I (M19) am using dating apps to just practice talking to girls, see where things go and such. Something I’ve found is, idk if I’m to blame but I feel I am, is that the convos are fairly dead. No matter who starts the conversation I try ask questions and start topics to chat about but they always just go to getting a couple words as an answer and then I’m forced to try continue from that. Any advice on this sort of thing? For some reason they have near to no information in bios or pictures and give blunt answers/don’t ask questions back. Submitted March 09, 2021 at 11:35PM I (M19) am using dating apps to just practice talking to girls, see where things go and such. Something I’ve found is, idk if I’m to blame but I feel I am, is that the convos are fairly dead. No matter who starts the conversation I try ask questions and start topics to chat about but they always just go to getting a couple words as an answer and then I’m forced to try continue from that.Any advice on this sort...

So this is a question for anyone in a relationship that started over long distance or with someone you didn’t know. How did you start talking to that person everyday and keep it entertaining ? i find it hard to because if i tried i’d know nothing about the person and we wouldn’t have any friends in common and might not get to see each other because of the whole pandemic. Once i get to know their interest and we’ve talked for a bit i’m not akward and the conversation flows easier, i just have trouble starting conversations and getting to know the person without being dry or awkward, so any advice ? Submitted March 09, 2021 at 11:38PM So this is a question for anyone in a relationship that started over long distance or with someone you didn’t know. How did you start talking to that person everyday and keep it entertaining ? i find it hard to because if i tried i’d know nothing about the person and we wouldn’t have any friends in common and might not get to see each other because o...

so ive found out a while back that im into older women not like 50's old. im 19 so maybe a woman in her 30's. i dont really know why im into older women but i am and i want some advice as to how i can go about getting into relationships with older women Submitted March 09, 2021 at 11:38PM so ive found out a while back that im into older women not like 50's old. im 19 so maybe a woman in her 30's. i dont really know why im into older women but i am and i want some advice as to how i can go about getting into relationships with older women

Obviously if you use any kind of dating app you will know that women like tall men. You can check all the right boxes but your matches are relative to how tall you are. After using apps like tinder, bumble, and even down to The League, I found that it doesn't work for a short guy. I finally found a way to cheat the system, so to speak, I searched up countries that had a way lower income compared to america. I up my height by an inch or 2 and went to town, it worked extremely well, I searched in several poorer countries and had so many women actually message me, it was crazy and I finally got a taste of what women and taller men go through on tinder. Its not fool proof though, women still like tall men no matter where they live, but this approach actually gave me a chance compared to before. So if you're a short guy I would suggest you try the same since its only getting worse for short guys. Submitted March 09, 2021 at 11:44PM Obviously if you use any kind of dating a...

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A cbd shop recently opened up in my area and there is always the same girl working there. Luckily because I think she is really cute. Anyway the shop is rather empty when I go there. So it's always just both of us and we have time to talk a bit. The last time I was there she was smoking a cigarette next to the shop I was on my way to the shop. She asked me if I'm in a hurry and I told her it's all good and she can take her time. We talked in the meantime and it was always very fun Today I went in the shop and she was drawing something. She quickly put it away and I said I also like to draw. she showed her Instagram with a few drawings she did. We had a nice small talk again. She also told me she would love to start tattooing one day and I told her she would get there one day because she has big artistic talent. That moment she looked at me and started nodding her head and It gave me the feeling like I was talking too much to her. Idk now I think I misinterpreted that. A...

So i've met this girl from class last week(due to covid i wasnt able to really socialize with other students) and we started talking alot that day. We have the same kind of humor, laughs often at my jokes, and makes a LOT of eye contact. So when i got home I added her on snapchat and tried making a bit of conversation. Yet it slimmed down alot over the days after that and didnt really text me. Also when joining a teams call of an online class, she immediately shuts off her camera when I join. Since I do not have much experience with relations and that kind of stuff, any advice? Also, is there such a thing as someone being shy on social media but not in person or something? Submitted March 09, 2021 at 11:50PM So i've met this girl from class last week(due to covid i wasnt able to really socialize with other students) and we started talking alot that day. We have the same kind of humor, laughs often at my jokes, and makes a LOT of eye contact. So when i got home I added he...

I’m a young teen (15) and my classmate (F 15 too) I’ve known for a few months and I have been texting and talking in and out of school. I don’t know if this is important but sometimes she starts the conversation and I start it too but I don’t know if that’s important or not really. I wanna ask her out really but I don’t know how to do it without it ending awkwardly if it does. Submitted March 09, 2021 at 11:53PM I’m a young teen (15) and my classmate (F 15 too) I’ve known for a few months and I have been texting and talking in and out of school. I don’t know if this is important but sometimes she starts the conversation and I start it too but I don’t know if that’s important or not really.I wanna ask her out really but I don’t know how to do it without it ending awkwardly if it does.

