You should really have the exam. I imagine she does care, but your health is the top priority. Maybe talking it out with her or someone else you trust would help? December 19, 2019 at 12:19AM

I never had one actually tell me that, but it was implied and in my head even before I knew I was ace. I even hated the idea of getting married because a honeymoon sounded like such a chore. You're meant to have constant sex on those or the whole marriage is doomed, right? So glad for this community and the mindset that that's all bulldust. December 19, 2019 at 12:18AM

I headcanon Ruby Rose from RWBY as being ace and the majority of the time she's shipped with another female character, but I have seen others who think she's ace too December 19, 2019 at 12:13AM

I agree that they point out that fallacy in society but not that they made it themselves if that's what you meant. The author uses modus tollens which is a valid argument because they are negating the fallacy you mentioned December 19, 2019 at 12:12AM

Me but replace the ice cream with a magnum sized bottle of wine December 19, 2019 at 12:11AM

That sounds cannibalistic >_> December 19, 2019 at 12:11AM

if... what? December 19, 2019 at 12:11AM

Call me a pessimist, but I'd rather go off of more than just the ring, tbh December 19, 2019 at 12:10AM

I call it skin hungry. December 19, 2019 at 12:10AM

I don't know if December 19, 2019 at 12:09AM

well then you could be grey asexual or something on this lines December 19, 2019 at 12:08AM

Like I am interested in finding a guy or girl to fuck December 19, 2019 at 12:04AM

by "very sexual" what do you mean? are you talking about your libido or you're saying that you find a lot of people sexually attractive? because ace people can have an high libido while still being asexual December 19, 2019 at 12:01AM

Thanks for elaborating! I'm glad it is helpful for you; I just personally find it alienating and insulting, given how my asexuality and aromanticism act as gulfs that isolate me. These are not the "gifts" that keep on giving, and as a multi-repulsed aro ace who has no real relationship prospects and worries about my future because of it, calling it a blessing feels insulting, and it leaves me thinking, "Wow, they really have no idea, do they?" December 18, 2019 at 11:59PM

So I match with guy on Tinder and I gave him my number after two days of chatting. Less than 24 hours later he asked for my Snapchat and I’m like okay sure. But now he just sends me snaps, and we do text a little but he hasn’t asked me to hang out. So is this like the new norm 😂 Honestly it’s like I’m in my 30s now and I feel like this is kind of a waste of time. But was curious to see if this was how a lot of people communicate now. He is also in his 30s. Submitted December 19, 2019 at 12:02AM So I match with guy on Tinder and I gave him my number after two days of chatting. Less than 24 hours later he asked for my Snapchat and I’m like okay sure. But now he just sends me snaps, and we do text a little but he hasn’t asked me to hang out.So is this like the new norm 😂Honestly it’s like I’m in my 30s now and I feel like this is kind of a waste of time. But was curious to see if this was how a lot of people communicate now.He is also in his 30s.

I have a boyfriend, I’m 200% straight, but I can only get off to girls. I can orgasm from sex and when he fingers me, but when I’m on my own it has to be to girls. What’s wrong with me? Submitted December 18, 2019 at 11:49PM I have a boyfriend, I’m 200% straight, but I can only get off to girls. I can orgasm from sex and when he fingers me, but when I’m on my own it has to be to girls. What’s wrong with me?

I 18M and my girlfriend 18F have only been dating for a short amount of time. We are both pretty new to sex. In short my questions is how many times should I aim to make her climax each time we have sex. What is the normal number Submitted December 18, 2019 at 11:56PM I 18M and my girlfriend 18F have only been dating for a short amount of time. We are both pretty new to sex. In short my questions is how many times should I aim to make her climax each time we have sex. What is the normal number

I’m not sure if this is the right sub for this, but I really don’t know where else to go for advice. I (F) masturbate regularly and I’ve recently been incorporating fingering into that. I’ve only been using one finger as it hurts quite a bit to use two, but even with just one finger it’s still mildly painful and uncomfortable. I don’t understand how this is enjoyable, but maybe I’m just doing it wrong? Does anyone have any similar stores or advice on how to make fingering more pleasurable? P.S. I am a virgin, if that matters. Submitted December 19, 2019 at 12:00AM I’m not sure if this is the right sub for this, but I really don’t know where else to go for advice.I (F) masturbate regularly and I’ve recently been incorporating fingering into that. I’ve only been using one finger as it hurts quite a bit to use two, but even with just one finger it’s still mildly painful and uncomfortable. I don’t understand how this is enjoyable, but maybe I’m just doing it wrong?Does anyone have...

So I am currently in a game of truth or dare with a friend of mine, I need help on how to seamlessly change the convo to the point where "what's your kink" isn't an odd truth to give Id like a response asap if possible as I currently in the game (if it's the next day or whatever you can still respond, I play this with her a lot) Submitted December 19, 2019 at 12:00AM So I am currently in a game of truth or dare with a friend of mine, I need help on how to seamlessly change the convo to the point where "what's your kink" isn't an odd truth to giveId like a response asap if possible as I currently in the game (if it's the next day or whatever you can still respond, I play this with her a lot)

I’ve pretty much entirely lost any desire for sex (M21) and this has linked with ED any tips/quick fixes to help combat this, aside from viagra? I’m hoping a good experience will reignite me Submitted December 19, 2019 at 12:03AM I’ve pretty much entirely lost any desire for sex (M21) and this has linked with ED any tips/quick fixes to help combat this, aside from viagra? I’m hoping a good experience will reignite me

I can't understand why some men judge or look down on women's sexual past. Men should be grateful if their gf/wife went through a "slutty" phase for so many reasons. It means their gf/wife is sexually confident and enjoyed herself in the past. The fact that the woman you love has experienced intense pleasure with different types of lovers means she knows her body and what she likes and what she doesn't like. It's also awesome that she's had a great past full of uninhibited fun and pleasure. She's likely more experienced than you and/or has had more sexual partners than you, as is the case with my gf even though she's younger than me, and is likely to be awesome in bed and know tricks that will blow your mind. Be grateful those other guys got the awkward sex while she was still learning who she was and becoming a confident woman. It's badass that she doesn't care what society thinks and does what she wants with her body. No matter how c...

/r/sexover30/comments/eckf0c/cleaned_out_our_sex_toy_storage_and_couldnt_help/ Submitted December 19, 2019 at 12:08AM /r/sexover30/comments/eckf0c/cleaned_out_our_sex_toy_storage_and_couldnt_help/

For the women who enjoy receiving oral sex, what is your ideal amount of time for your partner to spend on it during foreplay before moving on? Do you want it to continue until you orgasm once? More than once? Are you bored after 10 or 15 minutes no matter how good it feels? For me, a BJ longer than 5 minutes or so starts to put me on a path to where I want to cum from it rather than sex. So I tend to favor only a few minutes before moving on. Submitted December 19, 2019 at 12:09AM For the women who enjoy receiving oral sex, what is your ideal amount of time for your partner to spend on it during foreplay before moving on? Do you want it to continue until you orgasm once? More than once? Are you bored after 10 or 15 minutes no matter how good it feels?For me, a BJ longer than 5 minutes or so starts to put me on a path to where I want to cum from it rather than sex. So I tend to favor only a few minutes before moving on.