OMG HELL YES TODAY IS ACE DAY TOMORROW IS ARO DAY AND IM AROACE SO IT WORKS SO WELL AHHH June 10, 2019 at 12:21AM

Haha I guess that does work! Happy cake day! June 10, 2019 at 12:20AM

I have some very close friends who are a married queer couple and I can see them getting very upset with me if I ever came out and in any way implied I was part if the LGBT community. Wtf June 10, 2019 at 12:17AM

I just recently went on a a 7-day cruise. On days 1-3, she and I had been making eye contact constantly everyday and on the 4th day I finally got the balls to go meet her. We hit it off right away. We spent the entire 5th night talking then the entire 6th day together talking and swimming and I even ate lunch with her family. She also met my entire family. Then it was the 7th day already. It was the morning and I went and found her family for breakfast and we all sat and talked and ate in the morning. We kissed (I won’t say how much) on the 6th night and ever since getting off the boat, we haven’t stopped talking. We clicked right away and literally seem like copies of ourselves-just opposite genders. We’re going to write letters to each other now, but how should I go about this? I want to be with her but we live 1000+ miles apart. We’re both planning on going to med school and are both in college Submitted June 09, 2019 at 11:45PM I just recently went on a a 7-day cruise. On da...

So I'm at the airport the other day, just sitting and waiting to board my flight. At one point, this attractive woman (I think around the same age as me) comes up and asks if there's anyone sitting in the seat next to me. I say no, it's all hers. She sits down. I'm concentrated on reading articles on my phone, so the thought of striking up a conversation (unfortunately) never crosses my mind. Eventually, it's time to board. People, including myself, start congregating towards the gate. A couple minutes later, that same woman gets up and approaches me. "Is this flight going to Minnesota?" she asks. The LED screen behind the counter said "MINNESOTA, so I thought this was a bit of a silly question, but I answered, "Yep, it is." Again, I left it at that. And during all this, the airline attendant is calling different cabins to board. Another minute or so passes before the woman asks one last question: "Do you know which cabin is boar...

So the long story short is that I broke up with my ex of 9 years because he said he didnt see a future with me. That's a whole other story! Anyway, now I've been talking to this guy (30M) and I can't tell if he's interested or not? I'm not looking for a relationship at this time and we both made it clear this would just be a hookup. He seemed really into hooking up with me when we talked about it but then hasn't responded to my last text from about three days ago. Part of me wants to just give up and move on but I'm also confused as to why he would express interest and then just stop responding? Should I just give up? I just dont know what to do at this point. I feel so inexperienced since I've been off the dating scene for 9 years so maybe I just dont know the proper etiquette to all this? TLDR: Guy says he wants to hookup and then just stops responding to texts. Submitted June 09, 2019 at 11:58PM So the long story short is that I broke up wi...

Our relationship wasn’t very long, but it was amazing. Then all of a sudden he was distant (he blamed it on mental health issues) and I tried to be supportive. Then not long after, POOF, gone! It’s been a couple months, and I’ve respected no-contact despite the fact that I had to contact him about something unrelated recently. He was so short and cold. He replied with a one word answer and nothing more so I left him alone. Nonetheless, I’m educated (self employed and in grad school), good values, often told how attractive I am, am huge into fitness/lifting and have an excellent physique, ect. I’m not high maintenance and I’m pretty independent. Im very generous and caring/ not demanding of my partner. I’m genuinely a good person and I feel like I have a lot to offer yet I’m so lonely. I spent 2 years before I was ready for a relationship or dating because I was waiting for someone like him to come along. I have all these guys clamoring to go out with me, but I can’t seem to get to ...

I’m 26/F got back on Bumble and got asked out by a 29/M. Things went okay but when the check came I said “Do you want to split this?” And he said yes so we split the check. I was so incredibly turned off by this when he didn’t even offer and was the one to ask me out. Is this wrong? He texted me immediately after the date about something we talked about and I was still so turned off by him not paying for me I didn’t respond until about lunch time yesterday. We’ve been texting back and forth a little but he hasn’t asked me out on a 2nd date. Do you think this has any potential, or do you think he let me split the check with him because he isn’t that into me? Submitted June 10, 2019 at 12:05AM I’m 26/F got back on Bumble and got asked out by a 29/M. Things went okay but when the check came I said “Do you want to split this?” And he said yes so we split the check. I was so incredibly turned off by this when he didn’t even offer and was the one to ask me out. Is this wrong?He texte...

Hello /r/dating_advice I(M19) need some help on how to approach this. So I met this girl(F19) right before I left college for the summer. We started talking and things seem to be going well with conversation. Then yesterday I noticed on her snapchat story that sheput something up among the lines of hmu if your loyal, have a good personality,and want to care about someone.(Dont remember what the whole thing said). I want to shoot a shot with this but I dont know what to say without making a more or less a fool out of myself.(I tend to not find the right words to say when im into someone). I have the feeling/more or less know there are other guys taking shots and I dont want to regret not taking one. Any help? Submitted June 10, 2019 at 12:11AM Hello /r/dating_adviceI(M19) need some help on how to approach this. So I met this girl(F19) right before I left college for the summer. We started talking and things seem to be going well with conversation. Then yesterday I noticed on her...

