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/u/cat_romance on Angered the Allos for saying - Don't sexualize every naked body.

You made a very eloquent point. March 13, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/Ilike_fruit on Ace/aro rings for guitarist.

I played double bass for years so I understand the struggle. March 13, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/SucukAbi on German Discord Server * AceSpace.de *

Die Top deutschen Nudes und Only Fans Leaks ohne invite! https://discord.gg/RmyupdXaHt March 13, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/Jumpyropes on Angered the Allos for saying - Don't sexualize every naked body.

That's why I never understood porn magazines. Like they're literally just pictures of scantily clad women, there's nothing sexual about that? I always figured it was just because people back when porn mags were popular didn't have much to jack off to so they made do with what they had. But apparently no, naked people or scantily clad people are just inherently sexual to people??? Like they don't even need to be doing anything sexual, they could literally just exist without clothes and it's jerk off worthy I do not get it. March 12, 2021 at 11:59PM

/u/RatsOverTheDishes on representation

This is why that little asexual scene in Sex Education meant so much to me. It was written so perfectly, that scene was how I figured I was asexual lmao March 12, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Clo1111 on do u guys get boners when confronted with sexual content?

When boobs in a video or art dont want to touch real just visuaL i think....s'till ace ? lol ? March 12, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/Sundaydinobot1 on here's to all of us

I say I am a biromantic ace. I feel like bisexual ace would be confusing? But I think some people use biromantic and bisexual interchangeably. I do think romantic orientations need to be used more to normalize them. Heteromantic ace, you want a relationship with someone of a different sex but not the sex. Biromantic, I'll date either but I'm not sexually attracted to you. March 12, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/luciole_lunaire on just want to see something wholesome

I will check it out, thank you! 😊 March 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/TheWarLoad on Ace/aro rings for guitarist.

A white ring on the left middle finger is for aromantics. I will definitely check out silicone rings thanks! March 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/luciole_lunaire on just want to see something wholesome

oh that's wholesome, I'm so happy for you!! ☺️ March 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/luciole_lunaire on just want to see something wholesome

That's so cool! I can't wait for the pandemic to be over so we can enjoy fully our life again ahah March 12, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/Sundaydinobot1 on representation

Yes I hate this. I've had sex before, often forcing myself to do so just because I thought it was how you were supposed to be. I also consider myself a biromantic ace and have been with both men and women. I have three kids. I know how sex works, it is just not for me. And no I don't need the right person to come along. I hate those men that think they have a magic dick that will cure me. March 12, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/Bearhorder on Fixed the (hopefully unintentional) aphobic post from r/AntiHateCommunities. Let me know if you think I can improve it in any other way (was debating adding demi)

At the end of the day it is a matter of opinion. I am sure even in the trans community there is disagreement about this. I don't think that a minor transgression is worth pushing allies away when there are so many people who legitimately want to hurt transpeople. Thanks for the discussion I enjoyed it even if I am a bit toasty from the downvote fires. March 12, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/luciole_lunaire on just want to see something wholesome

dogs are cleary the best, I can't wait to see my dog in one week 😊 March 12, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/Ilike_fruit on I’m starting to think I’m graysexual -

I'm grey-ace demi-sexual and it's a weird space to occupy for sure. often confusing. But the more time I spend in this community the more sure I feel. Unless there is an external factor affecting your libido (if you are normally sexually active/sex positive) I'd say you are leaning grey-ace. Welcome to the club! haha March 12, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/kaida_notadude on do u guys get boners when confronted with sexual content?

You're still ace. I get them too. March 12, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/luciole_lunaire on just want to see something wholesome

awww that's awesome! March 12, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/Floorfrozon on PSA: If you live in England or Wales, your sexuality CAN be counted in this month's census, even if you're not out to your household!

It is also worth pointing out that although the official date for the census is 21st March you can complete the census before or even after this date. If you complete the census before the 21st you can even update the info you have given if your circumstances change. ​ Every household should complete the census on Sunday 21 March 2021 or as soon as possible after. If you’ve responded before 21 March and things have changed, you can let us know by calling us free. You can find the numbers on our contact us page. March 12, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/Cheddarkenny on representation

K guy that cares so little he needs to tell people about it March 12, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/Sundaydinobot1 on representation

That sounds absolutely miserable. There are asexual dating apps out there. I highly recommend finding another asexual if you want romance. March 12, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/Demiboyacearo on Never again

Thanks so much! You don't know how much I appreciate it March 12, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/Ilike_fruit on Ace/aro rings for guitarist.

Do you have a silicone ring? That might help. And I know of Aces wearing the ring on the right middle finger, I'm not sure about other fingers for other folks. March 12, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/Sundaydinobot1 on representation

I always thought I was the weird kid. In high school everyone I knew wanted sex and I just could not relate. I thought I was just immature. Society also made you feel like a loser if you weren't sexually active, all while telling you that you were a terrible person if you were. So I often forced myself into situations I didn't want to be in. I remember an MTV True Life titled "I'm not having Sex". I was quick to tune in hoping to find someone else out there like me. But these were the three people featured. A model not wanting to have anymore premarital sex after a near death experience, a girl who cheated on all her boyfriends and vowed not to have anymore sex until she could be committed to one person, and a couple not having sex because one cheated and the other was afraid of getting and STD. Not an asexual, not a religious person wanting to wait until marriage, not someone who wasn't ready, not someone who was too nervous, not someone who just hadn't...