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What is the best way to make my girlfriend more comfortable?

This is the first time I have had an issue with this. My new girlfriend has a smaller vagina, and my penis hurts her during intercourse. I am doing a lot of foreplay, and it helps. There is still is a small amount of pain on her end, any advice would be appreciate. FYI I am 6.25 inches, if that matters. Submitted February 05, 2021 at 11:43PM This is the first time I have had an issue with this. My new girlfriend has a smaller vagina, and my penis hurts her during intercourse. I am doing a lot of foreplay, and it helps. There is still is a small amount of pain on her end, any advice would be appreciate. FYI I am 6.25 inches, if that matters.

Constant Need to Pee after Rough Sex

I (22F) had two rounds of rough sex a few nights ago. Afterwards, we both talked about the fact that we both felt a moment of pain like he hit something hard, but we kept going and it went right away. Ever since I then I have to pee constantly—like at least once an hour. And it’s a genuine need to go, like not a drop or two. It doesn’t hurt or anything to pee but everything still seems a little achy down there. Is this normal? I don’t think it’s an sti (we’ve both been tested recently). Were we too rough or am I starting to get a uti? Submitted February 05, 2021 at 11:52PM I (22F) had two rounds of rough sex a few nights ago. Afterwards, we both talked about the fact that we both felt a moment of pain like he hit something hard, but we kept going and it went right away. Ever since I then I have to pee constantly—like at least once an hour. And it’s a genuine need to go, like not a drop or two. It doesn’t hurt or anything to pee but everything still seems a little achy down ther...

weird sex dreams

have been having weird dreams about having sex with ugly and old men. like they’re only ugly and old. i always wake disgusted with myself and feel weird. keep in my mind, i’m a 22 yr straight woman in a healthy committed relationship. so idk what’s up. has anyone had dreams like this and what do they mean i’m thinking more along the lines of trying to regain my own power over people like them but idk if that even makes sense sos Submitted February 06, 2021 at 12:00AM have been having weird dreams about having sex with ugly and old men. like they’re only ugly and old. i always wake disgusted with myself and feel weird. keep in my mind, i’m a 22 yr straight woman in a healthy committed relationship. so idk what’s up. has anyone had dreams like this and what do they meani’m thinking more along the lines of trying to regain my own power over people like them but idk if that even makes sensesos

I (26m) kinda hate my dick

So lemme start off by saying I take antidepressants/anti anxiety medication, and use to be pretty bad at jerking off when I was younger aka death grip and lack of lube or lotion most the time. So here is where the post actually starts So I pretty much hate my dick, I was doing what I normally do at night going through the hentai Subreddits because I enjoy hentai and I’m an artist and like to see other art styles. I was basically fully erect like 95% I’d say, so I decided I’d jerk off. This was last night and the night prior I also jerked off to completion. But last night after about five minutes my dick just stopped feeling pleasure like nothing. I just felt my tenga flip hole move up and down. This went on for about another 20 minutes or so, which is when I was like fuck this my arms hurt and are tired. Now I’ve had this kind of issue before but it was when I was using my hand and sometimes when I’m with someone. I normally don’t jerk off everyday but I was kinda in the mood. But ...

What are some good positions (20F) for sending nudes?

I am getting bored of sending the same thing as nudes to my bf. I always do the whole titty rubbing and spread legs thing. I want to do some other weird but totally hot positions. Like I want him to CRAVE me you know? Any suggestions? Submitted February 06, 2021 at 12:12AM I am getting bored of sending the same thing as nudes to my bf. I always do the whole titty rubbing and spread legs thing. I want to do some other weird but totally hot positions. Like I want him to CRAVE me you know? Any suggestions?

Wife wants anal...and I’m excited!

Happily married for fifteen years. I have had an anal fantasy ever since we got married. I’ve read a lot about it, and learned you don’t force the issue. It’s best to let your spouse lead and not to force it. So the last few years, I’ve been slowly introducing anal play into our sex life. A few months ago, she admitted to me that it really makes sex more enjoyable. She’s getting over her inhibitions, which has me giddy for the next step. As an aside, she did let me slip my dick into her ass last year almost unknowingly. But I just stood there with it in because I didn’t want to cause pain and ruin my chances for the future. So now she wants to open her ass to me. It’s a gift this week that I want to make sure I take. But I want to set ourselves up for a great experience. I have some glass plugs we’ve used before. Thinking to warm her up with that first. But what else could I do to ensure this goes well? I’ve thought about getting a lube launcher and some desensitizing anal lube. ...

Just lost my virginity, and I’m trying not to get attached to him but it’s a hard.

