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Ever leave a date feeling like such a boring person?

24M. Online first date over drinks then dinner. Really cute girl with lots of personality. The date overall went well but idk why during my drive home I cant help but feel like I’m a boring person. Like in the sense that I don’t have cool traveling stories, college stories (commuted from home), and just social life doesn’t really seem interesting (clubbing or meeting up with friends frequently). I also live at home with a good job but I’m saving 80% + of my income after helping with some bills around but only so I can eventually buy a place. I don’t have to explain this to the date but I know my background just sounds boring. Maybe I just gotta do more fun shit to have stuff to talk about. Just venting really but damn idk Submitted May 18, 2019 at 07:19AM 24M. Online first date over drinks then dinner. Really cute girl with lots of personality. The date overall went well but idk why during my drive home I cant help but feel like I’m a boring person. Like in the sense that I don’...

Warmth of an old flame.

Recently reconnected with an ex who is now leaving town. I was the one who ended it (it was about an 8-mo relationship) and as a result, she needed to cut contact, so we haven't really talked since the breakup about 3 years ago. Lots has happened for both of us in the interim. I suffered a heartbreak from someone else (and am thankfully moving out of it), she too had another relationship which did not work out and also completed her Masters -- with that complete she's decided to leave town. She was the one who reached out to initiate the get-together and reconnect. We had coffee a few weeks back and then grabbed dinner again tonight. It's been great seeing her again! I had forgotten how close we were when we were dating and I was surprised at how much it felt like reconnecting with an old friend. We both seem pretty mature about everything that happened and are openly supportive and admiring of what we've accomplished since then. I'm finding myself sad that I...

Are Gen X Men Bad at Texting?

Well his messages are nice if he messages. I've been torn since it makes me wonder if he is interested or not. I'm a millennial and within my circles the rule of the thumb is if he's not putting effort in texting he's not interested. But I guess I wanted to check and see if it can be a generational thing? Submitted May 16, 2019 at 07:37AM Well his messages are nice if he messages. I've been torn since it makes me wonder if he is interested or not. I'm a millennial and within my circles the rule of the thumb is if he's not putting effort in texting he's not interested. But I guess I wanted to check and see if it can be a generational thing?

So Happy It's Thursday! (S.H.I.T.) - May 16, 2019

Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life. Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today! Submitted May 16, 2019 at 11:10AM Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life.Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today!

Is anyone aware of podcasts or podcast episodes that focus on being single or coping with loneliness? (and not just dating)

Hello, I do not want to sound like a downer but I am searching for podcasts (or podcast episodes) that discuss being single or simply handling that lonely feeling sometimes. I am not trying to bum myself out, but, I found that it was always comforting to listen to things to help me cope with my own feelings (for example, I love listening to The Mental Illness Happy Hour simply because it involves people sharing their own stories and battles with depression (among other issues). Thank you! Submitted May 16, 2019 at 02:05PM Hello,I do not want to sound like a downer but I am searching for podcasts (or podcast episodes) that discuss being single or simply handling that lonely feeling sometimes.I am not trying to bum myself out, but, I found that it was always comforting to listen to things to help me cope with my own feelings (for example, I love listening to The Mental Illness Happy Hour simply because it involves people sharing their own stories and battles with depression (am...

Match bursts / clustering, men perspective

Hi, 34M, living 0.5 million city in Europe, with about 1 million people in the metro, and also quite a bit of turists / visitors. Over the years on online dating platforms, I noticed very strange phenomenon. I would have no matches or any meaningful conversation for months, then suddenly, out of the blue I will have 3 matches at the same day or on almost the same day, and all girls would appear interested in actual conversation, have great profiles, etc. This happens without any changes in my profiles, apparent swiping pattern or often without taking any break from swiping. It does happen between dating platforms, i.e. I will match different girl on 3 different apps. I expirienced it at least 6 times (possibly more tho) in the last ~6 years. I will ignore the struggle to try to not let any of them down, and trying to appear interested when I match with few people (I am sure women do it all the time). My inquire is about something else. But, was anybody else expirienced it? Is ther...

I think he is breaking up with me?

