I didn't realize I was asexual until I was much older, even though looking back I would have realized instantly early on if I had ever been aware of the concept. For me personally learning the difference between aesthetic and sexual attraction really helped, as did the metaphor of 'being able to enjoy food but never feeling hungry'. When I was in health class there was absolutely no mention of almost anything LGBTQ+, and that's coming from a blue state, so honestly the fact that you're mentioning that we exist at all is a huge step up :' D I think in general just introducing the concept of 'gender and sexuality aren't neat perfect little boxes you tick, but are a sliding scale of different ways to identify' is a great place to start teaching the idea that you don't have to fit every single requirement perfectly when figuring out who you are, everyone is going to have their own personal experiences and that doesn't mean you're broken. In...

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Thanks for sharing your journey :) September 07, 2021 at 12:49AM

Me (F23) met this dude a week ago and last weekend we had sex,he lasted pretty long time wich was awesome for me,finally someone who met my standard lol, yesterday I invited him to my place and we did it again,but this time I was sitting in front of him while he was naked hard af telling me to sit on it, I was admiring that beautiful cock and I looked down for a second,he had pretty big balls,3 pretty big balls! I didn’t want to stare at it or ask him anything about it because I didn’t wanna make him uncomfortable and I didn’t mind it anyways. Actually I tough it was pretty cool .. I didn’t know this could even exist ! Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:24AM Me (F23) met this dude a week ago and last weekend we had sex,he lasted pretty long time wich was awesome for me,finally someone who met my standard lol, yesterday I invited him to my place and we did it again,but this time I was sitting in front of him while he was naked hard af telling me to sit on it, I was admiring that ...

My partner and I have been together for about a year now and the sex is still good but we want to try something new,any ideas? Thank you Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:29AM My partner and I have been together for about a year now and the sex is still good but we want to try something new,any ideas? Thank you

So I have sex for the first time 11 days ago. The day after my vagina began to sting and ache. There was also thick yellow discharge all over that area. I was really concerned I had “caught something” from my boyfriend (but that would be impossible because he was also a virgin.) Anyway, the pain continued for 3 more days and on the third day decided to go to the hospital where I was told I had tears of on both my labia minors and my hymen. However I was in so much pain she couldn’t examine inside my actual vagina. (I only feel pain on the outside anyway) and she prescribed me 3 different antibiotics, some local anaesthetic and sent me home. It’s been 4 days since then and 1 of the labia minors feel better but still looks really red where the tear is. The other is painful beyond belief. My discharge has turned white/cloudy and smells normal but there still a lot more than I’m used to being produced. I still find it hard to walk, I can’t sit down and I can only sleep on my side and we a...

After going decades with none, I now have a few different kinds of orgasms. Yay! In one of them, I apparently squirt. New to me. But they don't feel all that amazing, oddly enough. They just feel like a mellow release, kinda? My man loves it but I'm indifferent. Its also more like a heavy gush than a squirt. Does that make a difference? Is there anything I can do to make squirting orgasms feel more pleasurable. To make them worth the mess? Edit: I know about the blankets and pads. I'm just hoping to make them feel more intense. Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:42AM After going decades with none, I now have a few different kinds of orgasms. Yay!In one of them, I apparently squirt. New to me. But they don't feel all that amazing, oddly enough. They just feel like a mellow release, kinda? My man loves it but I'm indifferent.Its also more like a heavy gush than a squirt. Does that make a difference?Is there anything I can do to make squirting orgasms feel m...

