I know right. Like I know it sounds unrealistic (and I hate that it does in this world) but if I could just have a best friend to share a home with, someone that would cuddle up when it's cold, to go shopping with, to cook for, and if I explain all these things to someone they will say "bro you want a girlfriend" ... No not really I just want SOMEONE! non romantic (or maybe semi romantic idk) but just someone stable in my life that I can put energy into and that can do the same.. it's soooo hard to get that into people's heads. I've heard the term life partner I few times and ya I guess that I what I'm getting at. Someone who is just on the same page as me, saying there is no label, we are just us and we are happy. But nope. November 23, 2022 at 12:52AM

I totally feel that!!! November 23, 2022 at 12:50AM

I met this girl a couple of days ago for the first time at another friend's birthday party. We both knew that we existed since I actually hit her up through messenger AGES ago (we have mutuals, used to be in the same student association and study the same thing in uni) but we had never seen each other or met in person, or at least I had never seen her but kept seeing her profile. The initial chat over messenger was okay but just led her kind of ghosting me (typical) and it was just really simple, frank conversation about uni, the association and what we did. We met at the party and also talked there but nothing really special materialised; basic convos, played a bit of that table soccer/football game and did grow to be fond of each other but she was relatively shy, she only knew one other person really closely there and stuck with her but I had been hanging with her for a while that she felt comfortable around me, started following me around when I went somewhere etc. We said o...

Lol I know how sad that sounds. I’ve been on Hinge and lately actually been putting effort in. Swiping right as much as I can and actually messaging first. In my mid-twenties it was so much easier, a lot of dudes messaged me. It feels like since I turned 30 it’s a lot harder. Dunno if this is in my head. I’ve been out of the dating scene for several years now (got diagnosed with a life long disease was a big part of that) and I have no idea what I’m doing trying to get back into it. Any general advice?? Are there other apps I should be using?? Anyone have anything “bad” on their profile they didn’t realize was turning people off? Lol help me xD 31F, 170lbs, 5’6”. I would say I’m pretty average in terms of looks - my face is cute. Submitted November 23, 2022 at 12:09AM Lol I know how sad that sounds. I’ve been on Hinge and lately actually been putting effort in. Swiping right as much as I can and actually messaging first.In my mid-twenties it was so much easier, a lot of dud...

FWIW, Hagrid says 'yer' not 'ya'. I mean you can imagine Hagrid saying it if you like, just know that that's not how he sounds at all XD November 22, 2022 at 11:24PM

Yeah I would id as queer too. Its just q bit easier to explain, also being panromantic, id like to include that sort of non-straight explanation at least November 22, 2022 at 11:23PM