I (21M) have been in a really situation all together, and my inabilty to bond is making the whole thing worse. Basically an issue whilst getting my greencard ended up with me being stuck outside the country in Mexico. This resulted in a lot of fights with my family, a lot of stress regarding university and my scholarship, and lastly it has really isolated me since Im not used to the culture here. The issue arrises that even though around family, I have had really bad struggles meeting people. Not only meeting them, but getting to a point where they want to talk to me/be with me. This is either friends wise or relationship wise. This has always been something I struggled with, but now being stuck here truly isolated has really hit hard. I have tried from dating apps, going out, online, and even clubs/bars which I dont like. The way it tends to go is the first impression is fine, and it seems really nice. However it must be the way I chat or talk? Maybe Im too intense or seem too bori...

So I M23 have been seing this girl W20 for a while and a few days ago I spent the night at her place for the first time. I think I'm beginning to like her but I'm quite sure that she has a very high sex drive and that she is having sex with other guys at the same time too. We met on an app and talked about what we were looking for and we pretty much both said that the best thing would be something serious but that we are also open to just experience stuff along the way. Now of course she's done nothing wrong by seeing other guys too since we haven't discussed exclusivity yet but I stil feel kind of uncomfortable when I think about what she is doing with other guys maybe just days before I see her next even though I have no right to feel bad and I dont even know if she sees me as a potential partner or just a experience. She sure treats me like a romantic prospect and not like the other F+ I've had before but of course she could also treat other guys the same. I don...

Weve been dating 5 months and it's been fantastic. But she is interviewing for a job she seems likely to get and plans to move 7 hours away. I've been supportive of her and want her to chase her dream, but privately the thought of having to do a long distance relationship and potentially move my entire life, or start over yet again (I'm 32) is causing my anxiety levels to go through the roof. We talked about it last night and basically we would do long distance and see how it goes. This sucks. Why cant dating ever be easy? As soon as I find the right person she has an opportunity and wants to move far away. Submitted October 15, 2022 at 12:14AM Weve been dating 5 months and it's been fantastic.But she is interviewing for a job she seems likely to get and plans to move 7 hours away. I've been supportive of her and want her to chase her dream, but privately the thought of having to do a long distance relationship and potentially move my entire life, or start ...

I have a friend and we’ve always been flirty with each other. We were hanging out and being flirty, they jokingly admitted they have feelings for me. I originally thought it was just physical attraction. It’s obvious they will do nothing about it, but when I mention other people they say “tell em everything! I want to know how the date went!” “let me help you text them” “let’s look at your dating profile!” etc. I find it so weird? How can you have feelings for someone but want to know about them with other people? Can someone help me understand this way of thinking? Thanks! Submitted October 15, 2022 at 12:16AM I have a friend and we’ve always been flirty with each other.We were hanging out and being flirty, they jokingly admitted they have feelings for me. I originally thought it was just physical attraction.It’s obvious they will do nothing about it, but when I mention other people they say “tell em everything! I want to know how the date went!”“let me help you text them...

I honestly don’t feel that that has been the case in practice. I’d have to break up with them. October 14, 2022 at 10:56PM

people enjoy the feeling it brings mentally and physically, it can make you feel close to someone you love or it can make you feel really good to get it on with someone attractive. it can also relieve some people's pain (period or otherwise), just good for general stress relief. it can be a safe space for kinkers to explore their interests, which often can lead to self discoveries that better personal life outside of sex. lots of reasons! some or none can apply to people, it's all ab just chasing the good vibes in a healthy consensual way October 14, 2022 at 10:55PM