So I (m20) have one of my first actual dates planned for next Sunday. We are going to go to the mall so she can go shopping, have some lunch together, walk around and then go to her place to watch a move or series. But at work right now I don’t feel like going anymore. I haven’t talked to her, it just came really random. I was supposed to go and pick her up, which is a 20 minute drive, then basically go back to where I came from, but instead of going left somewhere, i have to turn right. This is another 20-30 minute drive, to then park in the center off the city, which is gonna be really crowded because it’s a Sunday, and also payed. After that if we go to her place I have to meet and introduce myself to her parents. And I just feel like I don’t want to do all of that, because i basically know it’s not going to turn out to be anything because I suck at dating and I’m not the relationship type of person. I was thinking of faking a positive COVID test to tell her I can’t come anymo...

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Hey guys, I am Jewish and my girlfriend is Episcopalian. Among Jews I know this seems to be common and for many it doesn't seem to be an issue. For me, I have been concerned for a while now that this could come up as an issue between us in the future. I have anxiety that my children could end up growing up without the Jewish faith. I know, haven't been dating for that long enough but I am afraid top continue to become that serious. I just do not know how to go about solving my issue. My girlfriend is amazing in every other aspect and if she was Jewish, this wouldn't ever become a concern of mine. I just am very proud of my Judaism and afraid of losing that. I don't want to celebrate Easter of Christmas, I feel awkward and out of place. I also wish I had a significant other that can participate in my Jewish tradition with. I have never talked with her about it, but I am afraid that it will be a very awkward conversation to have and I don't want any conflict with her...

I posted about this in another sub, but didn’t get many responses, hoping for some more input. I have a crush on a guy who’s in most of my classes (grad school), we’ve talked a bit, mostly about work. Last semester I got a new job and I told him, and he was really happy for me and said “I’ve been manifesting this for you”. Just thought that was really nice. Anyway, a few weeks ago I mustered up the courage to ask him out to an event for our school. I mentioned that everyone else in our little “group” is either married or engaged, and I asked if he’d like to go with me. He said yes, and we had a great time, got to know each other a lot more. He asked me a bunch of questions about myself and what I like to do around town, and mentioned that next time he and his roommate goes out, he’d invite me. I’m just wondering if he knows I asked him out in a dating sense. I don’t want him to think of me as just a friend, you know? But I also don’t want to ask him out twice in a row, something is ...

nah im very distant from there, honestly i just stay with my asexual people of the AVEN community or any place where asexuals are and that is it. Honestly we have being so shut out and hated on by the other queers that at this point we have disassociate ourselves pretty much entirely from the LGBTQA+ community in all ways. At least with me and my sister. March 16, 2022 at 11:32PM