Need advice on how to handle this situation.

I’ve been talking to this guy I like for a few weeks, yet we’ve only hung out twice. We text everyday and talk on the phone a few times a week. However, this past week has been different. He seems more distant. We made plans to hang out earlier in the week but ended up not getting together. I asked him today if he was still interested, and he told me he would tell me if he weren’t. The problem is, I’m the one that’s starting to lose interest as we haven’t seen each other on almost two weeks and have only spoken once this week. I just need more. However, since we’re only dating and it hasn’t been that long, I don’t feel as though I have the right to bring this up to him, yet I REALLY like him and we are totally compatible and have both expressed how we want this to work out because we both see what it could be.

What should I do? Should I tell him that I’m afraid of losing interest if we don’t see each other or talk more often? Do I just suck it up and see where things go?

I asked him about hanging out this weekend, as well as asking if he’d call me later after he got off, and he didn’t seem too enthused about either. I don’t know what to do.

Submitted May 17, 2019 at 10:42PM

I’ve been talking to this guy I like for a few weeks, yet we’ve only hung out twice. We text everyday and talk on the phone a few times a week. However, this past week has been different. He seems more distant. We made plans to hang out earlier in the week but ended up not getting together. I asked him today if he was still interested, and he told me he would tell me if he weren’t. The problem is, I’m the one that’s starting to lose interest as we haven’t seen each other on almost two weeks and have only spoken once this week. I just need more. However, since we’re only dating and it hasn’t been that long, I don’t feel as though I have the right to bring this up to him, yet I REALLY like him and we are totally compatible and have both expressed how we want this to work out because we both see what it could be.What should I do? Should I tell him that I’m afraid of losing interest if we don’t see each other or talk more often? Do I just suck it up and see where things go?I asked him about hanging out this weekend, as well as asking if he’d call me later after he got off, and he didn’t seem too enthused about either. I don’t know what to do.