Really crazy good spring break Hi so this is my first post on here and it might be a long one I (20F) have never been sexually promiscuous as I was raised in the church where sex is “supposed to be with a man and a wife”. I’ve always been the good girl who does well in school and I’ve never been to a party. I’ve been with my current boyfriend (23M) for 2 and a half years even though we’ve known each other for about 10+ years. He was raised in church too and I love him but sex was always something he didn’t wanna push me to do, but still wanted. We decided to have sex about a year or so ago (took my virginity) and it was great. Well... A few months ago, he confessed to me that he’s had a sex addiction for a long time and that he cheated on me numerous times since we started dating. Because I love this man and he’s super close with my family (like I’ve wanted to marry this guy for over a year), I decided I would give him a chance to fix himself and his addiction but if it happens aga...

I'd been making progress with this girl (before all of this) and my virginity was looking a little bit precarious. When it comes to sex, will I be expected to take her from behind, or will it likely be missionary? In my fantasies, it's always been missionary, doggy has always seemed a bit too feral for me. Submitted March 30, 2020 at 11:48PM I'd been making progress with this girl (before all of this) and my virginity was looking a little bit precarious.When it comes to sex, will I be expected to take her from behind, or will it likely be missionary? In my fantasies, it's always been missionary, doggy has always seemed a bit too feral for me.

I Used Vaulty for a while but backup is limited, so maybe u can suggest me something better with more features like random slideshow and auto rotante screen to fit the picture. Do you know something good? Submitted March 31, 2020 at 12:01AM I Used Vaulty for a while but backup is limited, so maybe u can suggest me something better with more features like random slideshow and auto rotante screen to fit the picture. Do you know something good?

My girlfriend and I have been together for around 5 months now, and this hasn’t always been an issue. When we first started having sex, everything was fine, but I believe as she started getting more comfortable around me, she stopped taking care of her vagina as well. Some days, when I lay my head down on her thighs I can smell it, and it has this really wonky, indescribable smell that literally makes me want to throw up. This makes me completely turned off to the idea of going down on her. She has told me that she showers usually once every other day, and she told me that she only uses water to clean her vagina. Am I being too judgmental? Submitted March 31, 2020 at 12:02AM My girlfriend and I have been together for around 5 months now, and this hasn’t always been an issue. When we first started having sex, everything was fine, but I believe as she started getting more comfortable around me, she stopped taking care of her vagina as well. Some days, when I lay my head down on he...

Title pretty much sums it up. So my bf and I haven’t seen each other for quite a while due to the current situation. Because of it, we have gotten much more sexual over text, and he has mentioned that we can start sending nudes to each other as long as I’m comfortable with it. Honestly the thought of receiving and sending nudes to each other really turns me on, but I’m just too afraid of the consequences of sending them. I have pretty remarkable spots on my body that most of my friends know about. So I feel that even if I don’t show my face, people will still recognize me if my nudes get leaked. Now, trust is a HUGE part of it, and I know that I should trust my bf when it comes to these stuff. But, I guess what makes it really hard for me to trust him is probably my abusive ex, let’s call him Dick. Me and Dick dated for only a couple of months (less than half a year) and during this time he had crossed boundaries I constantly had to put in order to keep me safe during sex. He would...

So we were talking about AM boners and my boyfriend (33) claims it’s his body’s response to having to pee - since it’s harder to pee with a boner, his body creates one so he doesn’t have to get woken up in the night to use the bathroom; the boner essentially allows him to hold it 8-9 hours until he wakes up naturally. I always thought guys had AM boners because their bodies are wired to want to reproduce at all hours & they probably had a sex dream or just woke up horny. Do any other guys buy this “boner to block pee” theory, or is my boyfriend just full of shit?! Lol & thank you in advance. Submitted March 31, 2020 at 12:05AM So we were talking about AM boners and my boyfriend (33) claims it’s his body’s response to having to pee - since it’s harder to pee with a boner, his body creates one so he doesn’t have to get woken up in the night to use the bathroom; the boner essentially allows him to hold it 8-9 hours until he wakes up naturally. I always thought guys had AM b...

