I am none of these, I get romantically attracted to men but not sexually. October 14, 2021 at 12:03AM

Thank you, and same, i feel like if they believe that's all love is, maybe they should rethink their definitions of love and lust. However, people love in different ways. October 14, 2021 at 12:03AM

What a shitty thing to say! I’m sorry about that. I wish more people could understand that love exists in more things than sex. I hope you and your BF have many happy years together.😊 October 14, 2021 at 12:02AM

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My (21M) boyfriend has expressed to me (21F) that he doesn't want to go down on me. He claims it has to do with the smell being really strange and being really into cleanliness. It really hurt me when he said that as I would consider myself a clean person and I eat a healthy diet so I shouldn't smell bad down there. I thought that everyone had some sort of smell to them? I suppose it just feels a little unfair cause he's all into regular sex and blowjobs, but he doesn't want to go down on me. It just makes me feel really insecure and not want to have sex cause I don't want to smell. Does anyone have any advice? Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:46AM My (21M) boyfriend has expressed to me (21F) that he doesn't want to go down on me. He claims it has to do with the smell being really strange and being really into cleanliness. It really hurt me when he said that as I would consider myself a clean person and I eat a healthy diet so I shouldn't smell bad do...

I'm a 23 year old female with (38FF) breasts and for some reason scratching my nipples over my t-shirt get's me unbelievably turned on. like I can't do it or I'll get way too aroused. what is this? why? Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:49AM I'm a 23 year old female with (38FF) breasts and for some reason scratching my nipples over my t-shirt get's me unbelievably turned on. like I can't do it or I'll get way too aroused.what is this? why?

Looking for a girl to have some fun with at night, I don't really care who...hopefully don't know them or maby do that would be awkwardly cool, anyway text me on Reddit if you interested:D I am a huger and cuddler and I love nice people and being nice to others :D Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:50AM Looking for a girl to have some fun with at night, I don't really care who...hopefully don't know them or maby do that would be awkwardly cool, anyway text me on Reddit if you interested:DI am a huger and cuddler and I love nice people and being nice to others :D

The guy (19M) I (19F) used to see when I was younger about a year and a half ago, reconnected with me and he kept asking if I was still a virgin because when we were seeing each other I was a virgin. I said I still am, and he said good, and it kinda feels weird someone would say that. Is this strange? Why does it matter? Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:56AM The guy (19M) I (19F) used to see when I was younger about a year and a half ago, reconnected with me and he kept asking if I was still a virgin because when we were seeing each other I was a virgin. I said I still am, and he said good, and it kinda feels weird someone would say that. Is this strange? Why does it matter?

I’m making this post because I am genuinely looking for ideas/suggestions on some things I can do and how I can start “controlling” him in the bedroom so to speak. I’ve been sending him certain texts trying to egg it on, and I am making a lot of our conversations geared towards more of my own enjoyment, instead of his. He sent me a picture of himself in a collar when he used to be with a pro dom, and I was surprised to see that I really really liked it. Submissive dudes, let me know!!!! Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:57AM I’m making this post because I am genuinely looking for ideas/suggestions on some things I can do and how I can start “controlling” him in the bedroom so to speak. I’ve been sending him certain texts trying to egg it on, and I am making a lot of our conversations geared towards more of my own enjoyment, instead of his. He sent me a picture of himself in a collar when he used to be with a pro dom, and I was surprised to see that I really really liked it.Submi...

So I (23) guess I’m kinda just curious as to how people have started dating/getting in a relationship. Was there a point where you decided you were open to a relationship? Actively seeking one? Or did it just randomly happen? Ive been single my entire life and have gone on a few dates, chatted on dating apps, etc. but never anything further. I get random bouts of loneliness (especially during rom coms lol) but the actual thought of a relationship kinda sounds like a lot of work. I would say I’m happy in life, I have activities I enjoy, friends I like to hang out with, etc. Honestly minus small moments I don’t really feel the need to date/have a relationship but I also wonder if that will ever change. So I guess for those who were single for a long time and were happy/content while single how/why did you start dating/get in a relationship, etc? Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:00AM So I (23) guess I’m kinda just curious as to how people have started dating/getting in a relations...

don’t know if this belongs here, but all well. why do guys purposefully make eye contact with you? i had an experience today where a guy would be walking by me (from a distance), but he would be walking very slowly. i was looking right by him, but not exactly at him, and then i decided to shift my eye contact to meet his eyes, and i saw him already looking at me. he was looking at me very nicely too, he didn’t have a neutral/blank face, but also didn’t have a very smiley face. it was just in between the spectrum. i ended up looking away cause i didn’t know what to say/do, but i could feel him still looking. he never looked away when i caught him too. it was as if he wanted to be caught lol. we already know each other, and i also have been catching him looking at me a lot in the past. what does this sort of eye contact mean from a guy? Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:05AM don’t know if this belongs here, but all well.why do guys purposefully make eye contact with you?i had an...

My girlfriend and I were just talking but she said that she felt like things between us were stiff and she felt like the sex isn't good, more like a chore, and she'd have more if it was more enjoyable. I don't know how to make it more worthwhile. I agree in both fronts but I don't know what to do or how to change them. I'm not good at sex and I was r**Ed my entire childhood, so sex is hard for me and she understands that, but it stresses me out that I can't be more useful to her and find the happy medium of how to fulfill both our lives without making it a chore. Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:09AM My girlfriend and I were just talking but she said that she felt like things between us were stiff and she felt like the sex isn't good, more like a chore, and she'd have more if it was more enjoyable. I don't know how to make it more worthwhile. I agree in both fronts but I don't know what to do or how to change them. I'm not good at sex ...

I'd appreciate some insight from the girls. Submitted October 14, 2021 at 12:10AM I'd appreciate some insight from the girls.

Hey, so I work in IT and a when talking to a girl at work we started to get a long. After talking for a bit about work and fixing her IT issue she mentioned that she played warzone. I asked if she wanted to play we have played a few times and message a lot in and out of work. We have had a good few personal conversations and seem to be getting on well and going to lunch together, where I had accidentally found out she had been on my FB and she wouldn't give an excuse as to why. She then started to go through something and was upset because of it. I continued to speak to her as she took a few days off but didn't want to make a move as it didn't seem right but did everything I could to comfort her. It has been a week or so since this and she seems okay now so we have still be talking including watching films over discord ending in her sleeping on the call. During talks she has explained how she is usually shy but it comfortable with me and has no issues talking to me. Bu...

Haha no problem! Glad I could help. It's nice to know there's someone else like me out there! October 13, 2021 at 11:28PM

Demi is more like a specific subset of ace, so you don’t necessarily have to pick one or the other. I came to identify as ace through demisexuality myself because of my singular long term relationship and retrospective lack of attraction to anyone other than my partner ever before. I’d never really heard of either term before coming across demisexuality so I’m not the best model for your question though. You can always just use grey ace if you’re not sure as that encompasses the uncertainty, and if you end up becoming attracted to someone because of a deep emotional connection then you know demi fits at that point. Also length of time doesn’t really matter, you could become attracted to someone after one long romantic night or after a long platonic friendship and either would be valid as demi! October 13, 2021 at 11:25PM

I think the term is Placiosexual? October 13, 2021 at 11:24PM

“I want to get married! Kids.......... Eh” October 13, 2021 at 11:23PM

I don't mind! I actually didn't know I was ace until well into our relationship when I learned about asexuality is. When we talked about it, she believed that she was demi so it hasn't negatively impacted us. October 13, 2021 at 11:20PM