I [36F] and my date [37M] have been dating for the past couple of months. He seemed to be super interested and asked me a lot about my life goals and what I envision as a couple living together. All was going really well until we had conversation on intimacy. He wants full oral and anal, and I was terrified since I never had sex or sexual acts before. I still told him I will do it and I will try anal as he seems to really likes it. This was our plan for long weekend. Along with this came tons of arguments on why i would not want to fully submit to him when we both like eachother and we are moving towards getting married. I still preferred to not have this until we are at least engaged so I voiced my concern a few times. He got frustrated each time rating I'm over analyzing things. On top of this, he has been actively on the dating site we met earlier ( I removed my profile once he said he is serious for marriage and found out later that he has his profile on). We also had some ...

I can’t be the only one that’s completely confused.

My divorce was final in April but I’ve been living alone for the first time in my life (except for 2 needy cats) since August. She lives in another state and we don’t have any kids so it’s like that decade didn’t even happen. We’re cordial and still check on each other from time to time but it’s getting less and less. Eventually it will stop completely. I have a daughter from a previous relationship that I get on the weekends but other than that I just work. I’ve been thinking about trying to date but have no idea how. I’ve tried OLD but always get frustrated or annoyed and delete it. I don’t really go out and even if I did, I have no idea how to approach a stranger. I feel like I’m back in the high school lunch room. How do you ask someone out? But then there’s another part that thinks maybe I should stay alone and learn to make friends (seriously why is that so hard to do as an adult?) The only social media I’m on anymore is Reddit and that’s just because sometimes I want to yell...

Weekend Thread! - May 17, 2019

What do you have planned for the weekend? Dates? Quiet time? Time with friends & family? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 11:11AM What do you have planned for the weekend?Dates? Quiet time? Time with friends & family?

Sexual incompatibilities- how do I either get over this or let him down gently? Does size (of any kind! Matter?)

I realise I may sound like an incredibly shallow person for this post. I don’t know, I’m sanity checking myself and I’m properly wrestling with this! I am fully expecting to be torn apart for this, but I don’t really know where else to turn and maybe you can set my head straight. Help. No one talks about this stuff. There are all kinds of incompatiblities like desire/frequency, gentle vs rough to what each person is in to. I’ve also noticed with a couple previous partners that we just didn’t fit together well, is that normal? Not the first time this has happened to me, one was online dating but this one is at work so I can’t just claim we’d be better as friends and then just slow fade out. I don’t want anyone to get hurt! I met a guy and he seems pretty great! Don’t know him all that well yet. We’ve only been on a few dates. Lots of chemistry. Recently we had sex though. And I discovered not for the first time that he was underwhelmingly packing. At eyeball maybe 3-3.5 inches. Same...

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Somebody just watched Super Mega! May 18, 2019 at 07:08AM

Three Border Crossings: One Immigrant's Journey

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Three Border Crossings: One Immigrant's Journey The first time, Luz Mireya Zamora was raped. The second, she nearly drowned. In order to live in the United States legally, she had to leave her family and attempt to cross the border once more. May 16, 2019 at 11:36AM "Continue": http://bit.ly/2YAi9Hr #HASHTAGS #blogger, #bloggingtips, #bloggerlife, #bloggersgetsocial, #ontheblog #phxblogger, #phoenixbloggers, #labloggers #theblogissue, #thatsdarling, #darlingmovement, #darlingweekend #thehappynow, #petitejoys, #livethelittlethings, #livecolorfully #fashionblog #instafashion, #ootd, #ootdmagazine #fashioninspo, #styleinspiration, #styleblogger, #stylegram #streetfashion, #lookbook, #lookoftheday, #whatiwore #beautyblogger, #beautycare, #instabeauty, #beautyblog #beautyguru, #beautyproducts, #beautytips, #instamakeup #makeupaddict, #makeupartist, #makeupbyme #hairgoals, #hairinspiration, #instanails, #nailstagram #travelblogger, #travelblog, #cityscap...

