Idk if it’s my period or because he jus put it in while it was dry but that was probably the most embarrassing thing thts happened to me.!! I feel so bad so I sucked his dick. Haha. Made up for it But it was fine the first round then we tried to go again I told him to finger me and he saw blooddd after he basically shoved his dick in But how do I take his dick without it hitting my cervix.!! Orrrr is it because it’s close to my period.? Also why was I so dry and I’m usually soooo wet.??! It was like a desert.!! Submitted December 25, 2019 at 12:10AM Idk if it’s my period or because he jus put it in while it was dry but that was probably the most embarrassing thing thts happened to me.!! I feel so bad so I sucked his dick. Haha. Made up for itBut it was fine the first round then we tried to go again I told him to finger me and he saw blooddd after he basically shoved his dick inBut how do I take his dick without it hitting my cervix.!! Orrrr is it because it’s close to my peri...

Is it too early to get symptoms and might not be HIV? So about 2 days ago around 2 am i have a hook up with a random girl, unprotected and lost my virginity to her. It was not my finest moment, i understand but nothing i can do now. Today i woke up with a sore throat, and feeling light headed/fatigued (although i’m generally always feeling fatigued because of my bradycardia). My brother was sick about a week ago but i doubt he got me sick, and about 2 days before i had sex, i was feeling nauseous and a temp of 99.7 i believe (ik because i went to donate blood but my temp was too high). So am i overreacting? I know i should get tested, but i’m only 18 and i don’t want my mom to find out about this and i also regret it. Also my poop looks weird, i can pm a picture if wanted because i’ve heard that’s a symptom. Submitted December 25, 2019 at 12:12AM Is it too early to get symptoms and might not be HIV?So about 2 days ago around 2 am i have a hook up with a random girl, unprote...

I’m (f19) home from University for the holidays and of course forgot my vibrator (and boyfriend lol) at school. I have never been able to make myself cum without using toys, I’ve tried dozens of times over several years but no success. But today I had some alone time and after close to an hour, I had a fairly non intense orgasm. Now that I’ve jumped the hurdle, I’m interested in exploring a bit more, how do I up the intensity without any aids? I don’t go back to school for another week or so and I’m up to the challenge. Submitted December 25, 2019 at 12:13AM I’m (f19) home from University for the holidays and of course forgot my vibrator (and boyfriend lol) at school. I have never been able to make myself cum without using toys, I’ve tried dozens of times over several years but no success. But today I had some alone time and after close to an hour, I had a fairly non intense orgasm. Now that I’ve jumped the hurdle, I’m interested in exploring a bit more, how do I up the intensit...

I don’t know what to do. I’ve felt this before in our marriage, so much so that I almost left it when we were in year 3. My husband and I have been together seen we were in high school, we got married young and I remember thinking ON MY WEDDING DAY that I didn’t want this. Unfortunately I disregarded this thought and didn’t listen to it. Now I’m in this relationship, which for all intents and purposes is a great relationship. My husband is very caring and loving. We have awesome family ties on each side, we live in a great home in a wonderful area and have the best of friends. Which is causing me to feel so ungrateful for this life we’ve built. But for some reason after all of these blessings I still find myself internally screaming and wanting out. It hurts a lot. And I keep it all to myself because knowing this would CRUSH my husband, especially since I tried leaving before. I guess I’m just looking for some advice or reassurance from someone else who has been there. I’ve gone to...

I am posting this to get it out of my head to be completely honest. My wife and I had an argument about me not doing anything in the house. She was right, but instead of telling her i got upset and started to be an asshole talking shit because i was in all honesty ashamed of myself, after a day i wanted to tell her that I am sorry about the whole situation and that i will change my behavior. After telling her she started to cry and told me that she wasnt sure if a marriage after two years was the right decision, something that hit me pretty hard. We talked about the whole situation, i was still under the impression that something was off. And I saw her writing in a text app. I got paranoid because I was cheated on in 2 other relationships, so i asked her about the chat i saw and wanted to know what was going on. She told me she couldn't let me read the text because she promised she wouldn't, and assured me that its just a chat with a co worker and a female freind of said c...

