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What needs to happen for a LDR to be successful?

I (20M) have a gf in China (19F). We have plans to meet in October but I'm not sure it will work out due to the current pandemic. I'm worried that I will get attached to this girl and then the relationship will fall apart, until now I would have never considered a LDR. Submitted May 08, 2020 at 11:56PM I (20M) have a gf in China (19F). We have plans to meet in October but I'm not sure it will work out due to the current pandemic. I'm worried that I will get attached to this girl and then the relationship will fall apart, until now I would have never considered a LDR.

Girl ghosted me after we really clicked?

I'm not sure if this is the correct group to ask this but..... About a week ago I met a girl on tinder. We really clicked within a few hours and began chatting for the next couple of days. We are interested in the same things and it really seemed to be going well. We had a phone call for 5 hours on Sunday night last week and we chatted constantly and laughed a lot. We even talked about seeing each other after the lockdown and things were moving quite fast. We chatted into Tuesday evening and since then she has totally ignored me, she hasn't deleted me off any social media but keeps posting on Instagram. I honestly don't think she has been fake with me and seems like a genuinely nice person. Anyone have an idea what may have happened? Submitted May 09, 2020 at 12:15AM I'm not sure if this is the correct group to ask this but..... About a week ago I met a girl on tinder. We really clicked within a few hours and began chatting for the next couple of days. We are int...

But you’re my perfect girl!

So last night I decided to casually hook up with this guy. He asked me what I was looking for. I said I wasn’t really looking for anything casual, I’m looking for a serious relationship. He said he was looking to hookup. We had talked quite a bit before this subject came up. He didn’t push me on hooking up. He genuinely seemed interested in talking to me and I him. So about 24hrs into us texting (last night) the conversation was getting a little sexy. I’m bored and a little manic (I’m bipolar) so I’m cool with it. I decided to ask him to come by. I figured if he only wants casual that’s cool. He seems like someone I can casually get off to and then be done with it. He lives near by. We both were drinking during our sexting so when he gets here we’re are both horny and tipsy. We sort of just instantly go at it. The sex was alright. Nothing to write home about. This fool texted me this morning and was like “Want to hookup tonight?” I’m like “No. I’m busy and honestly last night was j...

/u/NeutralEnby on Happy Ace Day!

UK. It just hit 1:00am May 09, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/mystormyweather on Happy Ace Day!

Today is the 8th. Lol Well where I am. Where do you live? May 09, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/NeutralEnby on Happy Ace Day!

It's the 9th though. Won't that be tomorrow? May 08, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/PandemicMaple on So apparently Cyberpunk 2077 will have first person sex scenes

You can also customize your genitalia, apparently. May 08, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/mystormyweather on Happy Ace Day!

You are correct! Ace visibility is today. That is June 10th in the book. June is pride month and June 10th is the day for aces. The last week in October is Ace awareness week. Which is why the character is saying the are so many days he gets confused by it. May 08, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/PandemicMaple on List of reasons i'm asexual according to random internet strangers

Death is a preferable alternative to sex May 08, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/Kittylikesgames on My partner just learnt about the asexual cake thing (we’d rather have cake) yesterday. he went shopping today and bought one because I have been stressed and “sex makes me less stressed, but that doesn’t work for you so I got you a cake instead” 💜🖤🤍

that's....the cutest thing i've ever heard May 08, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/Cleridwen on well that just happened

Welcome! I felt that way a few weeks ago too. I've been feeling better since :) May 08, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/Cleridwen on well that just happened

if they OP takes the cake, can I have the garlic bread? May 08, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/Toilet___Paper on Are we part of the LGBT+ community?

Being straight isn't bad, so your still fine. And, you still count as part of the lgbtq+ community, because your heteromantic instead of Heterosexual and Heteromantic. (The same thing goes for aromantics, but flipped) Plus, its called a sexuality for a reason. May 08, 2020 at 11:41PM

/u/emrldmanlol on My partner just learnt about the asexual cake thing (we’d rather have cake) yesterday. he went shopping today and bought one because I have been stressed and “sex makes me less stressed, but that doesn’t work for you so I got you a cake instead” 💜🖤🤍

Just put me down please May 08, 2020 at 11:40PM

/u/emrldmanlol on My partner just learnt about the asexual cake thing (we’d rather have cake) yesterday. he went shopping today and bought one because I have been stressed and “sex makes me less stressed, but that doesn’t work for you so I got you a cake instead” 💜🖤🤍

Fresh cream😉 May 08, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/Entety303 on well that just happened

Greetings, we have cake or garlic bread. You choose which one you want, or both! May 08, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/Linguisticallization on Why is Asexual Visibility Day May 8th, and since when?

u/RockyShrapnel helped clarify it has to do with Mötorhead's Ace of Spades. Thanks! May 08, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/Linguisticallization on Why is Asexual Visibility Day May 8th, and since when?

Cool! As an ace metalhead, I'm very happy to see this. May 08, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/ka_hime on I made some Pride Flag soaps. Thought ya'll would enjoy:)

BATTERY SOAP!? 😟😟 May 08, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/KitonePeach on Why the LGBT don't like asexuals?

Definitely. It sounds like he was pretty toxic. It can be difficult discussing problems with someone who ‘has it worse.’ You’re allowed to experience struggle and seek help, even if yours isn’t considered as bad as someone else’s. May 08, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/Lunavixen15 on My partner just learnt about the asexual cake thing (we’d rather have cake) yesterday. he went shopping today and bought one because I have been stressed and “sex makes me less stressed, but that doesn’t work for you so I got you a cake instead” 💜🖤🤍

Those Woolies cakes are the bomb though May 08, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/Fuyu_dstrx on I was bored so I tried to make an ace country flag as well. Enjoy...

o wow I’m an Aussie ace haha May 08, 2020 at 11:24PM

/u/DoomNails on My partner just learnt about the asexual cake thing (we’d rather have cake) yesterday. he went shopping today and bought one because I have been stressed and “sex makes me less stressed, but that doesn’t work for you so I got you a cake instead” 💜🖤🤍

Nothing like a good old Woolies cake to take the stress away May 08, 2020 at 11:18PM