Looks for some sex position ideas with recommendations. We’re lookin to keep it fresh! Or anyone know of a site with visuals for this kinda thing? Submitted March 31, 2020 at 12:06AM Looks for some sex position ideas with recommendations. We’re lookin to keep it fresh! Or anyone know of a site with visuals for this kinda thing?

Throwaway account here so I don't get snooped on for sharing my question. Last week I messaged someone from reddit after a comment they made that I read on r/sex thinking nothing more than it was gonna be a bit of messaging fun, however, one thing led to another and we happened to live in the same city and I was really intrigued! Especially by what he wrote in his comment, he seemed to know exactly what he was talking about. Half of me was thinking is this guy actually like this? Is he what he describes in his comment? Now I have met people off of tinder before but not on a whim like this. So fast forward through some private messaging on here and texting we met up for a drink at a local cafe place for the sake of meeting in a public opening at first, got chatting about a few kinks, likes and dislikes in the bedroom and finally got to his place and it was ON. And oh my god I have never been taken like that before in my life! I felt ravished unapologetically, it was just so spont...

My wife told me that she is not interested in sex with me anymore for the past year. The past year has been very stressful on both of us and my mood has been pretty bad. Just looking for advice on how to see if there is anything I can do to make her have that passion for me again? Submitted March 31, 2020 at 12:10AM My wife told me that she is not interested in sex with me anymore for the past year. The past year has been very stressful on both of us and my mood has been pretty bad. Just looking for advice on how to see if there is anything I can do to make her have that passion for me again?

We are very inexperienced when it comes to sex and have only been making out, she expressed that she wanted to lose her virginity with me this week. What should I do to prepare for it, we will be using condoms, I have gotten latex and non latex one and I am not sure if I should get lube or if it would ruin our first time(should I get water or silicone based ones if I do) Also I have shaved about 2 weeks ago and I am unsure if shaving again right before the deed would be a good idea. I would be grateful for any advice from experienced people Submitted March 31, 2020 at 12:17AM We are very inexperienced when it comes to sex and have only been making out, she expressed that she wanted to lose her virginity with me this week. What should I do to prepare for it, we will be using condoms, I have gotten latex and non latex one and I am not sure if I should get lube or if it would ruin our first time(should I get water or silicone based ones if I do) Also I have shaved about 2 weeks ag...

Hi everyone, I’m hoping this is an okay thing to post in this subreddit; I’ve tried to post in other more specific subreddits but they aren’t quite as large as this one and I’m hoping for a wide variety of answers if possible. I put it in the title as well but I’ll write it again to be safe: This post is largely about sexual assault and healing, there will be no descriptions or anything but it contains mentions of SA, thank you. Anyway, here we go: About 7 months before my girlfriend and I met, she was assaulted (we’ve been together for about a year and a half at this point). I will not go into detail and I really don’t have that much detail as I’ve been sure to never bring it up and never ask questions unprompted (also we are in our mid-late 20’s, for reference) Anyway, we have sex probably once a month on average and it is always wonderful, intimate, and mind-blowing. There are times when she has been triggered during sex and (obviously) we immediately stop when this happens and ...

I’m a 35 yr old male, married for 4 yrs with one young kid. I’m coming to terms with the reality that my marriage is actually falling apart. I just don’t know what to do, I love our daughter deeply and don’t want to ruin her childhood, or risk being cut off from her. When I first met my wife, I was head over heals in love with her. We had a relationship for about 3 yrs before we got married. We had great sex at the start and used to have fun going out socializing etc...i couldn’t see any thing wrong in her. Where we are now couldn’t be more different, even factoring in the toll a child takes on your life and relationship, it’s really all changed. My wife causes me so much stress, she’s manages to make everything so bloody stressful, like even choosing the colour of some curtains etc... I seems like we can never disagree without her losing her temper. Feels like bitterness and sniping remarks run through the day regularly and arguments can go nuclear when I don’t have the energy to s...

