49AM My girlfriend has an incredibly high sex drive and is very sensitive so I can make her orgasm very easily and up to 6-8 times but i am very much not Like that, and I love getting her to orgasm and I don’t want her to feel as if I’m unhappy Bc it’s not a 1:1 ratio.

I think my bf pretends to want to go down on me?

So last night we were naked, fresh out of the shower, and I was laying perpendicular to him setting up a movie and he was teasing me a little bit and kept starting to lick me from behind but it was a weird angle so then I sat up to move to lay next to him but he was hard so I ended up on top of his with him inside me but I wasn't totally ready to have penetrative sex yet so I got off and went to give him a bj but he went flaccid (he has some issues with performance boner/ejaculation wise so I don't push him), we laid down and he asked playfully asked if he could lick me and my butthole and I laughed and said no butthole (we have an ongoing joke about butt stuff) he asked again but didn't move to do it and then I had to pee and he asked if I could hold it bc he didn't want to go down there right after I peed but I said that if I had to pee really bad during then I wouldn't be able to relax, I got back and then nothing happened besides a few times when watching a mov

Dirty talk in Spanish

Hi everyone! I'm (f,23)a native Spanish speaker and my bf(m,27) has requested that I talk dirty to him in Spanish when we have sex. Problem is, it's already a little difficult for me to do it in English. I guess it's just fear of sounding corny and ruining the moment. What are some simple, not too extreme phrases I can use? Thanks in advanced! Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:12AM Hi everyone! I'm (f,23)a native Spanish speaker and my bf(m,27) has requested that I talk dirty to him in Spanish when we have sex. Problem is, it's already a little difficult for me to do it in English. I guess it's just fear of sounding corny and ruining the moment. What are some simple, not too extreme phrases I can use? Thanks in advanced!

Not satisfied with Satisfyer

Hello! I can see a lot of posts from women who enjoying Womanizer/Satisfyer and having orgasm every time using this in like several minutes after start. And I didn't see any negative feedback or any problems with enjoying this toys. Does this really work perfectly for everyone? Is it bad if this won't work for me? Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:17AM Hello!I can see a lot of posts from women who enjoying Womanizer/Satisfyer and having orgasm every time using this in like several minutes after start. And I didn't see any negative feedback or any problems with enjoying this toys.Does this really work perfectly for everyone? Is it bad if this won't work for me?

I’ve been thinking about women sexually a lot does that make me bisexual?

I honestly can’t tell I’ve never had much experience with another woman. I had one drunken encounter where it was heavy making out and titty sucking and that was it. I was super turned on by it. But have never done anything with another girl since. I’ve been thinking about girls sexually so much and even more so lately. I think about them naked and what I want to do with one. I find the female body way more pleasing to the eye than a males body and the idea of being with a woman turns me on so much. I think vaginas are prettier than penises and I love looking at them. I’ve never went that far with a woman so I feel like I can’t say I’m bisexual but thinking about it makes me wetter than even fucking a super hot man. Does this mean I’m bisexual or is this something a lot of girls experience? I just don’t know because I’ve never really had the opportunity to be with a woman for real. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:21AM I honestly can’t tell I’ve never had much experience with an

I’m demisexual and struggle with my partners’ use of porn — any advice on how to deal with it better? My initial compromise isn’t working anymore.

I’ve somewhat recently come to the conclusion that I’m demisexual and I think this is why my all of my boyfriends’ (and girlfriends’) porn use has bothered me so much in the past and why my husband’s use is getting to me currently. I don’t ever really feel the need for porn, so I don’t understand why they would need it if they were happy in the relationship with me like I thought I was with them. I struggle with feeling inadequate, foolish, suspicious, betrayed, and like a failure, but even more than that, I don’t think I have ever understood their motivations. I look at porn mainly when I’m having sex with a partner, and even then, it’s not every time and works out to only a few times a year. My current partner looks at porn nearly daily (sometimes twice a day) and I can’t understand why if I’m ready and willing to have sex or send him photos or videos of me solo when we are apart. If I’m happy and if he’s happy, why does he need to watch other women? Any other demisexuals struggle

Help: I ejaculate without orgasm whenever I squeeze my PC Muscle.

Am I timing it wrong? This happens every time I try to stop ejaculation. I've tried squeezing and then stop stimulation, but that also ends up with me having no orgasm when I finally do ejaculate. Am I doing something wrong? Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:27AM Am I timing it wrong? This happens every time I try to stop ejaculation. I've tried squeezing and then stop stimulation, but that also ends up with me having no orgasm when I finally do ejaculate. Am I doing something wrong?

Girlfriend doesn't want sex anymore, what can I do ?

