So I went on a date with this girl and it went quite date, we’ve been chatting for a while and we agreed on meeting again, but whenever she was proposing something I was busy and vice very, however im going to her town tomorrow to see her for a few hours because she’s free. Most of people say to go for the kiss on the 2nd date, but I dont know how to approach it really Submitted November 05, 2019 at 11:53PM So I went on a date with this girl and it went quite date, we’ve been chatting for a while and we agreed on meeting again, but whenever she was proposing something I was busy and vice very, however im going to her town tomorrow to see her for a few hours because she’s free. Most of people say to go for the kiss on the 2nd date, but I dont know how to approach it really

Ok so theres this girl in my college CCA. Since we are playing a duet together I get to interact with her for around 5 months. In this 5 months is probably the best time in my college life. I practise with her almost everyday, she is super bubbly, friendly and very cute. Sometimes she gets abit teasy and would laugh and my stupid jokes and punch my arms laughing. I absolutely love every moment I spent with her. But now that the concert is over, I dont really have a reason to interact with her anymore. I just wanted to know her more. But after looking for signs I think she might not be interested in me and she is just friendly. I've told one of my close friend about it and he tell me not to risk it as it might ruin our friendship but part of me still wanted to go for it even though theres a chance I get rejected. What should I do? Edit: I am 18 and she is 17 Submitted November 05, 2019 at 11:55PM Ok so theres this girl in my college CCA. Since we are playing a duet together

I mean I really want to text her but I don’t find myself doing it often because it feels like a chore for me to do for some reason. honestly I think I’m scared on carrying the conversation and keep it interesting or overthinking about it. Is there a tip for me to overcome the fear of texting her? Since multiple friends of mine told me that I was “dry” at texting and I act like a robot. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:00AM I mean I really want to text her but I don’t find myself doing it often because it feels like a chore for me to do for some reason. honestly I think I’m scared on carrying the conversation and keep it interesting or overthinking about it. Is there a tip for me to overcome the fear of texting her? Since multiple friends of mine told me that I was “dry” at texting and I act like a robot.

I’ve dated a person from a dating app, but I feel as though that the attraction isn’t genuine, because it starts from both people looking for a relationship, not the “I met this person they’re rly fun” type and it develops into friendship then transitions into a relationship. For dating apps, it’s more like I want to date and he/she matched with me so I’m gonna see how it works, y’all know what I mean? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:03AM I’ve dated a person from a dating app, but I feel as though that the attraction isn’t genuine, because it starts from both people looking for a relationship, not the “I met this person they’re rly fun” type and it develops into friendship then transitions into a relationship. For dating apps, it’s more like I want to date and he/she matched with me so I’m gonna see how it works, y’all know what I mean?

Sometimes I get sad thinking about my future. I'm a 29F over a year ago I got out of a 7 year relationship and I'm very happy I'm still not in it. However all I want to do in life is find my soulmate and get married and just make memories together and have fun. I just think that I won't find that person. I've done online dating and it's just horrendous. The guys are terrible and can't keep a conversation and they want is sex. I'm looking for something deeper. It's really depressing being almost 30 and alone. I love my alone time but I miss having that special someone in my life. Rant over. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:08AM Sometimes I get sad thinking about my future. I'm a 29F over a year ago I got out of a 7 year relationship and I'm very happy I'm still not in it. However all I want to do in life is find my soulmate and get married and just make memories together and have fun. I just think that I won't find that person.

I'm sorry if this is the wrong sub. I matched with a guy on Tinder and after messaging each other there for a few times we moved on Instagram. We talked almost incessantly for two days during which he "confesses" to being kind of short for a guy (5'4'') and of having being ghosted after revealing this fact by some girls on Tinder. I tell he's taller than me and that I wouldn't really care either way and we move on. Tonight he tells me he lied about something and it turns out he's actually way taller. Is this a red flags (or at least yellow)? I don't like being put to the test like this but I also kind of see why a guy meeting girls on Tinder would do that... Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:11AM I'm sorry if this is the wrong sub.I matched with a guy on Tinder and after messaging each other there for a few times we moved on Instagram. We talked almost incessantly for two days during which he "confesses" to being kind of

