I already found dating hard having masks on most of the time, but I cannot imagine how to date when (soon) it will be super cold and snowy. Right now I and my dates just walk outside with a coffee and talk. What do we do when it gets cold? And the second wave is coming so it will only get more strict... Any ideas? I live in Boston. Submitted October 16, 2020 at 11:47PM I already found dating hard having masks on most of the time, but I cannot imagine how to date when (soon) it will be super cold and snowy. Right now I and my dates just walk outside with a coffee and talk. What do we do when it gets cold? And the second wave is coming so it will only get more strict... Any ideas? I live in Boston.

I (19m) matched with this girl (19f) on tinder a couple days ago and we hung out for the first time on Wednesday night. She came to my place and we drank and had a really fun time (I thought at least). At the end of the night she was way too drunk, way more than me and I helped her get up to bed. At this point she seemed to have a bit of anxiety and was a bit scared being in a new place so she asked me to lay in bed with her. Nothing happened and in the morning she left around 8. I asked her to hang again later that day (Thursday) and she said “ok”. when she came over that night, she asked if I would wanna just drive around instead of her coming inside. We drove around for around 2 hours before she dropped me off and went home. We talked the whole time and I feel like we have a lot in common. All was still well I thought. However, Today, I have been texting her on snap and she will always leave me on delivered for multiple hours between every message, even though I could see on snap m...

M25 here. I had my first serious relationship about 2 years ago for about half a year. She ended it after that explaining to me that her feelings for me vanished and that she does not feel comfortable around me anymore. I accepted that of course, secretly hoping that she would come back to me eventually but she never did and never will I think. I have always had a hard time dealing with being dumped in any kind of way and always needed longer periods of time to get over it than I should have. This time though really hit hard when I couldn't keep channelling my grief with working out because of an injury, following with having a really sad and depressive couple of months, sometimes even thinking about suicide. I don't know if that's normal or not, given that it was my first real and official relationship ever. Today I could say that I'm over her personally, but at the same time not over having a relationship. Being with a significant other or someone who is interested ...

Little more detail - i'm (25m) (25f) going on a third date with this girl. On our second date I kissed her at the end of the date. Do you think she would expect me to kiss her now when I initially see her on our third date now? Submitted October 16, 2020 at 11:59PM Little more detail - i'm (25m) (25f) going on a third date with this girl. On our second date I kissed her at the end of the date. Do you think she would expect me to kiss her now when I initially see her on our third date now?

Two weeks ago, the salesgirl in a shop near to my house asked me "What you do on Saturday?" I told her I don't know yet then she took my phone number. She wrote to me and introduce herself and ask me about my age I sent her "I'm 23" and she answered me "It's fine". We texted for the whole week. On our meeting day, She sent me "I should have written to you this at the beginning I have 30 years" I answered, "OK, We will see at the evening". I come to her and we went for a walk and went to a restaurant. We spent a great time and talked a lot. While a date she arranged a lot of touches, kissed me a few times. After a date, I drove her home, she started kissing me in the car and after said "I'll definitely take you on the next date". I have never dated a girl with so much initiative. She wants to take control because she is older? Does anybody have similar experiences? Should I let her take control? Sorry for ev...

All the time I get told go to clubs or go to random meet ups and you'll meet people. My bestie is pregnant and I'm definitely not going to a club alone. The meetups in my area are all filled with people way older then me. And online is horrible because they either wanna fuck that second or they are dry. I legit don't understand how to meet people, I want to actually date for once and it's like actually hell trying to even find someone to talk to. How do y'all like legit meet people? Submitted October 17, 2020 at 12:05AM All the time I get told go to clubs or go to random meet ups and you'll meet people. My bestie is pregnant and I'm definitely not going to a club alone. The meetups in my area are all filled with people way older then me. And online is horrible because they either wanna fuck that second or they are dry. I legit don't understand how to meet people, I want to actually date for once and it's like actually hell trying to even find ...

I [M21] went on a date with a female [F21] last week. I met her on tinder, she was the first person to ever reply to me on tinder and I ended up arranging a date for us to go to dinner. I looked for vouchers on groupon and found a Italian restaurant. It is very important for me to be socially distant so I didn't give her a hug when greeting her, she came in for one but I had to remind her that we need to be careful due to the pandemic. She is the first female I've ever been on a date with so I was very excited. I asked the waiter to take a picture of us but she didn't want to be in the photo (which I found extremely insulting), until the waiter convinced her to. When we were waiting for our meals, I took a picture of her to show my friends on discord. I dont think she liked it because the flash was on and she asked what I was doing and I told her I wanted to show my friends how beautiful she was but I found it rude that she didn't accept my compliment. There was ...

