Came out to my sister. A couple of years later, she informed me that she also felt comfortable identifying herself as asexual. Made a friend about 10 years ago, before I even considered identifying myself as ace. 3 years into the friendship, I start stressing about my asexuality, and they’re cool with it. Then about 2 years ago, this same friend - my now absolutely best friend of at that time 8 years - informed me that they also believe they are asexual. I’m mind-blown, but it makes perfect sense for them. I’ve never pushed anyone or projected my experience onto them or anyone else. I’ve answered questions and explained my journey to them, and they figured it out themselves. So now I have an ace best friend and an ace sister. 🤷‍♀️ February 03, 2022 at 12:40AM

Horny = I want sex Sexual attraction = sexual desire for a specific person Some asexuals do get horny. However these asexuals dont have a desire for a specific individual. More of a desire for the act of having sex, itself. February 03, 2022 at 12:39AM

Best kind of Slytherin 💚 February 03, 2022 at 12:39AM

I’ve been seeing this guy for a month-ish now and I’m really keen on him, I love spending time with him and being with him but I just hate kissing him. It’s not even him specifically, I just don’t enjoy making out with someone unless I’m drunk, which isn’t a good way to be but I can’t really help it. Every time he gives me that look I just dread it, any advice on how to find other ways to be affectionate and show him I’m into him without kissing him? Submitted February 03, 2022 at 12:14AM I’ve been seeing this guy for a month-ish now and I’m really keen on him, I love spending time with him and being with him but I just hate kissing him. It’s not even him specifically, I just don’t enjoy making out with someone unless I’m drunk, which isn’t a good way to be but I can’t really help it. Every time he gives me that look I just dread it, any advice on how to find other ways to be affectionate and show him I’m into him without kissing him?

I havent let him know I know yet. I saw the messages in his phone. We live together and he's acting like nothing is going on. Flirting with me and being cute. Im not even sure how to bring it up. We've been having issues for a while but this is truly the straw to break the camels back. I dont think he'll be violent. But does anyone have experience with this? It's my apartment and we've only been living together for 3 months now. I feel so dumb i should have seen this coming. Submitted February 03, 2022 at 12:15AM I havent let him know I know yet. I saw the messages in his phone. We live together and he's acting like nothing is going on. Flirting with me and being cute. Im not even sure how to bring it up. We've been having issues for a while but this is truly the straw to break the camels back. I dont think he'll be violent. But does anyone have experience with this? It's my apartment and we've only been living together for 3 months now. I...

I dated a guy my junior year of high school up until my sophomore year of college. When I think back on it he was nice he was thoughtful. He would take me to school in the morning, he would take me home after. I played basketball so he would come to my games. If I needed a ride somewhere he would take me. He would buy me food he would buy me other things sometimes just because (I did the same lol). If something made me upset he would try to make me feel better if we argued sometimes it wasn’t even really an argument because he would be the bigger person and apologize. He loved me out loud. In high school even though we were in a relationship he still asked me to go to prom with him in front of the school after one of my basketball games. We kinda seemed perfect the only thing was he cheated on me, about 3 times well I only know about 3 times. Each time he begged me to come back and I did. I felt betrayed it was my first heartbreak and it was something that made me question my value li...

Hello everyone, Just a quick question here. My neighbor left me (a guy) a note on my truck thanking me for being such a good neighbor and always being friendly to her. I really have only said hello or chatted with her and helped her once. She left her number on the note as well. She seems very nice and is pretty. I texted her telling her thank you and such and she responded back. She said she was glad I didn't find it weird that I left her a note and was glad I texted her. She also said she felt it was the only way she could get in touch with me as well. How should I pursue this or respond? I don't want to be a creep of course but I would like to allude at maybe asking her to coffee or a low key date. I'm not into hookups or anything so that's not my intention FYI. Many thanks...... Submitted February 02, 2022 at 06:07PM Hello everyone, Just a quick question here. My neighbor left me (a guy) a note on my truck thanking me for being such a good neighbor and alway...

23M I lack confidence when it comes to hitting up some woman I find interesting. On the other hand introducing myself in a new enviroment is a piece of cake. Just when I see it as an opportunity to meet an amazing woman for life I struggle. Doesn't help that they don't usually get that attracted to me. I so don't want to find a girl that would just want to use me for sex. I think I'm a demisexual if I fit the definition. I don't want to have sex before developing strong feelings and a connection. Only that way I might trust that she is serious with my. Plus it would be better if an accident occurs and I get her pregnant. If we are in love, dealing with the situation might be easier Submitted February 02, 2022 at 07:18PM 23M I lack confidence when it comes to hitting up some woman I find interesting. On the other hand introducing myself in a new enviroment is a piece of cake. Just when I see it as an opportunity to meet an amazing woman for life I struggle.D...