Hi all, I’m (24M) [attracted to women / trans women/ femme-presenting NB folx] trying to figure out how to date while maintaining my sexual boundaries. I feel as if I attract 2 polar opposite types of people: ones who immediately want to have sex and won’t settle for anything less, or ones that do not want to be physically intimate until marriage. I’m the kind of person who enjoys physical intimacy and definitely needs it in a relationship, but I also want to comfortably progress through sexual intimacy at my own pace rather than feeling like I’m at 400m sprint or in an ultra-marathon. For a long time I would date the latter type of person but that would leave me feeling unloved and anxious. Not to mention I would end up suppressing a natural part of myself and feel ashamed whenever I wanted things as simple as a kiss. So my question is how lol? I get that the obvious answer is to explicitly tell them boundaries/expectations early on. But realistically speaking as a MoC (even a co...

I read someone once described it as "flushing out the pipes" and that felt right to me. For me, its just something to do to relax. I've never felt the need to include another person. I feel like they'd just get in the way, lol December 18, 2021 at 12:18AM

I’m really not a child person but I do get those times where I’m like mmm, a child would be nice. I absolutely don’t want to GIVE birth though I just couldn’t. So adoption would be more viable for me if I ever wanted to truly take that path. December 18, 2021 at 12:18AM

My boyfriend (27) has never cum from oral sex from any of his previous sexual partners and since I've had success with my previous partners, I took this as a challenge and thought I could have fun with it. Now, I love giving oral- any time and any place. So you can imagine my disappointment and frustration when I'd go down on him for 15-20 mins, get him close, but then lose him and he'd have to jerk himself off instead because I just can't quite hit the spot. Well, the other day we were in the back seat of his car making out with the windows frosted and the sound of rain hitting the roof of his car. Quite romantic if I must say so myself. After making out for some time, I got to business and went down on him. Again, 15-20 mins of blowing and I could hear his breath getting quicker and his legs start to move more and he tells me to keep on going because he's going to cum. In my mind I'm like alright, here we go again BUT THEN SUDDENLY, HE TELLS ME "I'm...

I have a general idea as I myself am a woman, but I've yet to actually eat out my girlfriend and I'm honestly scared to fuck up. Neither of us have experience so- I know I could just Google about it but I want genuine advice, not weird porno stereotypes Submitted December 18, 2021 at 12:54AM I have a general idea as I myself am a woman, but I've yet to actually eat out my girlfriend and I'm honestly scared to fuck up. Neither of us have experience so- I know I could just Google about it but I want genuine advice, not weird porno stereotypes

I was told you get used to rejection, but I haven’t if anything, it’s made me feel even worse overtime I’m fat so I get rejected even worse then the average male, but my problem is my asthma makes it very difficult and even painful to exercise. I’m eating healthy, but I’m still not losing weight, though all my vital signs are perfect and within healthy values. I’m doing everything I can control to maintain my appearance, I’m on top of my fashion, hygiene and skin care, I have interesting hobbies, and a career I’m passionate about. Nothing is good enough, I’m sick of getting rejected after I worked so hard, fuck women Submitted December 18, 2021 at 12:15AM I was told you get used to rejection, but I haven’t if anything, it’s made me feel even worse overtime I’m fat so I get rejected even worse then the average male, but my problem is my asthma makes it very difficult and even painful to exercise. I’m eating healthy, but I’m still not losing weight, though all my vital signs are ...