So some weeks back I matched with some girl on tinder and we started talking a lot. We shared a lot of things in common (same major, same interests in a lot of media, both do art, etc) so I asked for her Instagram. I get her Instagram and turns out that someone I was acquaintances with is her sister. We follow each other and talk some more, later she suggests that we should text in iMessage instead because she is more active there than Instagram, so I send my number and she messages me there. Some more talking and there are some messages such as her talking about how she is willing to read a book to me after I mentioned how I couldn't get into manga, how she wanted to start watch a show at the same time as me, she wanted me to send a voice audio of how to say my name, etc. I didn't think too much about it since I did not butcher anything But maybe two days ago though sends me these messages (I am going to alter some text just in case) "I sorta wanted to explain like w...

This girl approached me at a bar right before the school semester ended, got her number, and we went on a date. After the date she said she wanted to hangout again so we hungout at the bars together on the last night of school. Afterwords, I walked her home, she grabbed my hand, and we hugged goodbye. She told me she wanted to hangout during the summer once we got back home. During the summer she gave mixed signals. She told me she was excited to see me but bailed on a date, then unfollowed me and stopped our snap streak. I asked her what was up and she said she wanted to hangout still, just was using social media less and was super busy. Then she texted me saying she was going to be more free but never responded to my text about a potential date. We stopped texting each other. A month later she came back apologizing and explaining what had been up, telling me she had been involved in drama with a girl who was dating one of my friends. She said she didn't want me to get involved...

You're really the only one who can decide if you made the right decision. Though, I wonder why you immediately thought she wants to date you. And why you're not interested in getting to know her and maybe having a new friend. If you felt something was off about it, though, then you should trust your instincts. There is just not enough info for anyone here to be able to know if you made the right choice or not. October 18, 2022 at 12:08AM

That's how communities at the end of their lives are. Forums were like that too. It's not fulfilling its original goal here, but people are friends so they stay, and strangers aren't welcome. October 18, 2022 at 12:07AM

So I (m19) about a month ago got into my first relationship. She (f18) is amazing and I really like her. The problem I am having though is that it seems like the relationship so far has been very one sided. I’m usually the one who starts up our conversations. I am the only one who has suggested to go on an actual dates. The thing is, she seems to be pretty distant from me. Like I said, she barely reaches out to me. Has turned down every single date I have asked her on (tbf most of the times she was actually busy with prior plans). We both recently started college together (we only met because our parents were friends and then introduced us), we are both in a new state with new people. One of the other issues I am having is that she is prioritizing her friends over me. I don’t really care if she prioritizes them overall, but she really ONLY prioritizes them. I don’t always want to be with her, but it hurts feeling like I’m second. These friends are only people she met after me, and we ...

So basically I met this guy on this dating app who is 20 and I am 20. Anyways I found out recently he was a senior in high-school because he got held back in the past. I have been out of high-school since 2021 and I just feel that it's weird talking to a high-schooler. I get it though that life happens and there's nothing we can really do about that but every time I see a video of him in high-school I get a weird feeling. My question I guess is it creepy or am I just paranoid. I am not the type of girl to talk to high-schoolers but I'm making an exception only because he's 20. Submitted October 18, 2022 at 12:15AM So basically I met this guy on this dating app who is 20 and I am 20. Anyways I found out recently he was a senior in high-school because he got held back in the past. I have been out of high-school since 2021 and I just feel that it's weird talking to a high-schooler. I get it though that life happens and there's nothing we can really do about ...