Hey everyone first time posting to reddit so I'm sorry if there is anything wrong with what I put. So a little bit of information. We are both in are mid 20's, Shes a teacher and I'm stock controller, In my free time I'm doing open university work, In her free time she likes to read, We dont really socialise, or go out much. We do everything together, And have been together for nearly 6 years. Over the past two years I've seen a decline in how much sex we have, I'm quite sexual in terms of I always want it, I seem to be asking a log recently and keep being declined. I've asked her why and she simply keeps saying not in the mood/ she just doesn't feel like it. Shes been doctors to check her bloods to make sure there isn't anything there and she was all okay. I finally lost it last night though after weeks of asking why, and she said she just doesn't have any interest in sex, she doesn't find it as amazing as i do. So i asked her straigh

Is getting your lady parts waxed awkward and/or painful?

I haven’t shaved in a while because it makes the bathtub full of hair and it’s a pain in the ass to clean up! My husband would prefer me hairless down there for oral and I think it’s a reasonable request. So I’ve been thinking of making an appointment for some unfortunate woman to do it for me (at least she’s getting paid!) Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:47AM I haven’t shaved in a while because it makes the bathtub full of hair and it’s a pain in the ass to clean up! My husband would prefer me hairless down there for oral and I think it’s a reasonable request. So I’ve been thinking of making an appointment for some unfortunate woman to do it for me (at least she’s getting paid!)

Bisexual Women Interested In Having A Threesome!

anyone? Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:49AM anyone?

Hypersensitive penis glans

Hello there, I hope here is not the wrong place to ask such a question. I've had sex in my life only 12 times so far, all with a condom. Recently I think I realised why sex was never AS PLEASURABLE as masturbation - since I'm uncircumcised, so the with the open penis there always an umcomfortable feel to bigger or less extent, so I could never enjoy sex as much basically. To this point I'm not empirically convinced that the vagina is better than the my hand. I wouldn't say the glans are hypersensitive maybe to the point that I feel pain, but its HIGHLY uncomfortable, to the point that its both unpleasurable and very hard to climax during the intercourse. Blowjob is almost painful though - as if going though some mandatory medical procedure. Basically how I get to climax as I speculate is that I somehow manage to make the forskin pull back and forth to certain extent, just like when I masturbate. I just wish I could experience as much pleasure with safe sex as I us

Incel [24m] and my new gf doesn’t know it

hi guys i ve to ask you all the help that you can give, i [24m] finally find agirlfriend for the first time in my life, so she was my first time in everything, naturally being so unexperienced was a huge problem for me so i hide that detail, i succed to manage the situation because she says that i was the best patner she ever had, this bring her hype up, for our first time, and my insecurity are at highest point in my life, we tried once but i went soft can you give me some advice? thanks Submitted April 16, 2019 at 06:54AM hi guys i ve to ask you all the help that you can give, i [24m] finally find agirlfriend for the first time in my life, so she was my first time in everything, naturally being so unexperienced was a huge problem for me so i hide that detail, i succed to manage the situation because she says that i was the best patner she ever had, this bring her hype up, for our first time, and my insecurity are at highest point in my life, we tried once but i went soft can

Sex with a large dick

I’ve just seen a post on AskRedditAfterDark about how sex with a big dick was, most of the replies were saying that it was not only not great but uncomfortable and painful. I’m an 18 year old male and virgin, I’m not sure whether I’m going to have sex anytime soon however my dick is about 7-8 inches but not unusually girthy as far as I’m aware. So I’m wondering is it the length or girth that makes the sex painful or uncomfortable. And apart from adequate foreplay is there anything in particular that can be done to avoid this such as lube or something like that. I want to make clear this post is not me trying to brag, I just have enough problems with girls and I don’t need to finally get there to find out that all I can do is have shit painful and uncomfortable sex with no pleasure for the girl. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 07:02AM I’ve just seen a post on AskRedditAfterDark about how sex with a big dick was, most of the replies were saying that it was not only not great but unc

Prozac and Penis Sensitivity [21M]

So I've been on Prozac for 4 years now which is the entire time me and my fiancee have been together, as well as me being sexually active, and have always noticed it takes me a lot to reach orgasm. I have a decently high libido, but sometimes it can take me a long time to actually reach orgasm, and I can't reach orgasm via oral. Does this mean my prozac is affecting my penis sensitivity? Is that possible? Submitted April 16, 2019 at 07:04AM So I've been on Prozac for 4 years now which is the entire time me and my fiancee have been together, as well as me being sexually active, and have always noticed it takes me a lot to reach orgasm. I have a decently high libido, but sometimes it can take me a long time to actually reach orgasm, and I can't reach orgasm via oral. Does this mean my prozac is affecting my penis sensitivity? Is that possible?

