Yeah, I don't agree either. Everything about the associations completely sucks and has no reason to exist. Period. December 13, 2020 at 12:06AM

Religion and other legacies. I didn't say I agreed with the associations. I just mean they exist without validating them. December 13, 2020 at 12:04AM

You are right, it's about weather or not you feel sexual attraction. Liking sex or not liking sex is a side note. December 13, 2020 at 12:03AM

your sister has time to hang out with youuuyyy December 13, 2020 at 12:01AM

Hi fellow Aego :) it really is a relief when it finally clicks, isn't it? December 12, 2020 at 11:59PM

thank you (: December 12, 2020 at 11:59PM

Vielen Dank, ich werde es mir anschauen, damit kann ich auch mein deutsch ein bisschen üben :) December 12, 2020 at 11:56PM

I would love to have this on my art wall 🥰🥰 December 12, 2020 at 11:55PM

i don’t know if this will help you, but this is my experience. i’m ace and in the closet too! i like the IDEA of sex. an intimate act with someone you love, the foreplay, the pleasure. BUT, i don’t like being sexual or indulging in the act, sexual touches and whatnot make me uncomfortable. i don’t like doing the act itself. yet i make sex jokes all the time. it’s odd, i’m both a sex positive and sex repulsed ace. tldr: idea of sex = okay, doing it/being sexual = not okay i hope this helps you. December 12, 2020 at 11:54PM

they're actually free on itch! but supporting the developers would be great because these games are genuinely amazing December 12, 2020 at 11:52PM

I think it has something to do with erasure a lot of aces experience when they say they have or want sex. Because usually people already associate asexual = no sex. Aces who have sex experience having their own identity erased or even dismissed due to this misunderstanding and even though more aces possibly don't want sex, it's not good to support this stereotype. Because this stereotype can be harmful for others. I mean generalizing is never great honestly and especially the ace spectrum is extremely diverse when it comes to experience, attraction and sexual interests. On a personal note: I consider myself sex-indifferent. I don't really know if I ever want to have sex but due to the stereotype of "asexual=no sex drive" it took me a really long time to actually identity with the ace community. December 12, 2020 at 11:52PM

I don't get why it has connotations and associations. Like, it means that you did that , why would it be good or bad or anything? It's a status. December 12, 2020 at 11:51PM

This is a super-nice sentiment with which I agree, and I’m glad you posted it! Thanks for being a great ally for now, and if you find you’re under the ace umbrella later, welcome!! This was really refreshing to read! December 12, 2020 at 11:51PM

Worried for what reason? Worried what others will think of you and how they will act? Your value has zero to do with sexual experience, trauma, or lack of any or all. So what is it that really bothers you, if I may ask? December 12, 2020 at 11:48PM

Wait do people actually fall in love like upob seeing someone? How the heck does that work?? December 12, 2020 at 11:47PM

And if anybody thinks it's worth anything or wants to have further debate, they're wasting their time. I wish we even got rid of the term and its associations and only had unpronouncable clinical ones, not that it would prevent the misuse, misfocus, whatever. The only value I see for it is ironic shock value. December 12, 2020 at 11:47PM

See, like I said, you are just trying to be mean. Not that I owe you any explanation, but English is not my first language, I'm sorry if "boys" is just used for children I'm not sure about that. I don't need arguments because there is nothing to defend here. I could explain it to you, but since you are just trying to be mean you are not someone I want to talk about all the details of my persona life with. Like I said, if you are truly interested, look it up yourself, the information is all there. December 12, 2020 at 11:46PM

I'm always up for discussion, you simply lack logical arguments, which is apparent by how quickly you deflect to ad hominem . Tell me, how can you have a satisfactionary sexual encounter with someone if you know for a fact they're not into it? Your "boys" (what are you 12 or a pedo?) sound rapey as fuck. December 12, 2020 at 11:40PM

This is very relatable from the (possibly in my case) being demi to being mentally ill lol. I am in fact also pretty miserable but it's not because I'm single and not having sex lol December 12, 2020 at 11:35PM

I maybe put too much garlic but yes for a first try it was pretty good! December 12, 2020 at 11:33PM

Don't worry, cake is ace enough lol December 12, 2020 at 11:33PM

As someone who is very demi and was single for a long time without feeling any attraction - this is so dumb ofc u can be happy without feeling attraction!!!! I mean I was miserable personally but I am still on account of the #mentalillnesses :) December 12, 2020 at 11:33PM

Well buddy I have just one thing to say to that, "Go fuck yourself, you disgusting sex driven scum." December 12, 2020 at 11:32PM