So this guy(21M) and I(21F), we like each other, we know it, we've had a crush on each other since 3 years now, but I'm still in doubt if he really likes me why hasn't he made a move? He hasn't asked me out on a date like never. Only talking is what we've done so far. I need help if he's really into me or he's just playing around and pretending that he likes me to pass time. I humbly ask for advice. I'm so confused here. Submitted March 09, 2021 at 11:55PM So this guy(21M) and I(21F), we like each other, we know it, we've had a crush on each other since 3 years now, but I'm still in doubt if he really likes me why hasn't he made a move? He hasn't asked me out on a date like never. Only talking is what we've done so far. I need help if he's really into me or he's just playing around and pretending that he likes me to pass time. I humbly ask for advice. I'm so confused here.

I (26F) started dating a few months ago and have gone on several dates with men I meet OLD, but I have only been asked on a second date by one of them. The dates go well, I make them laugh a lot, we have good conversation, they usually really open up to me. The guys are usually more into me than I am to them (their attraction is clearly there and some of them are very obvious about it) though. One guy even texted me afterwards saying he was "blown away" by how cute I was. Then, they will either: A. confirm if I want to go out again by the end of the date by saying, "This was really fun, lets do it again sometime!" or "see you again soon?", things like that OR B. text me when they get home from the date saying that they had a great time and want to do it again. I always enthusiastically agree. Sometimes they even talk about specific things we can go do together and I also agree. But... except for ONE, none of them actually ask me out on the second dat...

I feel like lockdown only makes this worse as I am somewhat helpless to do anything about it. I am currently 24 coming 25 in a few months and have never had a serious relationship. Up until about a year ago I hadn't really done much dating either. I've started going on a few dates which has helped my confidence etc but I'm worried that when I meet someone I really like they will be put off by the fact I don't have any experience in a relationship. Submitted March 10, 2021 at 12:05AM I feel like lockdown only makes this worse as I am somewhat helpless to do anything about it. I am currently 24 coming 25 in a few months and have never had a serious relationship. Up until about a year ago I hadn't really done much dating either. I've started going on a few dates which has helped my confidence etc but I'm worried that when I meet someone I really like they will be put off by the fact I don't have any experience in a relationship.

My ex always pointed out mistakes I made as red flags when she was angry and would say she shouldn’t be ignoring them. At the time I thought she was just saying hurtful things and she was mad at my actions. Now I still see them as hurtful but I’m trying to take them as learning experiences. She would say this during almost any big argument. For example once we were on bad terms for a week because she was insecure and I didn’t compliment her enough and she couldn’t believe my compliments were genuine anymore after she said something. I don’t think she’s wrong in any of these situations that we argued over. I just want to know how I can notice my own red flags before I start dating? Submitted March 10, 2021 at 12:05AM My ex always pointed out mistakes I made as red flags when she was angry and would say she shouldn’t be ignoring them. At the time I thought she was just saying hurtful things and she was mad at my actions.Now I still see them as hurtful but I’m trying to take them...

I've been seeing this guy for 2 months now and we have a great time together. We agreed on being casual, but our relationship seemed to be progressing beyond that. We have met up in the past and haven't had sex, just hang, watch TV and cuddle. I have even met his friends. His messaging has always been bad even from the beginning, this was okay but now i'm not sure if it means something else. On Sunday he forgot we had soft plans and I spoke to him about this. He apologised but didn't seem to make much effort on fixing this. He didn't message me for a while after and I was about to let it go, maybe he's lost interest. However he messaged me later into the next day and asked if I wanted to hang this week and told me to pick a day. So obviously I want to see him and I chose a date and asked if that day was ok for him, its now been a day and he still hasn't responded. I'm so confused what does this mean, if he lost interest why would he ask to see me ...

Just curious, would it be a good idea to put ex's reviews in the dating app description? Lol. Legit, my ex's have said these. "You were the best person I ever dated, and definitely the one I was most in love with." - Ex1, the toxic ex "I'm terrified if I'm making a mistake (breaking up with you), your love is so amazing and it's with all of your heart" - Ex2, Grass is Greener syndrome ex Submitted March 10, 2021 at 12:16AM Just curious, would it be a good idea to put ex's reviews in the dating app description? Lol.Legit, my ex's have said these."You were the best person I ever dated, and definitely the one I was most in love with." - Ex1, the toxic ex"I'm terrified if I'm making a mistake (breaking up with you), your love is so amazing and it's with all of your heart" - Ex2, Grass is Greener syndrome ex

Liking somebody for their looks could simply be aesthetic attraction Do you feel aroused by looking at them, or is it more like a nice piece of art? March 10, 2021 at 12:06AM

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That type of disharmony is present in any relationships that aren’t flowing well. It’s not exclusive to sexual relationships? March 09, 2021 at 11:36PM

Humans can have erogenous zones, a secondary sexual characteristic such as breasts or the nipple (especially because of the vascularisation of the chest, and it’s relation to child-rearing) were likely to become sexualised. For instance, apparently the North Western world the breasts are sexualised, whereas in the South West it’s primarily the buttocks - so perhaps it is also cultural that defines the sexualisation and the exposure to such flesh that appears to the sexual folk. March 09, 2021 at 11:34PM

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