I went on a first date with a guy I met on bumble at a brewery. It was slightly awkward and didn't feel like a date. we were both shy and we paid separately and didn't break the touch barrier. I want to reach out to him for a second date but don't know what to suggest for what to do? We went on the first date a few weeks ago so it's also been awhile but I felt like we really clicked. I think we're just taking it slow! any ideas?! Submitted October 16, 2020 at 11:49PM I went on a first date with a guy I met on bumble at a brewery. It was slightly awkward and didn't feel like a date. we were both shy and we paid separately and didn't break the touch barrier. I want to reach out to him for a second date but don't know what to suggest for what to do? We went on the first date a few weeks ago so it's also been awhile but I felt like we really clicked. I think we're just taking it slow! any ideas?!

Ok that's good to know! Haha! Yes I love romance scenes! Like I love the gooey looks, and the teasing a and a nice kiss! But then....then it's just.....overboard from then on ' I've seen Twilight and most of the Host. I like how it's more buildup and lovey dovey rather then the nasty stuff XD I feel like I'm too old to watch that stuff now. Haha! October 17, 2020 at 12:02AM

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I have crap connection but this was well worth the loading wait October 16, 2020 at 11:59PM

I know right?! Like I understand that there's porn and then just regular PG tv, so why mix them together?? The scenes aren't full-blown action anyway, so it's not like anyone's enjoying it THAT much! (Lol) it's just.....awkward! And yeah the kissing was difficult to sit through a few minutes ago. It was like " SHLURP, SHLORP " haha! And yes I also love romance! LOVE IT! but knowing the mechanics of what happens is just....unnecessary? We know what happens. I prefer the glossier, more innocent and 'romanticized' romance! It gives me hope that it actually exists and isnt just about the gross stuff XD (Btw I love Andy Samburg in Brooklyn 99!) October 16, 2020 at 11:58PM

Haha I can imagine that! Like seeing people misbehaving and going "tsk tsk...." October 16, 2020 at 11:51PM

Heyo I'm one of those too! October 16, 2020 at 11:45PM

Florence from Sex Education, season 2 episode 4 (most characters in that show are more side characters who will seek out advice) October 16, 2020 at 11:39PM

Thx. October 16, 2020 at 11:29PM

Look i know peoples often find like “oh i identify as an attack helicopter” but i have an idea I need a person- ok they need to have a kid probably young with them They say “I identify as an aircraft carrier” and then they say “here is my aircraft” and they pick up the child. I think it’d be adorable October 16, 2020 at 11:26PM

The mods should've gone to the comment section and handed out bans like free candy (at least 14day bans) October 16, 2020 at 11:22PM

The sprinkles make me so happy! October 16, 2020 at 11:20PM

I've been known to wave my finger at the screen, conductor-style, and say "Yeah yeah, yadda yadda yadda, move it along..." October 16, 2020 at 11:18PM

Yeah I don't like it either, it always makes me feel awkward and I don't get why people would want to see that? Especially the sex parts. I enjoy romance in TV shows and movies a lot if it's done in a tasteful way, because I always root for a lot of characters and if they find a significant other, I'm here for it. But as you said the loud kissing noises? Disgusting, why? Romance also works pretty well if we don't know every little detail as an observer. I'm thinking of Brooklyn 99 (rewatching it for the umpteenth time as we speak) and to be honest I think this show handles romance pretty well, I'm still involved in their relationships but I'm spared all the intimate scenes which is amazing! Wish more shows would handle it like they do. October 16, 2020 at 11:18PM

Yes!!!! Me too!!! For example, I love Host the book (like twilight) the story is amazing, with a few romance scenes. The movie was just so different with the actual romance scenes. You're not alone, many asexuals feel like that October 16, 2020 at 11:12PM

There's a whole arc where the most beautiful woman, whose powers basically are turning into stone people that found her attractive, tries to attack him, but he literally don't care she's beautiful and her powers won't work. Eventually she wants to marry him, but he refuses saying he doesn't want to marry anyone. October 16, 2020 at 11:11PM