I’ll try to make the backstory as short as possible. I (31F) have know my friend, we’ll call him Steve (39M), for 15+ years. 7 of those years we were off and on. Timing has always been our main problem. I broke it off the last time and we didn’t speak for about 5 years, our longest stretch of no contact. A few months ago I worked up enough liquid courage to reach out to him and we’ve been talking ever since. For a while we were in that “text every morning, call every night” phase until, suddenly, he started ignoring me completely. Depression, he said, which I understand completely. It just threw me how out of the blue and severe it was. Centimeter by centimeter I’ve been trying to pull him back in but it hasn’t been the same. Which brings us to today. I am crazy about this man. I have been since the first day we met. When we weren’t speaking, even when I was in relationships or married, he was never far from my mind. I’ve done several really mushy gushy romantic type things to show...

My dad owns a big construction company and he makes tons of money. I help manage it (I direct the workers to where they are going to work and what has to be done. He’s been working for us for like 3 years now and he’s a very hard worker. He’s hot, smart, a good person, and he is a college student too. I asked him out on a date because I really like him and I don’t think he took it seriously. He told me I was trying to prank him or joke with him and he said he thinks that just becauss I make a lot of money and I am American (he didn’t say any kf this in a bad way to me he more or less was putting himself down based on his social status) while he is “poor” and Latino. I think that he is probably thinking that he isn’t good enough or something, but I could probably help him out a lot and I like him. Well I never got a yes or a no and I’m really confused and kind of frustrated. Should I try again and ask him out? Or what? We didn’t get to talk about it in detail because we were both rus...

I’m a 22 year old (female), she’s a 20 year old (female). I chose to ask her if she’s okay. She always seems like she’s in a bad mood. I have a job, she doesn’t at the moment. I pay rent to her husband for letting me stay here at their apt. He’s never home because he is a CDL truck driver. I told her I was going to Walmart and she said: “Okay! While your there you should set up a bank account too so you have one, I think it’s first convince bank that’s in there” ... I was like I’m not going to go through the bank they have there, then she says: “Okay that’s good! and well find a better one then lol” She kind of seems like she’s mad at me or something so when I got home I asked her: “you good?” and she was like: “Yeah why... Why do you keep asking me that?” I said: “Because it seems like you’re mad at me...” and I should’ve said because I care about you... But she’s weird with “feelings and emotions”. It’s very quiet right now... It got awkward after that, she seems like she’s mad now....

Story time: I'm [19F] a first year undergrad at uni, in that time I made friends with the few good people on my course. One in particular [19F] & I hit it off. I feel we get on like a house on fire, but she has a BF whom came with her to the uni and whom is absolutely harmless as people go. Yada yada, around Halloween I confess to her after drunkenness & walking her back that I wanted to kiss her, she said nah but would've if they werent together. I keep being kinda semi-overtly flirty with her because she found it funny, so I take that as something of a greenlight to continue as I thought we were both having fun; going to watch movies at mine often about Less Than SFW Topics (think Secretary) , being playful with my poor purchases from lovehoney, drinking lightly, all that good stuff. Next semester it's the case that she's evidently grown out of the fondness for me about the "i would if I didnt have a BF" and puts the foot down as it were, saying t...

Pardon me, because it's Long. We were in a FWB type of relationship for one year, he [38M] was recovering from a divorce, I [36F] had and still have mental illness and a low self-esteem and I couldn't see myself as worth enough to be his partner. For nearly one year, I never asked. I never questioned. I dodged any proposal that was more than casual. Our son thought otherwise. Just when we were going to break up and go separate ways, I was pregnant. We ruled out a termination, and he insisted to try to know each other better and co-parent this little bundle of surprise. Unfortunately my pregnancy was not simple, between therapy and bed rest, we grow distant. He was working crazy hours to make up for the paternity leave and holiday time, I was stuck in a bed all day. Baby arrived early but healthy. I am not going to suggest that being a mother, fixed me or something, but, my mind changed a bit. For the first time in my life I am important to someone. I can do stuff and be pro...