Alabama Lawmakers Vote to Effectively Ban Abortion in the State

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Alabama Lawmakers Vote to Effectively Ban Abortion in the State The Alabama Senate approved a measure on Tuesday that would outlaw almost all abortions in the state, setting up a direct challenge to Roe v. Wade, the case that recognized a woman’s constitutional right to end a pregnancy. May 15, 2019 at 11:52AM "Continue": https://nyti.ms/2E7qvOU #HASHTAGS #blogger, #bloggingtips, #bloggerlife, #bloggersgetsocial, #ontheblog #phxblogger, #phoenixbloggers, #labloggers #theblogissue, #thatsdarling, #darlingmovement, #darlingweekend #thehappynow, #petitejoys, #livethelittlethings, #livecolorfully #fashionblog #instafashion, #ootd, #ootdmagazine #fashioninspo, #styleinspiration, #styleblogger, #stylegram #streetfashion, #lookbook, #lookoftheday, #whatiwore #beautyblogger, #beautycare, #instabeauty, #beautyblog #beautyguru, #beautyproducts, #beautytips, #instamakeup #makeupaddict, #makeupartist, #makeupbyme #hairgoals, #hairinspiration, #instanails, #nailsta...

Watch This Chilling Documentary About A Charismatic Spiritual Leader Who Allegedly Abused Followers

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Watch This Chilling Documentary About A Charismatic Spiritual Leader Who Allegedly Abused Followers Women who were previously a part of the Thai yoga community of Agama tell their stories about Swami Vivekananda Saraswati. May 15, 2019 at 03:37PM "Continue": http://bit.ly/2Yo88wN #HASHTAGS #blogger, #bloggingtips, #bloggerlife, #bloggersgetsocial, #ontheblog #phxblogger, #phoenixbloggers, #labloggers #theblogissue, #thatsdarling, #darlingmovement, #darlingweekend #thehappynow, #petitejoys, #livethelittlethings, #livecolorfully #fashionblog #instafashion, #ootd, #ootdmagazine #fashioninspo, #styleinspiration, #styleblogger, #stylegram #streetfashion, #lookbook, #lookoftheday, #whatiwore #beautyblogger, #beautycare, #instabeauty, #beautyblog #beautyguru, #beautyproducts, #beautytips, #instamakeup #makeupaddict, #makeupartist, #makeupbyme #hairgoals, #hairinspiration, #instanails, #nailstagram #travelblogger, #travelblog, #cityscape, #travelblogging, #dam...

How to help a guy find a woman when he is incapable of maintaining relationships.

I got this cousin, he is about my age in his late 30s. He is not fat, not bald, not generally unattractive, blue eyes, red hair, 5'11. His family is comfortable. Not super rich, but his pops drives a new Ferrari and he got a Mercedes at 16, drives a Porsche, had a Rolex in high school, definitely a super preppy guy in his youth. Mother absolutely doted on him his whole life, I think the parents pay for just about everything indirectly. He works for his dad managing properties. He doesn't lack time or money. He moved out of his parents place in his early 30s. He is close like a brother, so I just can't help but wonder what went sideways in his brain. I can't have this dude being the 5th wheel when I am in my 60s. ​ Why is he perpetually single? I mean, seriously. Hasn't had a consistent girlfriend since college, that's almost 20 years ago. Nothing lasting 3 months that I can even remember. Does having a smothering parent ruin your chances of being in a meaning...

Am I clingy or is he a ghost?

I (34f) met a man (35m) through online dating about 2.5 months ago. We have a lot in common, divorced, kids, demanding jobs and we get along really really well. He’s the first guy I’ve dated since my divorce that I actually like and could see a future with. In person he’s amazing, thoughtful, fun, attentive, open. All our dates have been very fun and I feel totally at ease with him. He even planned and executed an over night get away last month that was a blast. Because of our crazy schedules we’ve only seen each other five times. That includes several overnights and the weekend away. This doesn’t bother me, I am half of the scheduling nightmare. But there’s one problem, the communication between dates is minimal and getting worse. He’s never been a big texter and I don’t want the constant chit chat so that’s fine with me. But as of now the average time to reply is 12-48 hours. Example: I reach out to say I have a weird day off work to see if maybe we could get together, no response...

How do I transition from the dating phase to the relationship phase?

I'll be totally honest here, more than a late bloomer, up until this year I have never really had a relationship last longer than a month. But now I am seeing someone I really like, we have been going out for about 3 months, we go out about once a week and we talk everyday. I have introduced her to some of my friends and they all like her, and I am taking her to a wedding this weekend out of town, so I am really looking forward to that. But it just feels like we're dating. It doesn't feel like I am her boyfriend or anything like that. We haven't been intimate yet and we have barely made out. I will admit, she is fit and extremely attractive whereas I am a bit overweight so I am probably a little more timid in making my moves then I would be with other girls, but only because I don't want to to screw anything up. I feel like my inexperience in relationships is really coming back to bite me now, as I don't know how to be in a relationship really. But I am hope...