I (F) ... I hate airing my dirty laundry but here goes. I've done some shoddy things in the past to people- In particular I Lied about interest in someone else while with a boyfriend and once with someone I was going* to be in a relationship with. It was with the same person.. I later married that person I tried to conceal. Twice, I was discovered and the people I once knew and loved both turned against me. I took the brunt of the fury. I am a proud person but I let myself be publically humiliated, basically laid over and showed my belly to the angry person/s and took all their wrath, miserably and for some time, for months or for years through deprecation, assault, accusation, whatever. I knew it was just a momentary reaction to a feeling. I felt I deserved it. I know I have not been consistent with love or I have made consistently selfish decisions which I finally sealed by marrying the person I screwed over person time and time again for. This person then made my life a living

So! Out of stress, I told my crush who already knew I liked him, I loved him (and I really did) now past forward a couple of weeks, (present day) he said "you know how you told me you loved me a while ago? Well- I love you back...too." He's an akward person so the first time he said it his voice kinda trailed off and i said what? And he said it again. Akward, but so cute and sweet! I smiled so big and then he had to go. Help! Is their anything I should do ?! Btw, i'm female, he's male. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:12AM So! Out of stress, I told my crush who already knew I liked him, I loved him (and I really did) now past forward a couple of weeks, (present day) he said "you know how you told me you loved me a while ago? Well- I love you back...too." He's an akward person so the first time he said it his voice kinda trailed off and i said what? And he said it again. Akward, but so cute and sweet! I smiled so big and then he had to go. Hel

I am 13 and have abs I was wondering if it was rare Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:14AM I am 13 and have abs I was wondering if it was rare

I (19M) went on a date with this girl(19f) recently and we both had a great time. We laughed and talked and both enjoyed it. I plan on asking her out on a second date soon. When would be the best point to go for the first kiss with her? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:14AM I (19M) went on a date with this girl(19f) recently and we both had a great time. We laughed and talked and both enjoyed it. I plan on asking her out on a second date soon. When would be the best point to go for the first kiss with her?

Original post can be found here: https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dndnef/after_a_really_great_first_date_she_asked_me_to/ So i've been asked by a user to post an update on this. I want to thank everyone who posted on the original topic, there was a lot of great advice! This may be a bit long, but for the sake of the story, i'm just going to throw everything out there so people can get the whole picture. So much of the advice on the original post suggested that I reach out to her again. After almost a week of not hearing from her, I texted her on Saturday saying that I would still like to teach her how to drive a manual transmission, but also that I would like to have some time to grab coffee and talk a bit. I didn't hear back from her. So around 3pm that day I decided I had nothing else to lose and I gave her a call. I left a voicemail in which I very briefly told her that I had had a great time last weekend, made a small joke about a thing we'd laughed abou

I (24F) matched with this guy (46M) on CMB. He’s from a similar background to me - got grad degrees and a good job. His profile says he’s traveling a lot but is now looking for something long term/meaningful. On first coffee date, I was interested in him but couldn’t read him, and he ended it after 30 mins to go back to work so I just said “I’d love to see you again” and tried to forget about it. So when he scheduled our second date a week later I was pleasantly surprised. We got lunch and went back to his place (nearby) where he made moves on me physically but I asked to wait and he said “of course.” I felt very safe and comfortable around him. Ever since date #2 he started texting me everyday something along the line of “hey sexy/cutie, hope you have a good day.” I casually mentioned a cool, somewhat expensive show and he went and got us tickets for date #3. We met, got drinks, and both enjoyed the show. He said this wouldn’t be our last time going out so we could see a different

Hey guys! This will be a long post because I'm long winded. I'll have a TL;DR for those who don't want to read a wall of text. So I'm [M|25] pretty sure I'm just overthinking this situation, but I'd like someone else's input. There's this girl [F|24] I went to high school with and I'm really into her. I always had a thing for her but never pursued. We didn't talk much throughout undergrad because we were both in relationships. We both had bad breakups with our respective exes and have been out of the dating game for a year or two. Last month before my birthday, she asked if I wanted to hang out one weekend and we did. She drove up to my city 30-40 minutes away from where she's attending college. We went to a local place for a meal and just had the most wonderful conversations. Ranging from casual, to flirty, to sincere, and everywhere in between. We went back to my place for her to use the restroom and head back home. She gave me a big h

Was wondering if anyone had any similar experiences or insight into my current situation. I currently broke up with my GF, and am considering dating a guy that I've been friends with for many years and have had chemistry with. I haven't dated a guy in about a decade due to me thinking I'm more of a lesbian because I emotionally just don't emotionally connect to men as I do with women, but I've always had a little crush on my friend. Here's the problem - I've never slept with a guy, and I'm not 100% sure I could. This obviously would make things awkward if we ever started dating, as well as potentially ruin our friendship. Our friendship is kind of a big deal because he is a part of a group of friends (including my best girlfriend) that I see on a weekly basis. So not only is it potentially a problem because we may not work out in the end, but the whole sex thing might be an issue too. I'm going to take some time to heal from my last relationship,

