Hi all, had a recent tinder hookup, and I guess I’m rethinking it over now and I don’t know what to make of it ? Pretty much I’m going to be as graphic as possible, we were switching back and forth between oral and doggy. When she goes down on me, it’s noticably toothy. I laughingly joked, hey, hey watch out. That hurts. She later says, it’s not my fault you have such a big dick. Honestly it took me by surprise. She then continued telling me that I’m huge and that when I’m inside of her I totally fill her up. She kept mentioning it thereafter, ie I said her hands were so small, she retorts that my dick is massive. Etc etc I know this all sounds like weird ass humble brag bullshit, but Idk I never really thought of myself as being that big. Is it common for women to lie or are they usually telling the truth? Submitted March 12, 2020 at 11:31PM Hi all, had a recent tinder hookup, and I guess I’m rethinking it over now and I don’t know what to make of it ?Pretty much I’m going to

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I went on a date with a guy the other day. It went really well and we agreed to a second date already. He’s never dated anyone before though, and he’s a virgin. I’m not a virgin, and sex doesn’t really have all that much meaning to me. Like, I don’t care about whether I’m dating someone or not before I’ll sleep with them. Basically what I’m getting at here is that I don’t know when to bring up sex or how to bring up the topic without overwhelming him or sounding eager about it. Submitted March 12, 2020 at 11:34PM I went on a date with a guy the other day. It went really well and we agreed to a second date already. He’s never dated anyone before though, and he’s a virgin. I’m not a virgin, and sex doesn’t really have all that much meaning to me. Like, I don’t care about whether I’m dating someone or not before I’ll sleep with them. Basically what I’m getting at here is that I don’t know when to bring up sex or how to bring up the topic without overwhelming him or sounding eager a

I love my boyfriend i'm not sure if want to spend my life with him but i'm happy with our relationship now. I enjoy our sex (he is 8 inches) but he acts so big and manly but when it actually comes to it he just loses all this dominance and it's actually quite bland. I try and make it more exciting by getting on top and talking dirty to him but he doesn't put any effort in. He knows i'm into choking and have even told him to spit in my mouth and slap me before but he only does it when we're just chilling but it's like he just forgets when we have sex. I keep asking him what his kinks are thinking maybe he's just into something different and he's like "idk i'm not picky". I mean 1 in every 5 times he'll put more effort in and it's actually quite good but thats rare. Also to add he's never managed to make me orgasm but i'm starting to think that's my problem even though i can on my own. Submitted March 12, 2020 at

I’m a 21yo male and I don’t know if I’m bothering my 20yo girlfriend. I feel like I could have sex everyday, but I’ve always been open to meeting in the middle with my girlfriend, who, doesn’t want to have sex as much as I do. We agreed on 2 or 3 times a week but we barely ever hit that number. This counts oral and all. I always get frustrated and beat my meat to cope lol. I’ve communicated this but now I’m starting to think the problem is with me. How often do you guys do it and what do I do? Submitted March 12, 2020 at 11:43PM I’m a 21yo male and I don’t know if I’m bothering my 20yo girlfriend. I feel like I could have sex everyday, but I’ve always been open to meeting in the middle with my girlfriend, who, doesn’t want to have sex as much as I do. We agreed on 2 or 3 times a week but we barely ever hit that number. This counts oral and all. I always get frustrated and beat my meat to cope lol. I’ve communicated this but now I’m starting to think the problem is with me. How o

Before you comment. Let’s avoid the obligatory “if you’re not happy with your sex break up”. Also I’m not forcing her to do anything. If she’s not enjoying it I won’t, that’s how I think. Im just wondering if I’m wrong to think this is selfish. I go down on her a lot, always until she cums. Sometimes that takes 30 minutes. But when I ask her to give me head she doesn’t want to reciprocate because she “gets nothing out of it.” Even when she does give me head she is either visibly annoyed that she “has” to do it, or does it really well and stops 2 minutes in because “I take too long to cum from blowjobs”. When I told her that it upsets me that she thinks this way because I go down her a lot she responds by saying “you like going down on me though.” Other than this our sex is pretty good. Although I end up doing all the work most of the time bc she gets tired of being on top quickly. I just find it annoying that she’s not against giving head, she just doesn’t do it because she gets not