Asking a woman on a date while I'm working...

I work as a teller at a small credit union. I interact with a lot of beautiful kind women, but I always felt weird about crossing that line, even when they seem to be warm to my form ;). It seems tacky, plus I wouldn't want it to affect my job, but right now my hobbies don't get me out enough to meet more women, so I'm considering crossing that line and asking a member/customer out. I think I can do it in a way with a small joke where if she isn't interested it will still be cool. What do you think? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 04:08PM I work as a teller at a small credit union. I interact with a lot of beautiful kind women, but I always felt weird about crossing that line, even when they seem to be warm to my form ;).It seems tacky, plus I wouldn't want it to affect my job, but right now my hobbies don't get me out enough to meet more women, so I'm considering crossing that line and asking a member/customer out.I think I can do it in a way with a sma...

How should I (28/F) approach him (34/M)

There is a man I'm interested in who I don't know very well, but I've seen him around a lot. Due to being shy I've never had a true conversation with him. We're Facebook friends though because we run in the same general social circles. We matched on OKC a few years ago and chatted one night but it never went anywhere, possibly because he ended up dating someone else. I thought he wasn't interested after that until we also matched a few weeks ago on Tinder. Still, our conversation didn't take off because I wasn't taking it seriously and deleted the app days later. Even then I thought maybe he was one of those people where there was mutual physical attraction but not much beyond that. However, in the past week two things have made me rethink it. First of all he's been sharing things on Facebook that show we have the same politics and that's a huge deal to me. Secondly, my boss mentioned him out of the blue in a conversation as someone she really ...

Why are you supposed to wait before dating again?

I am a 33 year old man. I got out of a 5 year long relationship in January. It went OK and we are still friends. I moved out in March and got on hinge. I went on a few dates in the first week, and one of them turned into a second date, then a third, etc. I've been seeing her a couple times a week for two months now, and I haven't dated anyone else in over a month. We discussed our situation last night and decided to delete the apps and see each other exclusively. We're happy! I want to hear what others have to say regarding the timing here. I've heard it's best to stay single for a while for some reason. I've had breakups in the past that hurt and I needed time before I was interested in other women, but I'm not feeling that now. I know I'm kind of bragging about my success with this post, and I hope that's okay. I always like reading the success stories on here. And I really want to know - why do you think you are supposed to wait before dating a...

“Taking it slow”...?

What does this mean, in your experience? What are the rules? How does this work? I’ve had a real jacked up romantic life thus far, am just coming off of 2.5 years of self-imposed celibacy, and in the last 2-3 weeks I’ve kinda started “seeing” someone I’ve known for many years. He just relocated here and prior to that, we developed a pretty close relationship over the phone, although nothing romantic before he physically got here. I trust him very much. We have not “defined the relationship” but when we started out, he said he wanted to take things slow. Now, before the 2.5 years of celibacy, which followed a very abusive 5 year marriage, I was moderately promiscuous and a serial monogamist through my teens and early twenties. I had plenty of one night stands and always slept with someone on the first date. Technically, I never really dated anyone; I slept with them and if it went well, kept sleeping with them and sometimes that eventually turned into a relationship. His insistence ...

Major turn off, am I being too picky?

Early April I started using a dating app for the first time and started chatting with a guy who lives kinda far from me. We have been chatting via text pretty regularly and are supposed to meet for the first time this weekend. He has insisted he is looking for an LTR. Today he asked me to send him a pic of myself in thongs and that really turned me off, considering we haven't even met yet. Makes me not want to meet at all. Am I being too picky? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 08:25PM Early April I started using a dating app for the first time and started chatting with a guy who lives kinda far from me. We have been chatting via text pretty regularly and are supposed to meet for the first time this weekend. He has insisted he is looking for an LTR. Today he asked me to send him a pic of myself in thongs and that really turned me off, considering we haven't even met yet. Makes me not want to meet at all. Am I being too picky?

