That takes all the asexuali-tea. May 06, 2021 at 12:03AM

I always feel like that. No worries I feel the same. It just kills me when my friends spark up a conversation about sex. 100% when the conversation is about relationships. I really wouldnt care and wouldnt be that sensitive about it, but I'm in a relationship with a allosexual for some time now. Half a year. Im strict when it comes to that stuff. It just seems like everyone should/in the end its going to happen sometime/how...but...I dont want it to. I feel like vomiting when people go in detail about it. I feel sick when its talked about like...I'm not normal. The other day in my Principal of health class we were disscussing "needs". One need that was brought up (that was at the bottom along with WATER, FOOD, AND SHELTER) was "sex". Like...Are you fucking kidding me? SEX IS A NEED LIKE FUCKING WATER? Utter bullshit. That degraded me to my core. I understand where you are coming from. May 06, 2021 at 12:02AM

Wow. This is what a lack of representation does... May 06, 2021 at 12:02AM

And you rock it... do let anyone still your vibe. May 05, 2021 at 11:58PM

YEEEEEAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH May 05, 2021 at 11:58PM

Yea! We can be matching that would be so coool! I need to find it I’ll reply soon May 05, 2021 at 11:57PM

I'm sorry that you're going through this. It sounds really difficult. FWIW, you have the support of this internet rando. May 05, 2021 at 11:56PM

If you don't wear rings often and want something minimal there are pretty thin black silicone rings you can get on Amazon. They are pretty cheap too. May 05, 2021 at 11:50PM

Would you, oh great and mighty dragon, possibly consider a trade? Some of your golden potatoes for some of my chocolate cookies? A hoard sharing if you will. May 05, 2021 at 11:48PM

it could mean that, but attraction is not a simple on/off switch. there are lots of things that could go into it. i wouldn't read too much into a one time thing. May 05, 2021 at 11:47PM

Thanks, now I'm hungry :') they look soooo gooood May 05, 2021 at 11:46PM

I think “Trying” by Bully helps me. It’s def not straight forward about asexuality but can be interpreted personally May 05, 2021 at 11:44PM

Cool May 05, 2021 at 11:43PM

Right now I'm going with something-romantic aegosexual. Still working out the kinks. May 05, 2021 at 11:42PM

For longer than I've identified as greyace, I've had the same issue with drugs. I never was interested in drugs and never tried them. I have nothing against people who use them recreationally and responsibly (I'd even support a certain level of legalization), but I've always felt they are just not for me. My whole life people have been telling me I've been missing out and that I can't know until I've tried them, but turns out I can and I just know it's not something I like or want and I don't feel like I'm missing out. I've learned that just because people say something is essential for your life experience doesn't mean you have to agree with that. But then personally I'm rebellious when people tell me I simply "have to do something", like "you have to watch The Wire" because "it's the best thing ever". 😀 May 05, 2021 at 11:41PM

Ok this is gonna be weird but, i really cant find it, is it possible for you to send me a link or something? May 05, 2021 at 11:39PM

Yes I did experience this. But it didn't really affect my identity. Now I'm just horny and ace. It gave me a higher sex drive but it didn't make me sexually attracted to people. Sometimes when people transition their sexuality does change but usually this is because they become more comfortable with themselves and their body. While hormones might have a role in this it doesn't often change your sexuality on its own. May 05, 2021 at 11:37PM

Ffs I'm glad I don't have tiktok. I can't stand those attention seekers who clearly say that stuff to trigger us. Of course not wanting to date an ace is not discrimination, it's simple preference.... for some people sex is an important part of their relationships and can't easily renounce to it. Not gonna lie, it is painful to be turned down only because of that. But I can't expect people to give up something they love just for me. May 05, 2021 at 11:36PM

Depends on the person but in most cases I'd say those suggestions are fine. "I like you" is great. Also: "i want to get to know you better" "I really enjoy spending time with you" Basically, for ace people you say it more than you show it, as you would with most allo people, using physical flirting. May 05, 2021 at 11:33PM

Aww cute. May 05, 2021 at 11:30PM

I knew I was weird, but I thought I didn’t care about sex because of my age. May 05, 2021 at 11:30PM

that's 100% right lmao, for me May 05, 2021 at 11:29PM

Ooh shiny May 05, 2021 at 11:29PM