Here with my friend, any natives or other kinksters looking to share some advice? Preferably somewhere that is free. Thanks Submitted March 12, 2020 at 11:52PM Here with my friend, any natives or other kinksters looking to share some advice? Preferably somewhere that is free. Thanks

Hey yall, so this isn't as bad as the title sounds. She can cum but so far only when she's on top, I'd just love to be able to get her there without her doing all the work. She can only orgasm through penetration, she says it feels amazing when her clit is played with but she's never been able to finish that way. And no one has been able to hit her g spot in any position apart from her on top and in control making sure it's being hit. She's not bothered by it and has accepted that's the way it is, and I'm not entirely worried either if there's nothing we can do either because the sex is amazing either way! But it would be awesome if there was some way for her to just lie back and her orgasm was under my control. I'm just wondering if there are any positions we could try or anything I could do to potentially help get her there? We tried the ol pillow under her hips and that didn't really help much unfortunately, she said it was just the sam

This is kind've random, but if anyone has some experience that would be great. Many moons ago I was on hormonal birth control(the pill) to lighten my period and symptoms. It made everything worse, and made me crazy, but I went from needing an hour every night to fall asleep, to taking my pill at bedtime, and being asleep in minutes. I'm wondering if anyone's had improved sleep with an IUD? And also your personal experience with your period on the IUD, the same, lighter, stopped altogether, worse? Submitted March 12, 2020 at 11:59PM This is kind've random, but if anyone has some experience that would be great. Many moons ago I was on hormonal birth control(the pill) to lighten my period and symptoms. It made everything worse, and made me crazy, but I went from needing an hour every night to fall asleep, to taking my pill at bedtime, and being asleep in minutes. I'm wondering if anyone's had improved sleep with an IUD? And also your personal experience with

Well, here is the thing. Today it was the first time i hace sex with the girl i'm currently dating. I fucked up. First of all with this experience now i'm defintely not into blowjobs. I can't feel nothing and Even is uncomfortable. Now my Main problem is that through the session my erection fell off. The anxiety of this make me overthink and didnt let me full enjoy sex. I don't know why i coudnt feel anything. Ay the beginning everything was going well. I could get erections but in intercourse i lost them. During blowjobs too. Mayber it was because i did not get lunch. Drink two beers. Or i'm desensitized because of porn. I hope she enjoy it. I did lean on giving her oral, fingering, kissing, etc and it looked like she enjoyed. This is devastating man. Submitted March 13, 2020 at 12:01AM Well, here is the thing. Today it was the first time i hace sex with the girl i'm currently dating. I fucked up. First of all with this experience now i'm defintely n

How do y’all deal with a partner that doesn’t have the same sex drive? I love him to death and there is nothing I would do for him. I’m a 38 (F) and he is a 33 (M) I would love to fuck EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. and have to play with my self and watch porn on down days but GOD would love his D every day! Please help Submitted March 13, 2020 at 12:07AM How do y’all deal with a partner that doesn’t have the same sex drive? I love him to death and there is nothing I would do for him. I’m a 38 (F) and he is a 33 (M) I would love to fuck EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. and have to play with my self and watch porn on down days but GOD would love his D every day! Please help

I don't really know how else to approach this subject so I'll just spell it out plainly; sucking dick is basically my favorite thing in the world. Its kind of hard to describe tbh, its just that something about it feels so wonderful. When Im down there doing my thing, and hes rock hard and twitching, and Im taking him balls deep again and again, and I can taste the little droplets of precum on my tongue telling me Im doing a good job, Im just so fucking HAPPY. It feels so right and so lovely and I cant get enough. Ill pull him out of my mouth just to rub his cock all over my face, suck his balls for a bit, before diving right back in for more. I love cum as well, and not just the 'better tasting' versions of it. Even if its salty and bitter, I dont care, when I get into that headspace it just tastes like cotton candy to me. I love to swallow of course. The first guy I ever blew, he straddled my chest while I layed on my back, and when those first hot jets of gooey spu