I might lose the love of my life because of our sex problems

This summary is not available. Please click here to view the post.

Birth control fucks my libido. Is there any other way to ‘get in the mood’? [19 F]

So, I need to take birth control to curb the symptoms of PCOS. It works for that, but my only gripe is that it absolutely fucking destroys my sex drive, except for the week that I’m on my period. Then I’m just a dick fiend. And while I know period sex is a thing, I find it kinda gross / more labor intensive / generally annoying and don’t want to do it often. The other three weeks of the month I’m really just disgusted thinking about sex. My partner will try to say some things that would usually turn me on and my brain will just go “Eww, no.” for some reason and I get even more turned off. And it’s like, I want to have sex, because I know it’s fun, and my partner wants it. But I’m not .. horny, I guess? I’m not thinking “wow, I’d really like some dick right now.” My partner understands my issue and never really pressures me too much or anything on my off weeks, but I feel bad. We both had pretty high libidos and now mine just kinda flopped and he’s stuck. I’m sick of being relega

First learn to love yourself before loving others

Image

Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows.

Image

Dear Best Friend

Image

If you find just one true friend in your life time, you are truly blessed.

Image

If someone ignores you. Always remember that the door can be locked from the other side too

Image

If i fall in love with someone, don't tell me about their past

Image

If someone doesn't value you, they deserve to lose you

Image

The best love story

Image

/u/marcilenequeen2 on For real

Yea that happens all the time April 16, 2019 at 06:47AM

/u/Shiandrina on For real

Love a good jojomeme April 16, 2019 at 06:21AM

/u/girlfromtipperary on Why mens go to prostitutes?

I can't believe I followed this convo, went all the way to the last post and found it ending in a "You're a whore" insult. What are you, u/communityforvirgins , a maladjusted 12 year old? April 16, 2019 at 06:07AM

/u/SadTacoEater on I just wanted to say hi :(

Thank you. Now I'm thinking... People actually do that? That's, uh, beyond my understanding tbh. April 16, 2019 at 05:54AM

/u/Hobblinharry on Happy Birthday to an ace icon, Todd Chavez! HOORAY!!

I'm not seeing why you are being downvoted so hard because you do have a point, but on the other hand, Todd being "outed" as asexual and me seeing that episode is actually one of the things that got the gears turning in my head about what was going on with me personally. But on the other hand I agree that his character does still ultimately feel flat and I think his representation of being ace is actually stereotypical to the point of even possibly being offensive (like a gay character who is overly flamboyant). ​ But it gets conversations started so I guess thats whats important? April 16, 2019 at 05:42AM

/u/exhicmxdwc on Happy Birthday to an ace icon, Todd Chavez! HOORAY!!

Don't forget to pay your taxes. April 16, 2019 at 05:38AM

/u/riseagainsttheend on Ffr

I don't drink but I'll take some tea or a soda April 16, 2019 at 05:37AM

/u/Peaceful_Mode on This seemed appropriate and made me smile.

fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk, i want that 14 hours so badly April 16, 2019 at 05:33AM

/u/HavePlushieWillTalk on being blamed for something due to your asexuality / confusion

Hormones be crazy. I have never had a big change like you obviously have done, but your body needs to get used to this new regularity. Hormones is basically goo in your brain box, where all your feelings come from. Hormones therefore have an impact on your feelings, and vice versa, but they are not you as a person. You can't betray your orientation/identity. That's like a bi person who has a relationship with a person of the opposite sex. It's wrong on both counts to say that either the bi person is betraying their bi-ness or that you, by having feelings and being confused by them because they are odd or however you feel, have betrayed your identity. Someone saying that shit to you, they're doing the betraying. they're betraying your friendship. Look, nobody is going to be completely secure all the time. I am very very ace. That doesn't mean there wasn't a time I wasn't crazy obsessed with, well, not boys, but being with one. That was hormones, too.

/u/Hobblinharry on Before you realized you may be ace, did anyone of y’all were like “ hell yeah sex” cuz you were just curious or wanted to know what it was like?

As a teenage boy and beyond, sex was always more of an abstract idea in my head when it came to romantic attractions, and I was always more aroused by the idea of pleasing a partner orally or another way, and knowing that I was doing something for them was what I found attractive about that, and never really thought about them reciprocating. I've talked to some of my friends from back then and they have attested that the way I talked about girls and sex was different than they felt about about the subject or remember others talking about. In college I didn't really talk about girls or sex to anyone and I even had some people think I was gay because of it, and now in the workforce I still don't talk about girls or sex with anyone, lol. So my only real reference point is from when I was in high school, which is why I brought it up. As far as how I FEEL about sex, yes for a long time I was was curious about it because have sexual intercourse is just something that society ex