So I’ve been going on dates with this girl for about a month now, and on the first date she told me that she was fresh out of a long term relationship right now and just wanted to experience the single life. So I know what you’re thinking right now, it’s either she just wants to hook up or be friends. Well when we first got to talking on bumble, she said she had to delete the app cause she didn’t like the “pressure” of having to put out or whatever. So I guess my real question here as I’m being fucking friend zoned? She said she likes talking to me and hanging out with me but if she just wants to be single than what the hell does she want? Tl;dr: apparently she just wants to be single, but if that’s the case why tf was she on bumble and why does she apparently like hanging out with me? Submitted November 05, 2019 at 11:40PM So I’ve been going on dates with this girl for about a month now, and on the first date she told me that she was fresh out of a long term relationship righ

I’ve met women that emphasized so many times they want something serious. Yet, these same women get horny and want to have sex after the first date and don’t want a second date... Then I’ve met women who say I just want something casual and these same people want to get couple-y. Sometimes it’d be nice if people were more damn decisive about what they want. It would also be nice if people actually put in more effort and not get so consumed in their own insecurities or whatever shit they’re in. Submitted November 05, 2019 at 11:50PM I’ve met women that emphasized so many times they want something serious.Yet, these same women get horny and want to have sex after the first date and don’t want a second date...Then I’ve met women who say I just want something casual and these same people want to get couple-y.Sometimes it’d be nice if people were more damn decisive about what they want.It would also be nice if people actually put in more effort and not get so consumed in their ow

Hi can someone talk to me, I’m sooooooo down to text? 16(M) Submitted November 05, 2019 at 11:56PM Hican someone talk to me, I’m sooooooo down to text?16(M)

Apologies in advance if this does not belong here, but... I used to go to grade school with this girl and have not talked to her in years, but we follow each other on social media. She has a friend who I am interested in, never met her, but she is cute, and seems like a good person. I have the mentality of “shooting my shot” and “it’s always going to be a no if you don’t ask/try”. I am kind of new to this, I want to message the girl that I used to go to school with to tell her that I am interested in her friend, but I need some advice to see if I should even attempt this, and if so, need some advice on what to say to initiate the conversation with the girl I used to go to school with about her friend. Any help is appreciated. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:07AM Apologies in advance if this does not belong here, but...I used to go to grade school with this girl and have not talked to her in years, but we follow each other on social media. She has a friend who I am intereste

Love is not a word It is heart and kindness. Never assured, You go in with blindness. / When received, You feel more than amazing Everything is different as perceived, And your own adoration is blazing. / Then you return the love And nothing is the same. You look to her, your love dove And make her to blame. Submitted November 05, 2019 at 10:30PM Love is not a wordIt is heart and kindness.Never assured,You go in with blindness./When received,You feel more than amazingEverything is different as perceived,And your own adoration is blazing./Then you return the loveAnd nothing is the same.You look to her, your love doveAnd make her to blame.

You don’t know how amazing and incomparable it is gonna feel when you finally find the right girl/guy. I know it’s hard being lonely and depressed but believe me, it is gonna be an absolutely unimaginable feeling when you find your person. Work on yourself, keep hoping, get there. Y’all got this Submitted November 05, 2019 at 10:34PM You don’t know how amazing and incomparable it is gonna feel when you finally find the right girl/guy. I know it’s hard being lonely and depressed but believe me, it is gonna be an absolutely unimaginable feeling when you find your person.Work on yourself, keep hoping, get there.Y’all got this

Today has been a good day, it is bonfire night so we decided to go out with a bunch of friends. I saw my gf and straight away I knew this was gonna be amazing, I'll skip or the boring stuff, the fireworks were going off and we just held hands and she layed her head on my chest and wow, I've never felt what I have felt before, today I fell in love, today was good Submitted November 05, 2019 at 10:37PM Today has been a good day, it is bonfire night so we decided to go out with a bunch of friends. I saw my gf and straight away I knew this was gonna be amazing, I'll skip or the boring stuff, the fireworks were going off and we just held hands and she layed her head on my chest and wow, I've never felt what I have felt before, today I fell in love, today was good

Unfortunately it's a natural instinct. November 06, 2019 at 12:03AM

Totally. I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve added and deleted an app that starts with “G”. November 05, 2019 at 11:58PM