I am fortunate enough to know what I want. I am unfortunate in the fact I found my person, my boyfriend near fiance (35M) and he passed away unexpectedly. Suddenly all those dreams and hopes of trying for a baby, getting married and starting a life together just... vanished. We were trying. It just sucks. I still want those things but I am not sure that I want to got through the whole dating process all over again. I've done therapy, I'm healthy, I have the finances. Where I get caught is I would like to still have a relationship but I don't want to be in my 30s before I have kids. There is no guarantee I could meet someone, fall in love, and actually connect before then and most of that stuff takes years. Do I just go the sperm donor route or do I hold out hope? Submitted September 10, 2022 at 01:00AM I am fortunate enough to know what I want. I am unfortunate in the fact I found my person, my boyfriend near fiance (35M) and he passed away unexpectedly.Suddenly

I need some perspective on a situation I was seeing this guy for a few months and we cut off contact over a month ago. I reached out to him today and he responded a little but then just didn’t text back. It hurts my feelings honestly because I just feel like why is it so easy for him to just treat me like nothing ? I was completely fine and over the situation until I texted him today and I knew I shouldn’t have. We had a rocky time together and I felt like he was really interested in me in the beginning and he was very sweet and attentive, then it just drastically changed and I tried to be understanding but it just didn’t work out. My feelings for him were real and it just seemed like he was looking for a reason not to talk to me anymore. I don’t want to be sad about this situation for no more than a day but can someone give me perspective on why he just easily stopped caring about me ? Apart of me just wants to straight up ask , why , why did he just stop caring, why is he so cold

Thanks, I texted him after some people here helped me. He didn't take it will and I just left it at that. September 10, 2022 at 12:26AM

I (28m) was supposed to meet a (26f) for a first date. We matched on an app. We set the date yesterday and told her I was excited. I was at work and it was getting busy so I tried wrapping up the conversation by saying “I have a long day ahead of me. I bet you do too so have a good day!” She replied “ I have a long but slow day but thank you. You too!” I thought that was the end of the conversation. As I was getting ready tonight I decided to send her a text saying hey I’m on my way she you soon. She replies I’m so sorry I though since I didn’t hear from you we weren’t going anymore. So I made last minute dinner plans with a friend. I told her what I thought my side was. She explained that she felt like it wasn’t a good sign that I didn’t keep talking to her and felt ghosted. I told her I’m definitely interested and that I’m sorry she felt ghosted. She then says we’ll to be honest, this is the first time I’ve used an app and another guy messaged me around the same time as I did and

Felt like a loser a weirdo and a late bloomer that would never bloom :( September 09, 2022 at 11:29PM

Usually it's something to do with "it's just because you haven't found someone good at sex". The funniest for me was a guy telling me "that's because no guy has given you oral". 🤣😂🤣😂 Like, yeah, a tongue in my p***y is gonna cure my lack of sexual attraction. September 09, 2022 at 11:27PM