I'm 22 and always feel like super awkward during foreplay I want to know if I'm normal and okay. So usually we're cuddling and spooning and he starts feeling up my legs and thighs and then fingers me. I usually stay spooning while this is happening. It then progresses and we make out for awhile and then have sex. I do give blow jobs, but not every time we have sex. Sex has always been kinda awkward for me because I don't want to be bad or be judged by how I look and preform. Am I ok or could I be doing more? This is so embarrassing for me honestly, so please don't be mean Submitted March 13, 2020 at 12:13AM I'm 22 and always feel like super awkward during foreplay I want to know if I'm normal and okay.So usually we're cuddling and spooning and he starts feeling up my legs and thighs and then fingers me. I usually stay spooning while this is happening. It then progresses and we make out for awhile and then have sex. I do give blow jobs, but not ev

I have ED, and I'd like a cock ring to help out with that. I've improvised before with just a rubber band, and it worked pretty well, but I guess I had to have it on kinda tight. So I decided to order some real cock rings, and I got a few in different sizes and styles to try out, but none of them seem tight enough. I know I don't have a massive member, but I know it's not small either, so I'm kinda surprised that everything I bought was on the large side. For reference, the ED makes getting a super accurate measurement a little tricky, but when I tried I was about 5.25-5.5" in circumference. I thought I was getting rings for my size, but apparently not. So am I doing something wrong? Is my ED just so bad that a cock ring won't help? Am I doomed, lol? Submitted March 13, 2020 at 12:16AM I have ED, and I'd like a cock ring to help out with that. I've improvised before with just a rubber band, and it worked pretty well, but I guess I had to hav

I'm 19 and this is really only the second person I've went on a proper date with. I went out on a first date today and it felt like it was going really well! We were saying goodbye at the end of the night, we hugged and when we came out of the hug It just felt right for a kiss and I really wanted to but I got nervous... So I just asked "can I kiss you?" and she kind of giggled and said "yeah" but now I'm a bit paranoid that was a really lame thing to do because I know people like people who take charge.. Submitted March 12, 2020 at 11:53PM I'm 19 and this is really only the second person I've went on a proper date with. I went out on a first date today and it felt like it was going really well! We were saying goodbye at the end of the night, we hugged and when we came out of the hug It just felt right for a kiss and I really wanted to but I got nervous... So I just asked "can I kiss you?" and she kind of giggled and said "ye

I recently had the guts to ask out a girl I had a crush on for a while. So my issue was till this point was that I used to be morbidly obese. So I never wanted to ask a girl out because I knew I would be more of a hindrance than a person they would love. I wanted to change the gameplay of my life and told my food addiction "fuck you, I control how I look, not you" and lost 100 pounds in 6 months so I wouldn't be a hindrance and look more attractive. I went and told my crush that she was one of the biggest inspiration for me to lose weight and that I would like to ask her out on a date. She said yes, and now we are officially in a relationship. Submitted March 12, 2020 at 11:59PM I recently had the guts to ask out a girl I had a crush on for a while. So my issue was till this point was that I used to be morbidly obese. So I never wanted to ask a girl out because I knew I would be more of a hindrance than a person they would love. I wanted to change the gameplay of m

I’ve even talking to this girl for a few weeks and we were just chatting when she stopped replying at around the time she goes to bed so I say goodnight and all is cool , about an hour or so later I was talking to my best friend and I wanted to send them a meme I had sent to the girl so I was trying to find it in the chat just scrolling up and the girl starts typing so I’m like oh crap I look like a stalker or something so I explained what I was doing she said dw it’s chill but then she took two screenshots of the chat , I asked what’s up why’d you screenshot and she said she was taking a shot of a meme I sent but idk it just seems too much of a coincidence ... what do you guys think ? Submitted March 13, 2020 at 12:03AM I’ve even talking to this girl for a few weeks and we were just chatting when she stopped replying at around the time she goes to bed so I say goodnight and all is cool , about an hour or so later I was talking to my best friend and I wanted to send them a meme