Hooked up with another cheater

This has happened to me 20+ times over the last several years of using dating apps. I match with girl. Girl messages first, wants to meet up that very night. Cool, why not? We go out, she invites me back to her place. Have sex. All seems wel, right? Except it isnt. The ghosting happens within a week or two. Find girl on instagram and yep she has a boyfriend. Several months of pictures with the most recent posted today for example. Like I said this same scenario has happened to me dozens of times. Its like I seem to attract the cheaters all the time. I should know by this point the pattern since they all seem to do the same thing (message me first, invite me out, ask me to come over, etc). I guess I’m dumb and hope for the best. But if it seems to be too good to be true, it usually is. I need to get better at filtering the cheaters out. Getting matches is hard enough as it is though so I tend to hope for the best with the women who message me. I believe that if you fight with you...

Becoming uncertain and disinterested

I'm more of a lurker here, but wanted some feedback about a situation I'm in. So, figured I would post. Long story short: I'm a female, 33 and dating a male, 31. We met and chatted on Reddit back around the middle of February because I made a post about how I would be moving to the other side of the US for a job and was looking to meet people and potentially date. We hit it off pretty well from the start. He messaged me and I replied, we messaged back and forth for days, talked on the phone almost every day for a month. Then, around the beginning of March, I went out to visit his area because I had to wrap up a job offer. We spent a week together and it was awesome. He treated me to these fun and engaging adventures around the city, we had really great conversations and we bonded really well (yes, there was sexy times offered, and I obliged. I wanted it as well). We're both people who like to invest in building a relationship with one person, so that made things even ...

How is getting stood up supposed to feel ?

Hey! tldr: I got stood up on a date, due to a misunderstanding, as it turned out. But, at the time when I thought I got stood up, I didn't care at all. Is that normal? Full story: So, the other day I got a date through OLD. I got on our meeting point and sent a message for my exact location, but I didnt get a response. I waited for about 20 minutes, but he didn't show up, so I left. I walked around, did some window shopping and got back to my place. Then, he texted me and we talked and realised we had a mutual misunderstanding about our meeting point. My concern is that at the time I left from the meeting point, I didn't care at all for getting stood up. I didn't feel rejected, sad, angry or whatever, which left me quite baffled. In fact, I was more concerned and really worried about not feeling bad about it. Is that normal? Plus, I asked my friends about it and the main views on the subject were: a) I am confident enough to not be bothered by getting stood up. b) I...

Men of DOT...when dating or in a relationship are you considerate of your partner without having to be asked?

Guy I’m dating is going through a difficult time in his life. I’ve held him, I’ve soothed him, I’ve given him a place to stay for the last 2 months. I’m as supportive of him as I can be. I’ve started to realize that he doesn’t provide any support for me in return. He isn’t particularly considerate of me or my time. Yesterday he ate without me while I always wait for him to eat. Today I started to tell him about the terrible day I had at work and he just picked up his phone and got on FB. I said, “Boring story, huh?” He said that he just has a lot going on right now. He does. I get that, but I listened to him and provided support when he was nervous about a meeting this morning. I go out of my way to make this difficult time easier for him. He can’t listen to my story about a bad day at work? It seems like he is inconsiderate and selfish most of the time. He only corrects if I point out things that he does or says that are hurtful to me. Im trying to remember that just because I wi...

Need advice on how to handle this situation.

I’ve been talking to this guy I like for a few weeks, yet we’ve only hung out twice. We text everyday and talk on the phone a few times a week. However, this past week has been different. He seems more distant. We made plans to hang out earlier in the week but ended up not getting together. I asked him today if he was still interested, and he told me he would tell me if he weren’t. The problem is, I’m the one that’s starting to lose interest as we haven’t seen each other on almost two weeks and have only spoken once this week. I just need more. However, since we’re only dating and it hasn’t been that long, I don’t feel as though I have the right to bring this up to him, yet I REALLY like him and we are totally compatible and have both expressed how we want this to work out because we both see what it could be. What should I do? Should I tell him that I’m afraid of losing interest if we don’t see each other or talk more often? Do I just suck it up and see where things go? I asked hi...

