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So I need advice ASAP

A brief history, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, living together for 2. Since moving in I feel like we have taken a nose dive! Just about every section in relationship is suffering and I've offered to fix things, change things, end things, you name it... Bottom line he thinks we can continue work on us and that every thing will work itself out.... With that being sad, he turns 50 this wknd and will be having a big party 1 state over, where he moved from. I've gone back and forth way too many times on if I should go or not. I know most of you are gonna think I'm an awful girlfriend to but go but just last night we broke up, we're back together today but this is us! I don't want to be around his family and friends and have to pretend we're happy and celebrate him. He plans on going early in the day which means I'm gonna have to go later and show up alone, I already feel like he's gonna act like I'm not even there because when he...

How will I know when she likes me back?

Asked out a girl I work with and she said yes. We text on a daily basis and she knows I like her a lot. We click really well and she laughs at my jokes. When I asked her if she likes me back she said she wants to get to know me better. What does it take to know each other well enough? How will I know she likes me? Also.. I really want to hold her hand but I am not sure if that's okay to do yet. Submitted April 22, 2022 at 01:13AM Asked out a girl I work with and she said yes. We text on a daily basis and she knows I like her a lot. We click really well and she laughs at my jokes.When I asked her if she likes me back she said she wants to get to know me better.What does it take to know each other well enough? How will I know she likes me?Also.. I really want to hold her hand but I am not sure if that's okay to do yet.

/u/Shadowspun5 on ITS THE SAME SOURCE OF ASSHOLNES. They can't handle the idea someone is ~not breeding~, for them, breeding reflexes are same as "love". You are betraying your specie by not breeding. That's why they are pissed. Fucking animals.

This is an old canard of theirs. And we still bring up the same thing you said. Do marriages that can't reproduce count? What about women who have gone through menopause? Do they lose all of their rights? No one ever had a good answer. April 22, 2022 at 12:43AM

/u/whatamisuposedtodo on I actually think I could have had a partner if I wasn't asexual. 😐 It's like everything else about me is probably ok, apart from being ace.😐

Yeah, that's fair. I don't know any ace person irl (at least no one open about it), I have only talked to aces online in websites where the population is mostly american. Just curious, where are you from? April 22, 2022 at 12:42AM

/u/Shadowspun5 on ITS THE SAME SOURCE OF ASSHOLNES. They can't handle the idea someone is ~not breeding~, for them, breeding reflexes are same as "love". You are betraying your specie by not breeding. That's why they are pissed. Fucking animals.

A nicely organized and Dewey Decimaled (or LC for those into that) personal library would definitely be a turn-on for me. I'd at least stare lovingly at it for hours. April 22, 2022 at 12:40AM

Next week, I’ll be able to talk to a girl.

I just got her number before break and we’re talking a decent amount. I was wondering how to talk to her in real life when we see again because we have gotten closer over text. Submitted April 22, 2022 at 12:11AM I just got her number before break and we’re talking a decent amount. I was wondering how to talk to her in real life when we see again because we have gotten closer over text.

I (27F) am seeing this guy (32M) that I met on a dating app 3 times this week. Is it moving too fast? I am very inexperienced in dating. I don't want to make mistakes at the start of a relationship.

I was out of a LDR/LTR of 5 years a month ago. It was a mutual break up. And since then I have been working on better myself, mentally, physically, emotionally, explore new hobbies. I am also taking time off work, so I have lots time on my hand to have fun and self improve. Anyway, after the break up, I was on a dating app looking to meet new people/fun dates/fwb, but nothing serious. It's my first time using dating app, and I had a few meh dates and some fwbs. Nothing really worth mentioning. I have been very careful about separating sex and emotional attachments. Getting back on topic, last week I matched with this really cute guy, my type 100% (I know it's superficial, but he is really beautiful for fwb.) While we exchanged texts, he was respective, honest, straightforward and attentive. We went on first date this Monday for a drink. He is even more beautiful in person, and a total gentleman, funny, caring and understanding. We have similarities, and it was an instant co...