It's not the first time, but I'm really really annoyed that he's pulled his card on Christmas Eve (and also our youngest son's birthday). We have two children together and one each from previous relationships. I have no family to go to, no close friends that I would feel comfortable descending on, but I feel like I really need to leave, and this is something I repeatedly come back to. The last time he stated this, he actually got really angry before telling me what the matter was and physically hurt me whilst bashing things around the house. Anger and physical violence is a recurrent issue in his history, particularly with his ex wife - who probably left him for the same reasons I want to. But it is clear that he is of mind that he has right to these horrible outbursts because I'm apparently so mean to him, ignore him, don't like him, and spend all my time scrolling Facebook. He is exceptional as a father. He does a lot around the house, values and supports ...

After much thought into my life and the mistakes I made - it was time I was honest with myself. Thought I would shared my letter with you people here. Has anyone else been in such a situation where you were able to work it out? Is it possible to continue a life with someone who broke your trust or once lost, is it gone forever? M30 F29 together 6 years First and last paragraph are wrote talking to my wife. Everything in between was me writing to myself owning what I've done. If there is anything that I've proven when I've been with you it's that I never really truly cared. How many times can a person say they are sorry and keep repeating the same mistakes. The damage has been done.The mind can be persuaded the heart not so much. It's too late for honesty and forgiveness. You can't go back. You can't beg your way back into someone's life when you broke in the same promises you're trying to make again. She loved you and you threw that away for sel...

I (22f) have been with my girlfriend (21f) for 2.5 years. We've been having a rough time for the last 3 months. We solved our issues for the most part. She's seeing a therapist and she's come a long way I'm proud of her. Anyway, I'm feeling rejected and unwanted and quite scared that she never says I love you or I miss you. When I say it, she says nothing most of the time but she sometimes does. Maybe I should note that we haven't had sex for the last 3 months. She has no sex drive. No more romantic talk ''sweetie, honey,.... '' I tried talking to her about all of this and about how scared I am. She says she's sorry I'm feeling this way but she doesn't wanna be very close to anyone. She feels like she should kinda isolate herself from everyone and this is all she can give me right now. This is her limit and she's not even comfortable talking about our future like we did before. I'm really really really in a bad place and w...

So my boyfriend (18M) and I (18) have been in this relationship for over a year and a half now! Long distance means we don't get to spend a lot of IRL time together, so we see each other once every few months or so and spend most of our time apart video-chatting or playing games online together. As far as I can tell we're both happy in the relationship and try our best to be open in our communication, most of our conversations center around how we can't wait to see each other again haha. However, whenever we do manage to meet up, I usually spend the first hour or two together anxious as all hell. I'll feel sick to my stomach or like I want to cry, just a very depressive heavy feeling that puts a real dampener on everything until my mood lifts and I can function again, for lack of better wording. While I'm like this the idea of being romantic at all just makes everything feel worse, to the point where I feel guilty holding hands. Is this a normal thing to be exper...

My bf and I have known each other for a while, dated for a year. His family came over to my house for a holiday party with my family members and mutual friends of my bf's over. Over the course of the night they said quite a few inappropriate jokes basing around my family's race, weight, me, etc. Not cool, so since they were coming over again I asked my bf to say, "Hey, some things were said and it was really uncomfortable. Lets keep it light and fun." Some things aren't joke material, and those were.... all of them. I don't want to dice up the situation but essentially it boils down to: they don't see what the big deal is, it's not their fault people were offended, I'm overreacting, and my other guests need to be ready for the adult world. My other guests are very much adults and most certainly did not want to come to a party just to feel uncomfortable. It became a disagreement between my boyfriend and his family when he prepped them before comin...

My father died when I was young and my mother is a toxic, deeply disturbed, abusive person who I finally cut contact with earlier this year. I have no siblings and really no other family except some grandparents and cousins who live far away and who I never had much to do with. This was the first christmas I didn't spend at my mother's. I instead spent it completely alone. I thought it would be fine because I'm not a big christmas fan and mostly have bad memories associated with it anyways. Well turns out it's still kind of shitty. I would have liked to be with friends, but my friends all have good relationships with their family and all of them are with their parents for the holidays. I'm just at such a loss of how to deal with this in the future. Since I have friends etc I don't usually feel lonely, but it really comes out on holidays. I suppose if I ever get a longterm relationship, at least then I won't be alone. Either way this leaves my constant str...