Asking for a date

I recently started talking to a girl that I used to work with, and haven't seen for about 8 years. We've been sharing a little about our broken marriages, struggling to find partners because we both have kids, and our internal problems with ourselves. I always liked her, thought she was attractive and between that and our combined OLD failures, I'd like to take her out for a date, but I'm unsure how to ask. I don't want her to think I only messaged her to ask her out, but I do want to take her out. Any advice would be gratefully received Submitted May 17, 2019 at 11:00PM I recently started talking to a girl that I used to work with, and haven't seen for about 8 years.We've been sharing a little about our broken marriages, struggling to find partners because we both have kids, and our internal problems with ourselves.I always liked her, thought she was attractive and between that and our combined OLD failures, I'd like to take her out for a dat...

Should I pay for the first date even if I have no interest in seeing her again?

I usually like to go out to drinks for a first date to avoid this issue. I don't mind paying $5 for another person's drink even if I don't plan on seeing them again. I asked if she wanted to get together tomorrow morning and she suggested breakfast... Not a huge fan for "date 0" as I met her online but I said sure. But if I'm not feeling it, as most first dates, should I still pay? I honestly don't see the point. I'm in a transition period right now and don't have a ton of money to drop for no return in value. Sorry if this makes me come off as crass! Submitted May 17, 2019 at 11:06PM I usually like to go out to drinks for a first date to avoid this issue. I don't mind paying $5 for another person's drink even if I don't plan on seeing them again. I asked if she wanted to get together tomorrow morning and she suggested breakfast... Not a huge fan for "date 0" as I met her online but I said sure. But if I'm not feeli...

So I’ve hopped back into the online dating scene for the past 4 months since a rough breakup. I have no idea how to make myself more appealing. Any tips?

http://bit.ly/2JwSDQ3 Submitted May 18, 2019 at 12:17AM http://bit.ly/2JwSDQ3

Trying to not be overcome with anxieties

I've noticed other people on here posting similar feelings and it helps me realize I'm not alone. I've started liking a guy I've seen 4 times now. I don't have the most open schedule due to shared custody and he is also pretty busy. We text daily and after our last date, which involved making out (still taking it slow) I told him I'd like to see him again and he agreed. Then things got busy on his end and it's been a bit over a week. We text daily and hes indicated he does want to see me again. But I started stressing. And my mind instantly went to the whole busy as a way to slowly avoid things etc. Also some of the flirting we've been doing felt awkward so I started questioning things. He assured me he wants to see me when things settle down so I reached out to see if we could plan for later this weekend etc and was told maybe near the end of next week. That felt crappy and it triggered my anxiety. I've been working on it and self talk and sooth...

What's Easier? Continuously getting hurt or accepting loneliness by giving up on love.

I know this sounds bleak and I don't post on Reddit very often, but after the situation below happened I wonder if the extremely difficult path to love is worth the condition I'll be in IF I ever find it. Imagine that just a week ago I (31M) got to see a person (29F) that I have budding feelings for in a unfiltered, relaxing state and those feelings grow even more. She tells me that I am so special that she wants to introduce me to family that she has never let meet a guy before. That feels so good that I literally want to melt into the couch. You have in your own little weird way of an extremely romantic evening (greasy pizza, mediocre movies and cuddling on the couch). The night ends with, although a bit awkward, great sex and her falling asleep in your arms. I wake up to her cuddling on one side of your chest and a cute dog cuddling with you on the other. And I think to myself "This, this right here, is exactly what I want in my life". I try to explain that no ma...

First time being stood up [31m] just happened tonight.

Welcome to the club I guess? Would have been second date. Made dinner plans, texted throughout the day. She was getting her nails done after work and I was going to pick her up. All of a sudden I get “I won’t be able to make dinner tonight 😩.” I asked why, she said she wasn’t feeling good. After I said, “well that sucks, you need anything?” I get, “agreed.” Then nothing since. I’m not one to sweat this stuff, I date a lot so it’s not a big deal but never been stood up so I figured I would share the experience. Keep your head up ladies and gents if you’ve been there before. There are a lot of shitty/immature people in the world. Thankful not a lot of my time was wasted. Submitted May 18, 2019 at 02:27AM Welcome to the club I guess? Would have been second date. Made dinner plans, texted throughout the day. She was getting her nails done after work and I was going to pick her up. All of a sudden I get “I won’t be able to make dinner tonight 😩.” I asked why, she said she wasn’t f...

Total 180.