I text this girl, she responds fairly quickly most of the time. 1-15 min; but when she does she only texts like 4-8 words most of the time. Sometimes she goes to two lines, but it is infrequent. Is she not good at texting or is there more to it? Submitted June 10, 2019 at 12:16AM I text this girl, she responds fairly quickly most of the time. 1-15 min; but when she does she only texts like 4-8 words most of the time. Sometimes she goes to two lines, but it is infrequent. Is she not good at texting or is there more to it?

We have the same ring! My ring looks just like that! June 10, 2019 at 12:12AM

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If I'm in the mood I have a hard time letting my partner know, out of lack of confidence and fear of rejection. He's asked me to try to "take charge" sometimes in the bedroom and I'm not sure where to start without getting embarrassed. Any advice for how to be more confident in asking for and leading sex? Any fool-proof methods? Submitted June 09, 2019 at 11:53PM If I'm in the mood I have a hard time letting my partner know, out of lack of confidence and fear of rejection. He's asked me to try to "take charge" sometimes in the bedroom and I'm not sure where to start without getting embarrassed. Any advice for how to be more confident in asking for and leading sex? Any fool-proof methods?

I have tried and failed many times and in many different ways. When my husband touches me its nice, but when i do it it kind of tickles in a way and my legs shake uncontrollably. Is there any way to get past this? Submitted June 09, 2019 at 11:57PM I have tried and failed many times and in many different ways. When my husband touches me its nice, but when i do it it kind of tickles in a way and my legs shake uncontrollably. Is there any way to get past this?

Title says it all really, I love the girl to pieces and really want her to be more comfortable with herself. She loves foreplay and telling me about her solo acts but has been involved in an abusive relationship - sexual, physical and emotional abuse all took place with this guy. The most we’ve done is dry humping and even then she made herself sick with worry because she was due to start ovulating 3 days after we did it and she got some pre cum on her leggings during it...is there any way I could help her relax and enjoy it more? Or does therapy look like the only way forward? Edit: I’m asking because I would love for her to actually be happy and enjoy herself and think she deserves the world after what she’s been through, I just want advice on how to calm her worries about getting pregnant especially since we haven’t even had any physical sex yet Submitted June 10, 2019 at 12:11AM Title says it all really, I love the girl to pieces and really want her to be more comfortable w...

it’s not that he’s bad at it, it’s just that i feel like it makes me less wet down there and makes the whole experience less enjoyable. i want to just tell him but i don’t want him to think he’s not doing a good job, plus he really likes going down on me so i don’t know what to do. :/ Submitted June 10, 2019 at 12:12AM it’s not that he’s bad at it, it’s just that i feel like it makes me less wet down there and makes the whole experience less enjoyable. i want to just tell him but i don’t want him to think he’s not doing a good job, plus he really likes going down on me so i don’t know what to do. :/

When my boyfriend and I have sex, blowjobs are the main focus every single time. We have never had sex without me blowing him first. Sex always starts with a blowjob but I get little to no foreplay. I do like to give blowjobs but it's just gotten to be way too much. Some nights I am sucking for an hour or more. The other night I sucked him for a while and by the time we got to fucking he came so quickly. I am not getting satisfied because he has me suck him for so long that when we start to fuck he's about ready to cum. I have tried stopping and telling him how badly I want him to fuck me but that never works. He always insists that I suck more. I don't know how to bring it up to him but something has got to change. Submitted June 10, 2019 at 12:13AM When my boyfriend and I have sex, blowjobs are the main focus every single time. We have never had sex without me blowing him first. Sex always starts with a blowjob but I get little to no foreplay. I do like to give blo...

My husband is a genius; no doubt about that. I have only beat him at chess a handful of times and our kid has never beat him. I beat him today, and fast. It wasn’t a hardcore game as we were drinking and he was making dinner, but I beat him nonetheless, and I called kid down to see. Husband got so upset about that and called me a sore winner, which he’s upset about because I call him a sore winner all the time (which he is, on all things, not just chess). Just celebrating a win within reason is not being a sore winner. I didn’t laugh in his face. He’s upset I called the kid down. I called the kid down because the kid never wants to play chess because daddy always wins. I was trying to show kid that it doesn’t matter and he could win sometimes too like I just did. I didn’t get to say that though as husband flipped his lid and started lecturing me on being a sore winner and calling the kid in 🤦‍♀️. I get he was not happy losing but I was trying to teach kid something positive. I tried ...

My mom is the opposite! Bisexual, heteroromantic! Yeah, I don’t get it either. But she isn’t romantically attracted to women so... shrug June 10, 2019 at 12:06AM

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We're doing good. He's always accepted my asexuality and we have a way of doing some sexual activities that we're both comfortable with. That’s good! The only thing is that he got weird about me hanging up an asexual pride flag in our room recently which makes me think he's not ok with other people perceiving our relationship as completely sexless. So...yeah. Ah...that, would be a bit awkward yeah 😅. Hope you find a compromise! June 09, 2019 at 11:57PM

The I is intersex. June 09, 2019 at 11:55PM