I'll try to make this as clear and objective as possible. Basically I [22M] met a girl [20F] on Tinder and we were FWBs for a few months and then she asked me to be her boyfriend (I said yes) and we dated officially/exclusively for about 6 months from that point forward. Ultimately our relationship ended when she went to Europe for 2 months (the last 2 months of our relationship) and told me she wanted to be single. She had been honest about everything (to my knowledge) during our relationship, but there were several factors that made me think she was cheating when she was in Europe. The factors were the following: • During our relationship, she grinded on a guy at a concert while drunk (she called me while she was still drunk to tell me and was laughing the whole call). I should mention that she laughs when she is nervous or telling the truth (to my knowledge) • She did not have much experience with guys before me (just one previous short relationship and one FWB basically) an...

You've pretty much won at life by just being asexual. December 25, 2019 at 12:21AM

Laugh to make me laugh? December 25, 2019 at 12:15AM

Nice top! Is your hair dyed blue? It looks amazing! December 25, 2019 at 12:11AM

Lucky you. December 25, 2019 at 12:07AM

To me it sounds more like hetero with fixation on oral. December 24, 2019 at 11:59PM

Happy to make you happy December 24, 2019 at 11:59PM

I'm hetero-romantic and asexual. Maybe even demi. Who knows. But you're valid December 24, 2019 at 11:59PM

Originaly posted on Relationships but it got deleted for some reason but I got a few responses so thought I would post here. tl;dr - girlfriend / fiancé of 10 years fell for someone else. Moved to the other side of the world and went on my first ever date! Hi all, I will start with the regular sorry for formatting I'm on mobile! I'm not even sure why I'm writing this, who cares or if anyone will actually read it but I just needed to get it out. I'm not looking for sympathy or pity, but if it can help someone that would be great. So my back story. In a relationship for 10 years with who I thought was my soul mate (since high school). Lived together for 7 of them. Did everything together, saw the most amazing places and planned our future. Talked about having kids and getting a house was imminent. Rarely argued and agreed on almost everything, communicated extremely well. After 9 years I proposed, she said yes and the planning continued. As I'm writing it actuall...

Long story short, over the past few weeks this girl at my university and I have been getting closer. I picked up on signs that she was attracted to me before, but we didn't really start talking until this month Until now we've seen each other on a nearly daily basis (we both went home for break, live a couple of hours away from one another). In person her body language gives her away, but I've noticed that, as we've gotten closer, she's actually started taking longer to text/snap me back Is she just trying to play hard to get? If it makes any difference, she's not some attention lover or player, she's actually super inexperienced/innocent and it's really obvious if you spend any time with her (she's only been with/dated one guy before) Submitted December 25, 2019 at 12:06AM Long story short, over the past few weeks this girl at my university and I have been getting closer. I picked up on signs that she was attracted to me before, but we didn...

I (30f) Went through a break up with my now ex fiancé (32m) this summer. It was a rough break up, he ghosted next several times, promised to stay in touch, then blocked me on everything an hour later. Haven’t had any contact at all since August and keep him blocked on all outlets. I’ve been casually dating, and currently dating a really cool guy (still casual for now). I don’t cry all the time anymore...maybe once a week IF that, but the holidays are stirring up some rawness. Anyone else take a long time to fully move forward? I feel like 4-5 months should have been enough for me to not think about him anymore. And I hate that it’s hitting me so hard right now, the stark difference between my life last year and this year. Anyways, cheers and thanks for reading. Happy holidays reddit folks. Submitted December 25, 2019 at 12:21AM I (30f) Went through a break up with my now ex fiancé (32m) this summer. It was a rough break up, he ghosted next several times, promised to stay in touc...

This isn’t a pity post - I just wanted to touch base and wish a Merry Christmas to the others out there flying solo this year! Submitted December 24, 2019 at 11:35PM This isn’t a pity post - I just wanted to touch base and wish a Merry Christmas to the others out there flying solo this year!