Who gets you?!! I love you in the morning and I’m not sleeping at my house tonight in the evening. Wtf?!! Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:20AM Who gets you?!! I love you in the morning and I’m not sleeping at my house tonight in the evening. Wtf?!!

I think a nice guy posted this.

http://bit.ly/2Hz8v0Y Submitted May 18, 2019 at 05:53AM http://bit.ly/2Hz8v0Y

“You’re out of my league.. fuck you slave. I’m a doctor. I was just using you for pics”

http://bit.ly/2VLGdtL Submitted May 18, 2019 at 05:57AM http://bit.ly/2VLGdtL

The next day he texted the same thing to my friend

http://bit.ly/2HDfQwx Submitted May 18, 2019 at 05:59AM http://bit.ly/2HDfQwx

Literally right after posting, "Not all guys want sex, some of us would rather make you smile." 🙄🤦‍♀️

http://bit.ly/2VLGbSF Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:02AM http://bit.ly/2VLGbSF

It's funny how triggered these guys get over something so small...

http://bit.ly/2HFggCC Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:04AM http://bit.ly/2HFggCC

Ex BF from 17 years ago. Recently had to block him, because he was sending me inappropriate DM’s on Facebook. Even though he knew I was married with 2 kids. My friend sent me this.

http://bit.ly/2VLGaOB Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:04AM http://bit.ly/2VLGaOB

Titles are for weaklings.

http://bit.ly/2HvI0cE Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:04AM http://bit.ly/2HvI0cE

He posted this right after making a status saying. "Not all guys want sex, some of us would rather make you smile."🤦‍♀️

http://bit.ly/2VLGa13 Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:04AM http://bit.ly/2VLGa13

Funny how these guys are so easily triggered over something so small...

http://bit.ly/2HyydTg Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:04AM http://bit.ly/2HyydTg

Typical nice guy

http://bit.ly/2VJPBhD Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:07AM http://bit.ly/2VJPBhD

Yes cause it couldn't possibly be that I just don't like you.

http://bit.ly/2HxZULO Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:08AM http://bit.ly/2HxZULO

wamen only want men who reject them

http://bit.ly/2VLEtko Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:10AM http://bit.ly/2VLEtko

Nice guy?

http://bit.ly/2Hy6fa9 Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:14AM http://bit.ly/2Hy6fa9

I get it the girl was rude, but he just went off on a tangent especially about her not being a gamer who is at GameStop lol

http://bit.ly/2VMUxCg Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:15AM http://bit.ly/2VMUxCg

Another brilliant take on women's behaviour.

http://bit.ly/2HvHZW8 Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:17AM http://bit.ly/2HvHZW8

Another brilliant take on women's behaviour

http://bit.ly/2VLG3Tb Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:21AM http://bit.ly/2VLG3Tb

Original post on r/memes by u/nightwolf1923

http://bit.ly/2HzIAWP Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:23AM http://bit.ly/2HzIAWP

Gobsmacked

http://bit.ly/2VLG1L3 Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:31AM http://bit.ly/2VLG1L3

Ultimate Nice Guy

http://bit.ly/2UArsFc Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:46AM http://bit.ly/2UArsFc

Pretty accurate & relatable.

http://bit.ly/2VQVBp7 Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:51AM http://bit.ly/2VQVBp7

I have had sex about 4 times and want to improve. Any tips?

I am male 18 years old and have had sex about 4 times now. I haven't gotten complaints but want to get better. Any tips? Submitted May 18, 2019 at 05:45AM I am male 18 years old and have had sex about 4 times now. I haven't gotten complaints but want to get better. Any tips?

Im not satisfied

So my bf (23) and I (21) have totally different sex drives and it’s driving me insane. He can maybe go at it twice a week... I on the other hand could have sex everyday, multiple times per day even. I masturbate because otherwise I would be bitchy from sexual frustration. I love my boo and I wish I could just lower my sex drive so that it’s not as frustrating for myself. Help? Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:01AM So my bf (23) and I (21) have totally different sex drives and it’s driving me insane. He can maybe go at it twice a week... I on the other hand could have sex everyday, multiple times per day even. I masturbate because otherwise I would be bitchy from sexual frustration. I love my boo and I wish I could just lower my sex drive so that it’s not as frustrating for myself. Help?

It's my first time, any tips on what I should or shouldn't do?