Major conversation with partner last night. Not really intentional. I'm curious y'all's take on this scenario (note this is not the scenario of us or anyone we know...but it's a real situation and led to a big conversation about the nature of trust and lying). Situation. This girl is dating a guy long distance. He comes to visit and gets stuck with her during quarantine. His trip is obviously extended indefinitely. They have been dating about 6 months - she says he's her bf but doesn't say whether they have had the "exclusivity talk." He has mentioned a female friend to her that he doesn't talk to anymore...she gets the sense it was more than what he's saying. She looks at his phone and see evidence that it was at least an emotional affair situation (the other woman is married but her bf was single at the time) if not a physical relationship too. She sees that they last spoke a few weeks before she got together with the guy. She approaches hi...

My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year, and we are both extremely mentally ill and both have issues that truly cannot be handled right now considering we are in a global pandemic. We've been sitting here on facetime for like four hours trying to figure out a solution where we can talk about our problems and care for one another without overwhelming each other. This has been a problem for awhile and we do not know how to care for ourselves and each other at the same time. We communicate about what makes us upset constantly, which makes us both more upset because there's no solutions to most of our problems. Literally all we do is sit on facetime and cry. We don't want to break up because we love and care for each other very much, and we want to help one another, but simply put, we both are too smooth brain to figure out how to be in a healthy relationship where one person isn't being pushed under the rug. We aren't even long distance or anything....

When I speak about prioritising, I am more specifically talking about when I vocalise or communicate to him that I am upset or hurt by something that he isn't or is doing. He won't (and I can tell) read my texts fully or respond to my calls as he has excuses to not do so that aren't justifiable. He genuinely is a very logical thinker and I understand this inhibits his emotional responsiveness but I am feeling next to nothing at the moment. Its getting worse with the virus too. Since we're isolated from each other for the long term, I have a deeper desire to be near him because of the restrictions of not being able to freely see one another. He doesn't seem so desperate to be near me as I do. Calls are infrequent and (if we do) they're cut short. Messages are standard and when we game it feels like he's forced into gaming with me but really I just bring up that I wish he would game more. He isn't really 'fully' wanting to to much with me for lon...

TLDR; my ex(who, as we both agreed, I imagined saw us as friends) seems to be distant now that we’re in coronavirus confinement. He barely respondes to texts, and he definitely doesn’t initiate texts. Did he lie, should I make clear my feelings? Hey everyone, Me: I have always put other people’s feelings and wants before mine. Most recently, I allowed my ex-boyfriend to take advantage of how caring I can be. Him: Generally, he was disgustingly terrible to me. He has mental health issues. I allowed his issues to be my excuse to accept and ignore his behaviors. Problem: Due to my specific circumstances, and the fact that I really love him as a person, when we broke up, we both originally agreed to be friends. We had a slight break with the understandably dumb no-contact rule. Then we began hanging out again. Unfortunately we also began getting too drunk and hooking up...again. We then consistently began to hang out on weekends with me as the initiator. I enjoyed this, until he asked i...

TL;DR at the end of text. I have been married to my husband for three years. Out of those three years, we lived one year with a roommate and two years (and counting) with my MIL. We met outside the US and decided to get married. I left my job and family and moved to the US to be with him. Since I couldn’t work for the first six months we stayed with his roommate. We bought a house and moved after a year. His mom moved in with us to get her green card. Those plans changed and she found a job so she can send money back home. Initial plans of her staying six months changed into two years now and counting. Meanwhile, his sister came also and stayed with us for three months to give birth to her child to get a passport for the child. I have raised my concerns many times to my husband and cried and told him how much all of this impacts our marriage and privacy. Things have not changed and he always says he has to help them since his dad left them when they were kids and he is their father ...

graduated from college in May and am working my first 'real' job (aside from internships, summer jobs, etc.) Since this is my first 'real' job, I'm unsure of how to approach this. I was recently hired as an assistant at a firm and I think my boss might be into me. I'll briefly list notably strange things he does to me (not to anyone else): - when we walk, he stares at me. like STARES into my eyes and smirks (we're talking 15+ seconds without breaking eye contact), i've caught him checking me out/ looking at my boobs before, when he interviewed me, he winked at me multiple times, the other day i went to ask him a question about a particular document and he leaned up against me (like body on body) to look at a piece of paper that didn't require that, we had a work event recently and my boyfriend and i were talking to him. he ignored some of my boyfriend's questions and mostly talked to me and was being extremely smiley and flirty, he always compl...