So i hung out with this dude off tinder like twice, went on a real date then he just came over and hung for a few hours the day after, then suddenly stopped even opening my snaps, we were supposed to go out together today but he stood me up right? but the thing is the ghosting doesn't make sense he was blatantly really into me, one of the last things he said to me before was making a joke about trying to actually be like a relationship, even my roommate said he seemed super into me it's not about sex because we didn't have sex and even the first time we hung out i tried but he clearly didn't want to go right away like i said i was left on delivered for around half a week before today, i could see he was online, his tinder is still updating and he didn't remove me on anything (though i just unfriended him on snap bc bad for my fuckin mental health), you think he's playing me or self sabotaging? because honestly at this point i don't think it's somethi...

I don't have any of the allo stuff for real people. People talk about sex and wanting that sort of stuff and it never comes to mind for me. It's always aesthetic attraction. I have never fantasized about sexual activity. But I do think of holding hands, hugging/cuddling with a future partner, kiss on the temple forehead, a peck on the lips, dating. Just a bunch of dating stuff. This is the one thing I'm sure of. ✌🏽 March 04, 2023 at 12:21AM

(This is gonna be long so sorry in advance) Both me (18M) and my crush (19F) play on an intramural volleyball team at our college together. Originally I thought she had a bf, and I had a gf at the time, so even though I thought she was pretty, I never showed her any signs of interest, but as the weeks went on I kinda had a feeling she might be into me. She would make a decent amount of eye contact and every time I spiked the ball really well she’d be the first to come over and high five me. Fast forward a few weeks later, me and my gf at the time broke up so I did what any guy would do and redownloaded tinder. A few days later on a Friday me and her matched. I was completely not expecting that although I did kind of sense she was interested. So we texted back and forth a little bit for the following few days. I was like hey maybe you could show me around to some volleyball places in the area, I’m not too familiar with them. And she happily agreed, although that would have to wait unt...

Long story short, I (22M) am about to graduate college, but occasionally I keep thinking of this girl who really liked me in high school (for quite a while). I liked her too, but never expressed my feelings because I was shy, insecure and clueless. I didn't talk much, avoided eye contact, and when I did talk, it was awkward and at one point I said something really rude to her, which I never apologized for. I feel bad for ignoring her despite her obvious attempts to connect with me, and while I never said "no", I regret not talking more to a person who put in a lot of effort to talk to me. I've had a lot of trouble with social skills since a little child, and growing up I wasn't very confident -- I got made fun of regularly, I had really strict parents, and I never learned how to fit in. We are in different universities, and I don't use social media. Funny thing is, she recommended that I should start a social media account because "my account would be ...

So to know for me, is it any black ring? And it doesn’t have to be all black? Because this one is a lot prettier than the simple black ones I’ve seen, more my style but don’t know if….? Thanks! March 03, 2023 at 11:34PM

Only cream I want 🫦 (I’m assuming that’s whipped cream at least, if not then I have embarrassed myself thoroughly) March 03, 2023 at 11:34PM