*shes April 29, 2022 at 01:12AM

Just started talking to this guy and he is great to talk to. He is attentive, returns my questions with questions and I really appreciate that. He is attractive to me, though I haven't explicitly told him that - I think if we match on a dating app, mutual attraction is kind of given. What I am slightly weirded out by is the fact that he keeps calling me sexy, you are a babe etc and I am generally very uncomfortable being called babe, baby.... Idk I find it very cringy. It's also compounded by the fact that we haven't met yet (we have a date set for next weekend). Am I a weirdo for finding it odd and how do I deal with compliments like that? I was thinking I'd keep him on read when he throws me such compliments and/or divert to another topic. Would that be considered rude? To clarify, I'd like to keep talking to him and at least go on a date because I do like him so far. Just need advice on how to deal with it Submitted April 29, 2022 at 01:12AM Just started t...

During quarantine, I (20m) would text/snap this one girl (20f). We agreed to meet when quarantine was over/when school reopened. She would send (unsolicited) risque pictures to me often and on some days sent 30+ snaps to me. We had many long conversations together late into the night. She even would often ask me about my mental health and told me things like "I'm always here if you need someone." However, when school reopened a year after we started talking to each other, she passive-aggressively turned me down when I asked to meet up. She say things like "yes definitely," but then "I need to check my schedule," but then still talk to me a ton. I asked one last time, and she responded "why?" and then said yes, then said maybe later, then ghosted me all together without explaining anything. This whole time I was polite, didn't push, and made clear that if she didn't want to meet that it was okay. I've talked to many people since ...

i'll be honest, the teenage years where i thought i was allo and constantly looking for a relationship were absolutely miserable. all the energy going into that was draining straight out of my mental health. edit: is that what dysphoria feels like? April 28, 2022 at 11:51PM

Just reiterating this is 100% consensual! Also not saying hypnosis does or does not exist just that she’s into you acting like you are! Submitted April 29, 2022 at 12:13AM Just reiterating this is 100% consensual! Also not saying hypnosis does or does not exist just that she’s into you acting like you are!

I met a guy on Tinder in October 2021. We chatted here and there before finally meeting up IRL in February 2022. When we first started talking he said we are nothing more than FWB (focusing on my pleasure)...but he started showing interest in my life and telling me personal details about himself. Each time we see each other things get more and more intense. Our most recent meet-up he kissed me for the first time (twice!). It completely took me by surprise since he refused to kiss me the previous times, but I kissed him back. Since the kiss he has been awkward with me. How should I feel about this? I don't want to catch feelings if he doesn't actually have an interest in me. Sadly I think I'm starting to let my guard down. Submitted April 29, 2022 at 12:15AM I met a guy on Tinder in October 2021. We chatted here and there before finally meeting up IRL in February 2022. When we first started talking he said we are nothing more than FWB (focusing on my pleasure)...but h...