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I have a date with an amazing dude tomorrow and I’m hella nervous!!! (Vent/advice search)

like this dudes a total dreamboat to me, at least from his tinder pics and our chats over snapchat. he’s super funny AND really attractive AND hella smart. total 10/10 for me dude. And I’m just like.. woah, what the fuck, hello? how did I score a date with this dude!! I look at myself and think I’m a total pud half the time!! Anyway it’s... tomorrow and I’m just praying to jeezus that it will go well. It’s not really a traditional ‘date’ date, like, we’re not going anywhere. he’s just coming over to my place to get blitzed, smash and play smash bros probably, whatever we feel like doing. seems chill and good to me. Anyway, what’s mostly got me nervous is I am rusty as FUCK when it comes to dating. Like, it’s been a few months since I’ve been on an actual date!! Or boned anyone!!! My coochie has cobwebs!!!! I dunno what I’m gonna dooo!! I know to just act natural but like holy smokes the anticipation is KILLING ME. We do seem to have good chemistry so I’m just hoping that carries m...

What are signs a fwb likes you more then just a fwb?

Have a fwb and I was thinking he was just trying to be polite and ask about ny life and well be "friends" but he makes sure to atleast say "good morning/goodnight" once a day, asks how my day is, requests cuddles and kisses AFTER sex, and even spent an extra hour going on a walk with me last time because I had to wait for transportation instead of just having me wait alone like i kept offering. *side note he has mentioned jokingly coming to my family holidays way more then once and meeting my family and when I jokingly asked him about planning month in advance he said "id of course be bringing you to my family stuff bc then my family won't stop asking me about getting a girlfriend" I get a fwb is just sex, so im so confused why he's taken so much of an interest in my life and in sharing his life and such with me. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:27AM Have a fwb and I was thinking he was just trying to be polite and ask about ny life and w...

Got ghosted on today, everything was cool until I asked her out.

Seriously never happens to me, out of the 10-20 girls i’ve talked to in the past week almost all have been down to hangout or meet up sometime , off dating apps. I honestly want to delete my dating apps for a few months and self improve. Probably better it happened today than two weeks or after I was invested. Still only happens to me once a year and always girls I’m actually into. Tbh I’d rather be lied to than left on read. It’s always girls that seem super interested at first and about 8/10 attractiveness so they probably have guys lined up. Probably going after the wrong ones, but honestly I’ve been ghosted before and then randomly hit them up and they wanna hook up. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:32AM Seriously never happens to me, out of the 10-20 girls i’ve talked to in the past week almost all have been down to hangout or meet up sometime , off dating apps. I honestly want to delete my dating apps for a few months and self improve. Probably better it happened today t...

Do I have an std?

I’ve been going to my obgyn because I was tested positive for BV. I have taken oral flaygl, tinidazole, and vaginal flagyl. Things only got marginally better with foul odor going away but still some off white/yellow discharge. However, after I finished the flagyl gel, I got the usual clumpy discharge side effect (it has gone away) but also vaginal itching and itching towards my butt too. I suspected it might be a yeast infection. I went back to my doctor and she said that she wants to test me for chlamydia and gonorrhea in addition to a yeast infection and bv. During those tests I felt really tense and the speculum really hurt (felt like it burned/stung). she just did blind tests instead. I have a boyfriend and I know that he got tested before he started dating me and doesn’t have anything, so I don’t think he gave anything to me. However, two years ago ( way before I started dating my boyfriend) I had this one time encounter with a friend where he did oral to me and gave me a handjo...

How to get over a "prude" mindset?

The title says it all -- how can someone change a prude mindset? ​ I've always been slightly ashamed of the idea of being a sexual person. I blame it on my upbringing: religious household, paranoid mother who fears of what others think about us....and not to mention, society's views on girls and guys in general (we all know what I mean). In high school, girls were slut-shamed endlessly. Due to my mother's paranoia of other people's opinions, I feel like it rubbed off on me and I became afraid of seeing sex as something enjoyable. I lost my virginity with the same man who I have 2 children with, and he sure didn't help with this (our relationship had a lot of problems that I believe made my libido 10x worse). ​ But now that I'm single and free, I want to get out there. I want to break out of this "shell". Porn and masturbating isn't a problem, but it's not helping. I think it's due to the fact that it's private and no one can ever k...

I think he lieing to me

I came home and for 2 condoms in trash one ripped one finished in.. we been married 10 yrs not once have I ever found a used condom.. Submitted September 13, 2019 at 11:30PM I came home and for 2 condoms in trash one ripped one finished in.. we been married 10 yrs not once have I ever found a used condom..

What does it taste like when you are giving oral pleasure ?

So what was going through your mind when you were eating your first pussy for the first time in you life and what was the taste like? Submitted September 13, 2019 at 11:40PM So what was going through your mind when you were eating your first pussy for the first time in you life and what was the taste like?

Girls who haven’t masturbted on their own?