I'm fairly new and I'm not entirely sure I'm doing it right I kinda just lick and touch it and it worked so far but I want to see semi competent at it so I'll take pointers Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:45AM I'm fairly new and I'm not entirely sure I'm doing it right I kinda just lick and touch it and it worked so far but I want to see semi competent at it so I'll take pointers

I'm currently in my first relationship and we have been dating for about 3 months now. Its defenetly been the best 3 months of my life, and unfortunately I have had thoughts of breaking it off. I just dont know if it's just that I'm paranoid about something, or if I dont like them. We have a lot of problems, the sex isnt great, shes very beautiful, but sometimes I think she looks ugly(I'm not trying to be mean or offensive, but is that normal to sometimes think that of your partner?) We are not great and making conversation, but its always a very comfortable silence if we are not talking. We joke and have fun, but most importantly I'm always happy when I'm with her, but is that enough? I dont know if these are normal problems and I'm just being picky, or if these are reasons to break it off. Any thoughts on what to do? Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:00AM I'm currently in my first relationship and we have been dating for about 3 months now. Its...

Hi, I am autistic and young adult female. I have trouble when it comes to men. Men are the complete opposite of women. I am autistic and it is even harder especially since it is hard for me to read body language, facial expressions, and etc. I am a very honest person and blunt. People have told me I am very sweet and not malicious. I am extremely short as well like 4'7 tall height. I like to dress in clothing styles I am into. Saddly people judge you easily. I like pastel colors and pink. I like girly things as well. I wear natural makeup like powder and eyeliner with mascara and lipgloss. I can wear eyeshadow because my eyes burn and my skin is very sensitive. It has been said this is very common with autistic females since we have sensitivies. My family never had problems finding dates. But the men in my family have always been picky when it comes to women. They like them sexy, smart, strong, mature, motherly, very smart, and etc. Which is something I always struggled with es...

Like grab your boobs really rough, smack your ass really hard, pull your hair, kiss forcibly, etc. Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:10AM Like grab your boobs really rough, smack your ass really hard, pull your hair, kiss forcibly, etc.

what to when the girl you like’s best friend likes you so the girl you like can’t really talk to you because her best friend would get mad Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:10AM what to when the girl you like’s best friend likes you so the girl you like can’t really talk to you because her best friend would get mad

I recently started dating a girl I’ve been liking for a while, but I have noticed something: I have no clue what the hell I’m doing. I’m kinda young but I do think I’m old enough to be in a (reasonably) mature relationship, the only problem is that I am stupid and did not think before saying “yes”. Please help Submitted September 07, 2021 at 12:13AM I recently started dating a girl I’ve been liking for a while, but I have noticed something: I have no clue what the hell I’m doing. I’m kinda young but I do think I’m old enough to be in a (reasonably) mature relationship, the only problem is that I am stupid and did not think before saying “yes”. Please help

No, I knew beforehand, I just didn't know what asexuality was and thought I could make myself like sex by having it. I now know it doesn't work like that September 06, 2021 at 11:45PM

Not currently in a relationship but I do have a bit of mutual interest going on with someone and I'm incredibly scared to put myself out there in this regard. Everyone I'm out to has been incredibly supportive but I've basically lived the last 12 years of my life aromantic and I'm just now changing a bit and find myself in a different situation. I just have a hard time believing someone would choose to live their life with me when they could choose someone else. For all I know this person could be ace as well and we are just sort of dancing around things a bit but I do get down on myself even though my self confidence and self love are at an all time high right now. September 06, 2021 at 11:45PM

Yeah, I share that weakness too. September 06, 2021 at 11:44PM

Can confirm for myself that I didn't learn anything new after having sex. I didn't suddenly start having urges to have sex with random people. None of my thoughts or feelings on sex changed. If you want more details, at first I thought I wasn't asexual because my curiosity of sex made me pursue it more with my boyfriend. When the curiosity faded though, I stopped having any desire to do that stuff anymore with anyone. I've learnt all I wanted to learn. I've heard this story with a couple of people. Either it immediately confirms you're ace, or it eventually confirms you're ace. September 06, 2021 at 11:43PM

I've heard that for the alignment test, "good" means that you do things for the well-being of other others, "evil" means that you do things for your own well-being, and "neutral" means that you decide on a case-by-case basis. None of the alignments mean you actively want to cause harm to others. September 06, 2021 at 11:42PM