When I was in high school I had a girlfriend. It was a good relationship and all, but eventually I went back to guys and am usually comfortable with guys. I’ve always found women attractive, but always told myself I liked dick enough to be with a guy. Guys haven’t always been that great to me, but I think I prefer a relationship with them? I don’t know. Recently I’ve felt insanely attractive towards women. This one girl from my high school on Instagram recently left a 2 year long relationship with her boyfriend for this equally beautiful girl. They seem very into each other and they just look so good together. She definitely was a crush on high school, but the type you admire from a far because I would never. I’m happy for her, but once again I’m eying them both from the sidelines. Ever since she came out, I’ve been thinking more and more about how attractive women are. I would love to just cuddle with a women and kiss her, but I’m not sure about the sex. I also just don’t know how

It's intriguing I suppose. Although a little weird too. Like why wait until it is entirely irrelevant to then tell me about what could have actually been something. Is it some kind of flex? Putting people in your orbit? Dunno for sure. Share with me your thoughts and/or stories! Submitted March 13, 2020 at 12:08AM It's intriguing I suppose. Although a little weird too. Like why wait until it is entirely irrelevant to then tell me about what could have actually been something. Is it some kind of flex? Putting people in your orbit? Dunno for sure.Share with me your thoughts and/or stories!

I met this girl back in July, and we hit it off really well. She told me she was getting feelings for me and I was too but I told her I needed some time to think on it because of the situation that was happening at the time. I gave it a couple weeks and then finally told her I wanted to make things official, and it went great after that for awhile. We went out, we stayed at eachothers homes and did things together. Then slowly things started getting more and more distant. Less talking, less seeing eachother, less intimate time. I’ve asked to go on dates and it’s always yes but then we don’t do it. It seems the more I want to be around her the more she pulls away. She’s going through things and I get that but it’s so frequent that it just feels like it’s almost an excuse to not have to commit to the relationship and to have a reason to be distant. She gets mad at me because I second guess everything in the relationship but her actions make me feel like a burden. If I bring it up thoug

Many people don't have the courage to cold approach women. In fact, many people fear the rejection. What I suggest is to look at it from a different angle, if you are able to apologize when you are in the wrong in any situation then this can transcend into you being courageous to approach women. What I mean by this is that we are humans and humans are creatures of habit. If you get the skills to be brave and say you are sorry when necessary for making a mistake, then those skills will help you develop and blossom in the relationship field. It may be hard at first but then practice does make perfect. Just make sure to remember that everyone gets rejected sometimes. EVEN ME. Submitted March 13, 2020 at 12:14AM Many people don't have the courage to cold approach women. In fact, many people fear the rejection.What I suggest is to look at it from a different angle, if you are able to apologize when you are in the wrong in any situation then this can transcend into you bein

Hey reddit! I've met this girl a couple months ago. Let's call her E. We are both seniors in high school, but do not go to the same school. The way we met is through a mutual friend; she was invited to join our DnD campaign. Fast forward to today, we are pretty chill with each other, and hang out a lot. We created a band together and meet every week to do music/hang out. ~5 hours every week. She is really busy, so we dont really get to text or talk beyond that, but she responds to me whenever she is available and we exchange jokes, memes, small talk, etc. I really like this girl. I think I might actually love her. She makes me feel peaceful, open, and happy, and I feel like she also has an interest in me. When I make excuses to touch her hands or talk to her, she reciprocates, and I even acted flirty last time we met, which she smiled at. So, as we approach Sunday (our next meeting), I think I want to be open with her and tell her about my feelings. I've written four

I (22/F) have been seeing someone (32/M) for several months. After three months of I asked him whether he wanted to pursue something further/keep seeing other people/keep seeing each other. He answered with "we'll never do anything beyond casual dates and sex," and that he doesn't want to become emotionally intimate. After hearing this, I told him that doesn't work for me. That I'm looking for someone who will commit to me and intimacy is very important to me and that we should just be friends. Since then, it feels like every time we've hung out, he gets physical with me (touching, kissing) and we end up having sex. We have had numerous conversations where both of us reiterate what we want, how it's incompatible, and I just feel like I cave every time. Typing this out, I think I know the answer, that we can't be friends. I feel so stupid for having this happen over and over when I know what's best for me. Has anyone else had to deal with t