My Gf and I have been talking about having sex for a while now, and I came here wondering if I could find any helpful tips on things that you should do or shouldn't do, I want to make sure I do my best for her. Thank you in advance! Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:08AM My Gf and I have been talking about having sex for a while now, and I came here wondering if I could find any helpful tips on things that you should do or shouldn't do, I want to make sure I do my best for her. Thank you in advance!

If using porn is not very healthy, is it ok to masturbate just as much but without it..?

I don’t know much about this subject as you can tell, I’m a woman in my early 20’s (if that makes any difference), I know too much porn or and certain type of stimulation can cause issues with guys (death grip). I am wondering if the same thing can happen to women with clitoral stimulation. How can someone keep a healthy (and easily stimulated) sexual life while they don’t have a sexual partner? Is masturbating without pornography the key? Does using elaborated toys makes things worse? My guess is that hand only (or plain manual stuff) without pornography would help preserve sensibility mentally and physically, but I could be wrong and that’s why I need help here. Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:16AM I don’t know much about this subject as you can tell, I’m a woman in my early 20’s (if that makes any difference), I know too much porn or and certain type of stimulation can cause issues with guys (death grip). I am wondering if the same thing can happen to women with clitoral stim...

Sex advise needed- gay relationship

Hi, I'm a 29 y o submissive bottom and my partner is a 37 y o top. We both are a gay couple, currently in a long distance relationship but we are monogamous. Soon both of us are going to start living together. Recently I have started developing some thoughts. I fancy my partner having sex (and making love, of course) with other boys. We both are brown men and his ideal type is tall, lean, toned and hairy European men. Before we both started dating, he was mostly dating men of his preferred type but after we both met, though I'm only 5'7 and brown-skinned, we both fell in love with each other because we loved each other's personality. And we do love each other physically also. But I have a desire for my man to meet and sleep with young European blokes. His ex, also a gay man, is someone who is totally his type in terms of physical appearance and I will only be delighted if he meets up with his ex sometimes and spends a weekend along with him making love and having a g...

Female pain in abdomen when penetrated from behind?

I notice ever since I first started having sex that when it is done from behind I feel a sensation in left side of my middle to lower abdomen. It’s a bit of a pain that is present when the penis is inside my vagina and instantly goes away when it is out. I never minded much because the pleasure outweighed this slight discomfort. Last week, I had a pain in that exact same spot....except I wasn’t having sex, it was long lasting, and very intense. It especially hurt to move and exhale, and I ended up in the emergency room. I had my pelvis examined and CT scan on my abdomen and while based on the location the doctors believed it to be a stomach issue, my colon, kidneys, and ovaries all checked out fine. They gave me some morphine and the pain eventually went away. I hadn’t had sex from behind in a few weeks, and it wasn’t until the other night when I did it that I realized it was the exact same spot. Does anyone else know this experience, and if so has it spontaneously turned into real p...

Broke up with my ex but our sex tandem was amazing.

I find myself day dreaming about every memorable sex we had (which was a damn lot). I can’t seem to get turned on my anything else (porn, other people, etc) which in turn, is giving me a difficult time to meet new people. How do you overcome this? Submitted May 18, 2019 at 06:27AM I find myself day dreaming about every memorable sex we had (which was a damn lot). I can’t seem to get turned on my anything else (porn, other people, etc) which in turn, is giving me a difficult time to meet new people.How do you overcome this?

Girlfriend had extremely high sex drive during beginning of relationship, but now barely seems to enjoy sex.

My girlfriend (22f) and I (23m) have been dating for about 4 months now. At first we could barely keep our hands off each other, and it was sex multiple times a week, surprise blowjobs, morning sex, the whole nine yards, etc.. She would even initiate a lot of it too! About 3 weeks ago, I started noticing the sex frequency went down, which I was fine with, I thought it would just be a slight break to offset all the sex we were having at the start of the relationship. But we never quite bounced back, and with each passing week I feel it's been getting worse. She rejects most of my advances, switches the conversation topic every time I bring it up, barely ever initiates sex, and when we actually do get after it, I feel like she's just trying to rush me to finish as fast as possible. She's such a giving person when it comes to sex, that maybe I thought she just wanted to be on the receiving end more, so I started eating her out more and longer, but she usually doesn't even...