:) yes I just use the term ace to describe myself, idk if I am demi, gray or anything else and I don't feel like I have to find it rn! I am just really happy that I have found this community of loving people and ace or not in the future I'll never forget the love and care y'all have given me. 💜 April 14, 2021 at 12:03AM

I wish I could relate April 14, 2021 at 12:01AM

Same :( April 14, 2021 at 12:01AM

No April 13, 2021 at 11:55PM

No probs yo. Nowadays I’m uncomfortable with hugs and most touch contact aside from close friends due to the bad association it became for me. It’s important to respect people’s boundaries. April 13, 2021 at 11:54PM

Lmao, I love that it's still a ring April 13, 2021 at 11:54PM

No April 13, 2021 at 11:52PM

It didn't hit me how touch hungry I was until I accidently brushed hands with the cashier as I was checking out. I was immediately struck with how strange it felt. Yet nice? Only then did I realize that literally NO ONE has touched me in over a year. April 13, 2021 at 11:48PM

And yet some people still get away with insisting that they are "a hugger" and giving non-consentual hugs to people. I have personal space issues and barely hug my parents let alone random people I'm meeting for the first time (friends/family of friends). Edit: I'm not accusing you or anything. I just read your comment and it triggered this uncomfortable thought that I needed to get out of my head before I started obsessing over it. April 13, 2021 at 11:46PM

Honestly I struggle with it. A part of me is like why can’t I be “normal” but what even is normal. I just feel like it’d be so much easier if I enjoyed sex because it’s so prominent in relationships. On the other hand this community and talking to other aces is really helping me and I feel really good about finally accepting certain things about me and growing. It’s complicated for sure April 13, 2021 at 11:42PM

Me in highschool snuggling with all my friends... and being told I'm leading the opposite sex on when doing so while getting glares from same sex who were jealous. Bro, idc about dating you, let's just cuddle and have snacks, yeah? April 13, 2021 at 11:41PM

BDSM. The idea of any kind of pain infliction or power imbalance in a relationship makes me REALLY uncomfortable. I'ma. sex-indifferent ace but I've became more sex-repulsed because I've been pushed into kink by allos April 13, 2021 at 11:40PM

I totally relate. April 13, 2021 at 11:39PM

Oh yikes I mean, it's good to be proud of who you are, but if someone is content yet not very vocal with their existence that's fine as well. April 13, 2021 at 11:39PM

I’m so happy to hear that you have someone to give it to! Hopefully it makes them smile! April 13, 2021 at 11:37PM

I have a friend that I desperately want to hug but we are long distance friends. I just want to be held and comforted but I have no-one near me who I’m ok with being that vulnerable around ;-; April 13, 2021 at 11:33PM

YASSS April 13, 2021 at 11:33PM

lol it’s okay XD April 13, 2021 at 11:29PM

Deal. Aslong as we get to sing along to Misty Mountains with pride, no matter how off tune our voices sound! April 13, 2021 at 11:29PM

I got a haircut last week and the hairdresser massaged my scalp (washing out shampoo I guess) & it felt so nice. April 13, 2021 at 11:28PM

No April 13, 2021 at 11:27PM

How do people find the act of kissing someone so appealing? To me it just seems so awkward and claustrophobic, not to mention the taste, not my cup of tea I guess lol April 13, 2021 at 11:26PM

This. Always this. A thousand times this. April 13, 2021 at 11:22PM