Hi, Ive been dating a 17F girl for a few months and we’ve gone as far as oral sex for both with each other. Lots of fingering and handjobs. The other day I asked her how much she masturbates on her own, and she said she doesn’t. I could totally see that because she’s grown up in a pretty strict environment but I was just curious how common this actually is that a girl has never pleasured herself and if it might affect our sexual activity together. I’ve heard that girls who are more sexually repressed growing up can be pretty wild which is interesting bc she actually wants to wait longer before having sex Submitted September 13, 2019 at 11:44PM Hi, Ive been dating a 17F girl for a few months and we’ve gone as far as oral sex for both with each other. Lots of fingering and handjobs. The other day I asked her how much she masturbates on her own, and she said she doesn’t. I could totally see that because she’s grown up in a pretty strict environment but I was just curious how common...

A potential hookup seems a bit sleazy so far. Am I overreacting?

It was his idea; I’m out of town and he wants to drive four hours over to stay the night. I was planning to screen him a bit by showing him around town and going for drinks beforehand, and talk to him and feel it out in the meantime. Look, I know sex is the whole point of hookups—but I’m trying to see how this guy is outside of the bedroom first and so far it feels like talking to a twelve year old boy. We’ve barely covered any topics that he hasn’t turned into suggestive conversation or sex jokes. At one point he said “Lemme eat that ass” and immediately apologized, saying that the message was for his friend. (Hmmm) I’m not necessarily expecting to share life stories with him of course, but at the same time it’s just getting a bit stale. Am I being too uptight? I’m trying to explore and venture out of my comfort zone, but this may be a bit far out of bounds. Submitted September 13, 2019 at 11:45PM It was his idea; I’m out of town and he wants to drive four hours over to stay ...

I think he lieing

I came home and found to use condoms in the trash when I asked him about it he said he is to jack off been married 10 years and I've never known him to do that let alone thrown in the trash. California Girl ask what makes you think that Submitted September 13, 2019 at 11:53PM I came home and found to use condoms in the trash when I asked him about it he said he is to jack off been married 10 years and I've never known him to do that let alone thrown in the trash. California Girl ask what makes you think that

Producing more precum than usual

I usually make a lot of it, and by the time I’m having sex there’s usually bucket loads of it, but recently I’ve been producing even more, like just normally when I’m not turned on or hard. Is it normal? Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:16AM I usually make a lot of it, and by the time I’m having sex there’s usually bucket loads of it, but recently I’ve been producing even more, like just normally when I’m not turned on or hard. Is it normal?

Guy coming over

Went on one date with a guy on Monday, he's on his way over now for date 2. Netflix and chill. I'm so fucking horny I'm dressed all cute and provocative and I'm gonna jump and hump his fucking bones. I haven't been fucked good in years and this guy has major BDE so I'm looking forward to tonight. He's been telling me how he wants to make me cum, wants to challenge me, wants to eat me out. Fuck this better go well. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:17AM Went on one date with a guy on Monday, he's on his way over now for date 2. Netflix and chill.I'm so fucking horny I'm dressed all cute and provocative and I'm gonna jump and hump his fucking bones.I haven't been fucked good in years and this guy has major BDE so I'm looking forward to tonight. He's been telling me how he wants to make me cum, wants to challenge me, wants to eat me out. Fuck this better go well.

Any tips for UTI treatment?

I've been having mild pains, on and off from my UTI for a week now. Does anybody have any tips to just get rid of it? I usually barely drink water but this week, I've been just trying to drink more than I usually do. I also just bought kombucha because of its probiotics. Not sure if it'll get rid of my UTI. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:24AM I've been having mild pains, on and off from my UTI for a week now. Does anybody have any tips to just get rid of it? I usually barely drink water but this week, I've been just trying to drink more than I usually do.I also just bought kombucha because of its probiotics. Not sure if it'll get rid of my UTI.

Mental excitement makes me climax more than physical

Hey guys, A lot of times during sex or masturbation, it's the mental aspect that puts me over the edge or even bring myself to the edge in an instant, more than physical sensations. Since I'm very inexperienced in sex, I think the next time I do it I won't last enough. The thought of being in her and making her moan is quite strong for me atm and pushes me to cum quickly. This is bad as almost every girl moans and that excites me a lot. I don't wish to think about anything else during it cuz that'd take away the experience. I wanna know your guy's tips on how I can not make sex and giving her pleasure a big deal and stop overthinking like this so that I can actually last longer for me and my partner. Your tips to mentally be in the moment and not put all these on a pedestal. Also, how to overcome the dirty talk, cuz I can't do it back and forth as it usually makes me finish. Thank you Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:26AM Hey guys, A lot of times du...

Rate my collection.

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Those damn Chads

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The prayers of niceguys after rejection

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Why is it always some guy named Chad?

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All I did was tell a joke..

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Forgot to post this.. How does this make me a brat? Lol

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All he needs is a sweet Fedora.

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/u/ThatRandomTallKid on Kinky asexual fantasies?

I thought I was the only one who might be into cuddle bondage (I’ve never done it, but it intrigues me). I’m really glad I’m not. September 14, 2019 at 12:08AM

/u/Getting_Help on I'm kinda really confused, so I hope this will help me identify my sexuality.

I’m confused. You say you’re sexually attracted to people...but you’re not... September 14, 2019 at 12:04AM