So I’m (23) a generally emotional person and I never thought of myself as a casual sex person or even a relationship person. But I met this guy that just checks off all of my boxes and he actually really likes me. I lost my virginity to him on Monday. We’ve had sex (and like, shockingly good sex, we came at the same time and everything) 3 times this week. I met him like 3 weeks ago. I feel like I’m being pranked because he’s so perfect for me. I know this is probably the honeymoon phase or whatever but damn. Butttt we decided that this is “casual”. This makes the most sense because I literally just met him and we’ve both been hurt in the past by moving too fast in a relationship. My brain said this is the best thing for us right now. But my heart and my womb wants to meet his parents and have his babies. How do I chill the heck out??? Edit* I meant it’s hard and not it’s a hard in the title lol I can’t type Submitted February 06, 2021 at 12:15AM So I’m (23) a generally emotion...

I hate men after sex and I have no idea why

Hello, Let me start of by saying I am not a hateful person. But I have this recurring problem where .every.single.time. I have sex, as soon as I get done I am completely disgusted and pissed. This has been a thing ever since I started watching porn and masturbating, even though I enjoyed it and did it often I hated myself and the act afterwards. Now that I am starting to have sex, and started sexting it has become more apparent. I get super horny and talk with guys, exchange nudes, have sex, etc. But as soon as I am done I hate the guy I did it with and feel gross. But I keep having sex and getting horny. What is wrong with me? Somebody please give some advice because this is truly hurting not only my sex life but my dating life. I can’t stay with a guy because I really just hate him after I have sex PLEASE HELP!!!! Submitted February 06, 2021 at 12:16AM Hello,Let me start of by saying I am not a hateful person.But I have this recurring problem where .every.single.time. I h...

If girls don’t care about looks then why have I never had a relationship!

Don’t tell me I’m entitled. The only people laying their entitlement issues are the ones who are successful. I am not owed anything. I have never felt “owed” anything in my entire life. I have worked hard to get to where I am. I fought for over two years to get to my job which I’ve worked at for over 6 years now. I keep myself clean I train everyday. I am polite, kind and girls like to converse with me. Why does no one seem to want to date me? Why do I feel so invisible in the dating world... Submitted February 06, 2021 at 12:17AM Don’t tell me I’m entitled. The only people laying their entitlement issues are the ones who are successful.I am not owed anything. I have never felt “owed” anything in my entire life. I have worked hard to get to where I am. I fought for over two years to get to my job which I’ve worked at for over 6 years now.I keep myself clean I train everyday. I am polite, kind and girls like to converse with me.Why does no one seem to want to date me? Why do I...

/u/ThatAroAceDude on Decided to start subtly letting my family know I’m asexual

Best of lucky my ace friend we all support you here February 05, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/SilverShadowss on I’m curious...have you had your first kiss?

Same I think I did kiss a boy for asplit second in like nursery but I wouldn't count that loll February 05, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/SilverShadowss on I’m curious...have you had your first kiss?

Sorry you had to endure that but ngl I couldn't stop laughing for 10mins 😂 February 05, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/RelativityFox on Anyone have a therapist who helped them figure out their asexuality?

A therapist told me once that if you’re really interested in a particular topic then on psychology today you should start with those check boxes but then only hone in if the person emphasizes it in the written description. February 05, 2021 at 11:37PM

/u/Reddit-Book-Bot on I was on the ace wiki page and this made me laugh cause???

Beep. Boop. I'm a robot. Here's a copy of The Bible Was I a good bot? | info | More Books February 05, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/Adhd_whats_that1 on I was on the ace wiki page and this made me laugh cause???

The bible literally says that a married person doesn't have authority over their body and they belong to their spouse when discussing sex and marriage. So, yes February 05, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/Familiar_Fire on I really want to help my wife who thinks she might be asexual

You're welcome! I'm glad if it helps :) I also really like the fact that you have several positive answers from other couples in your situation! Wishing you the best :) February 05, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/Depressedemo420 on Just came out to my brother!

Congrats! Good on you! February 05, 2021 at 11:29PM

/u/thewritingdolphin on Is sexual guilt normal as a rape victim and asexual?

Thank you so much for your kind advice. I really appreciate it. February 05, 2021 at 11:29PM

/u/EmilaiG on haha internalized aphobia go brrrr

That's okay and yee I dont really relate to sexualised them, as you can tell haha Ah okay I dont know, it could just turn into men being objectified . I haven't seen the show February 05, 2021 at 11:27PM

/u/NotANilfgaardianSpy on I had a bit of time on my hands and decided to make something pride related. Its fingerpainted with acryl.

Nicht schlimm, bleibt unser beider Geheimnis ;) Edit: Ich war schon am Überlegen, ob ich mir daraus eine Flagge mache. Ich bin nämlich auch asexuell und panromantisch :) February 05, 2021 at 11:25PM

/u/1-UpGaming on Its flag time mah dudes (ft. kinda face reveal)

I love your hoodie!!! February 05, 2021 at 11:23PM

/u/arrondl on I'm seeking a relationship and want advice pls :)

Try looking for a boy that is loyal and understands that you are asexual and is ok with that. February 05, 2021 at 11:23PM